She doesn't want to be the kind of person she hates most. By disgusting people, she means women who spend money on men because they are young and beautiful.
She said she wouldn't be cheated. Although she is short of money, her soul won't allow her to betray herself. At the same time, because of working in a bar, she saw many things clearly. Bing Bing said that she has to make money by her own efforts and earn a lot of money. It is only because of women who have no money that she is easily fooled by rich people.
Among the guests who often come to the bar, one person is very kind to Bingbing. At first, he always asked Bingbing to bring her wine, and occasionally invited Bingbing to drink, but these were rejected by Bingbing.
On Bing Bing's birthday, the man directly ordered 999 yuan roses in the bar. After Bing Bing had to accept them, she just stuffed the money into the man's pocket. She said that she never accepts gifts from men and doesn't like men.
Saying that you don't like men is Bing Bing's excuse. She just doesn't want him to have any dreams about himself. The man really believed that Bing Bing was gay, and he stayed away from Bing Bing from now on.
However, it didn't take long for him to make eyes at another waiter in the bar, using the same method as when watching ice and ice before. When the girl accepted the flowers he sent, she nodded and became his girlfriend. The next day, she resigned, and the man seldom came to this bar.
However, less than two months later, Bingbing saw the girl sitting in the corner of the bar drinking. She told Bingbing that the man had cheated him. She thinks he is really good to her because he is willing to spend money on her. But in fact, this man has many girlfriends like her. What is even more exasperating is that the man put these women together and watched them jealous of each other. At first, the girl was a little angry, but later she was happy and broke up with him.
She said that the man knew that he had only a few stinking money, so he was comfortable playing with his feelings.
Bing Bing said that a man who is willing to spend money for a woman may not really love her. People are not short of money. Those pennies mean nothing to them at all. On the contrary, the less money a woman has, the easier it is for a rich man to cheat her.
This is just an example that Bing Bing has seen. Although Bingbing works here, she usually doesn't talk much, but she knows many stories. Because she doesn't like to talk and gossip, someone wants to talk to Bingbing.
One of the regulars in the bar is a woman in her early thirties, but she is thin and gaunt and looks much older than her age. She said that her man had been lost, or that she didn't want her.
When the woman said this, she picked up a cigarette and smoked it. Bingbing saw her disappointed heart. The woman said that she had just graduated and met a man. At that time, the man opened a trading company. This company is small, but very mature.
The man is very talented and has many foreign customers. That year, she submitted a resume for recruiting receptionists. Unexpectedly, the man called her personally the next day, but she didn't ask her to be the front desk, so she became a secretary.
He drew a big cake for a woman, saying that he would take her up a step or even several steps, so that she could travel around the world with him and learn more. No woman will be indifferent to such a man standing in front of her.
In the first month's salary, she got several times more salary than her classmates. She felt lucky to meet such a good man and went with him.
She followed him to many places that she had never dreamed of before. However, whenever she mentioned marriage, the man was silent. The man said that people should focus on their career, and his current state has not reached the standard I requested. He also hopes that she can go to by going up one flight of stairs. A woman believes a man's words, waiting for his victory and her transformation.
But who would have thought that one day a woman came to the office and said that she was the boss's wife. She's a little panicked. Like a dream, she inexplicably became a mistress who destroyed other people's families. She was originally a victim, but she couldn't wait for his explanation and was slapped twice by her boss.
Nowhere to say, she still has feelings for him, but she hates him more. She wanted an explanation, but he never went to the company after that. The woman said I was really stupid, and I thought she had met true love. She thinks that men give her a lot of money to love her, but it's just money and physical business for him.
At this time, Bingbing just poured some wine into the guest's cup. As for the rest, she knew she couldn't help. She can only be a listener, listening to the worries of their frustrated people, and then she finds some life experiences in these stories.
Most of the things that Bing Bing hears and sees are related to money. Either men cheat women with money, or women fall out with men because of money. However, these frustrated women all have one thing in common, that is, they have no money, but they meet rich men because of urgency or vanity. They thought they would become a phoenix, but they were cheated by emotional swindlers and finally by people with only unfortunate money.
Every time I hear such a story, Bingbing informs me that money is really important. She can make a woman lose her judgment and lose herself, so she should work hard to make money and make herself rich, so as not to be fooled by men casually and lose herself because of a little kindness.
Many people say that their daughters should be raised well, but they are afraid that a little kindness will be cheated away when a person is young. I think so about families with daughters.
Women must have money, but they must rely on their own talents to earn it, and they must not only have the ability to make money, but also have the ability to distinguish authenticity. Otherwise, you will encounter an emotional liar if you are not careful. After reading so many living examples, Bing Bing knows that this is much worse than the taste of lack of money.