Narrator: Lu Hui
Age: 38 years old
Occupation: company director
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My name is Lu Hui. When I was a child, my family was average. My father drives a truck and my mother works at home to subsidize the family. I have a younger brother and a younger sister. You can imagine how much pressure my parents have.
As the boss of the family, the children of poor families have been in charge since childhood, and I have been very sensible since I was a child.
Help parents share housework, take their brothers and sisters to play, and give them anything delicious, never asking too much. More importantly, I have been studying well.
My relatives and friends gave me thumbs up, and I got more praise than children of my age. Parents with children at home also educate their children to learn from me.
Although my family is not rich, I grew up in a loving environment and have always been a confident and positive person.
Until the first day of my freshman year, all my self-confidence turned into inferiority. In my small place, I introduced myself in front of so many classmates, stuttering, nonstandard Mandarin, blushing and nervous.
Although my classmates and class teacher just laughed quietly, my self-esteem was hurt.
There is a girl in the crowd. When I suddenly looked at her, only she didn't make fun of me. In this way, I fell in love with Li Bing, love at first sight.
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Li Bing is fair and beautiful, with a height of 165CM, which stands out from the crowd. She is beautiful and has temperament at first sight.
He is the boss of the company, his mother is the dean of the hospital, and his grandparents are retired. His family conditions are very good. After a long time, everyone knows that Li Bing is a Jiao Jiao girl and a little princess.
Li Bing usually wears famous brands, and was told by her classmates that a skirt costs thousands of dollars. This is my living expenses for one semester.
I am well aware that there is a gap between me and ice, so I never expect to be with her one day.
For four years in college, I have always had a crush on Li Bing, always peeking at her inadvertently. But her eyes never stopped for me.
Li Bing changed six boyfriends during her college years. Those boys are either handsome or rich at home. I have neither. I don't even talk to her.
Bing sits in the first row of our graduation photo group, which is the closest row to her. That photo accompanied me in many difficult days.
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After graduation, I went to work in a big company, and my salary was better than that of other peers. Many students are still investing in resumes in Haitou, and I am lucky to have a firm foothold in the company.
I heard that Li Bing works in a bank and is going to marry someone introduced by his family. I couldn't find peace of mind, so I kept her in my heart. I haven't heard much from her since.
I put all my thoughts on my work, because only in this way can I earn more money to change my situation and improve my family's living standards.
I have my own responsibilities. My parents worked hard to send me to school. I should repay them.
It took me four years to buy a house, a car and live with my parents. I am very pleased to see the proud smile on the old man's face.
When I was 30, I married my colleague's sister. My wife is five years younger than me. She has good facial features, a small family and a gentle personality. Such a girl is a good wife and mother at first sight.
My wife agreed to live with my parents, and I have a good relationship with my brother-in-law. Of course I'm happy to marry her.
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Mom and dad like this very much. They get along like parents and daughters. They praised me for being blessed. My mother often says so, telling me to cherish it.
My wife is really doing well. Although she is very tired from work, she will take the lead in doing any housework when she comes home from work. She is very diligent.
The old man talks a little long-winded. Sometimes my mother is in a bad mood and says a few words about her. My wife doesn't talk back. She just smiles and apologizes to the old man.
On weekends, she will take time to take her parents around, see the beautiful scenery, eat delicious food and buy new clothes for the elderly.
To tell you the truth, I was too busy at work to be careful. I seldom take the old people out after they come. They are too timid to go out and get lost in big cities.
Besides, my wife does things fairly. Anyway, with my parents, I will be just like my parents.
Besides being filial to her parents-in-law, she is also very kind to me. No matter how busy I am eating and how late I come back, I won't ask questions. Offered me a glass of lemonade to sober me up. How smelly the socks are. She doesn't mind taking them off for me.
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In the third year after marriage, my wife gave birth to twins, and the whole family was very happy.
Mom and dad always say that it's uncomfortable here and there. After having grandchildren, they are full of energy in everything they do. The whole family is full of joy, even the child's crying is beautiful.
For a while, I also tried to get rid of some unnecessary entertainment and go home to enjoy this rare family happiness. I love my two children very much, and they like me as a father.
When the child was 3 months old, his wife came back to work. I told her to resign. Anyway, I earn enough to give my family a good life.
But she was disobedient and insisted on going to work. She also said that women should be independent and not lose contact with the outside world. These words are sophistry, and they have not done their duty.
On that occasion, my wife and I had the most heated argument ever. Life is like this, isn't it? It is so boring.
I can't help thinking of Bai Yueguang in my mind. I don't know if she is doing well. If I have the chance to be with her, I will live like a husband and wife.
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At the age of 36, I became an executive of the company, and my career success made me feel great satisfaction.
Mom and Dad, my son and daughter are the most important people to me. If only my wife was Bai Yueguang Bing in my mind.
I think too much, and my heart hurts. I didn't expect to come to Li See again someday.
At that time, an old classmate came here on business. He met six classmates in this city, one of whom was Li Bing.
When I met Li Bing in the box, I couldn't be calm. She is still so beautiful and young.
Everyone is talking in full swing, and it is not easy to get together after graduation for so many years. Through chatting, I know that Li Bing is divorced. She has a son who lives with her ex-husband.
I asked Li Bingdao when the banquet was over. Be caring and attentive, one to two, I am with the ice.
My wife and I have no feelings and do not hesitate to ask for a divorce. She calmly asked me why I got divorced, and I told the truth.
Mom and dad disagreed, scolded me, my brother-in-law hit me, my father-in-law looked at me coldly, and my child cried.
Anyway, my wife and I divorced. My son, my daughter and her, I bought her a two-bedroom house and gave her some savings as compensation for her efforts over the years.
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Not long after the divorce, Li Bing and I got married, held a grand wedding and invited all our classmates. Many people say that it is a blessing for me to tie the knot with the university goddess.
After the marriage, Li Bing moved in to live with her. She knew that my son and parents had problems with her attitude, but she didn't take it to heart.
I was very happy when I got what I wanted. But I didn't expect to meet my flying dog.
Ice fingers don't touch springs. My mother has to let her cook and share the housework. Bing said that she needed a nanny, and her mother liked money. Bing likes to buy it in buy buy, and her mother says she spends money indiscriminately. There are more and more contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
In addition to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is also the relationship between children. After marriage, Li Bing lived with her son. Her son is about the same age as mine, and the two little guys often quarrel.
Every time I want to mediate a conflict, her son asks me, "Uncle, can I come to my mother's house?" My son asked me, "Dad, can't I play with my car at home?" Don't you love me? "
It always gives me a headache, which is more difficult to deal with than things at work. But ice is not worried at all. What should she do or what should she do? Besides, she likes to play, and often comes home late, so she doesn't look like a mother.
08
I have communicated with Li Bing, hoping that she will make changes for this family. But it's no use. She is very self-centered. Things at home have seriously affected my state, and I have some troubles at work.
Watching mom and dad pull a long face all day, and my son has been silent since he was a child, I have a lot of ideas in my heart.
I think of my ex-wife. If there is no divorce, my family should be very happy. I suddenly feel sick and miss my daughter very much. I haven't seen you for a long time.
After these days, I finally realized that ice is only suitable for being my Bai Yueguang, not my wife.
I regret it now. I wonder if it is appropriate to divorce Li Bingti. I want to get back together with my ex-wife I wonder if there is a chance.
Concluding remarks
Besides a certain emotional foundation, marriage is more about responsibility and tolerance. Life is simple, dull and so vigorous.
For the sake of Bai Yueguang in her mind, Lu Hui rejected all the efforts of a good wife and mother with an emotionless sentence. Such a man is too cool thin. Later, he married Ren Bing as he wished, thinking that he would live happily. Little did he know that imagination was quite different from reality. Lu Hui finally regretted it. I don't know if I can get my old happiness back. Only he knows this.
Please remember, you live a life of fireworks, you are a layman, and you have a certain sense of responsibility to your parents, partners and children.
The above is related to my wife's regret that she is five years older than me, and it is about Li Bing's sharing. After watching the Korean drama, my wife got married. I hope this will help everyone!