Some people say that Dicky Cheung is the childhood and youth of many people.

Probably, in everyone's memory, there are always several plays related to Dicky Cheung.

He is the Monkey King, the most handsome the Monkey King in Journey to the West!

It's in Young Hero Fang Shiyu. I'm not afraid of anything, I'm afraid there's no fighting in Fang Shiyu!

It is in "Smart Little Don't Understand" that the argument is the smoothest!

Wei Xiaobao in Bao Xiao and Kangxi. The cool breeze blows gently, and the autumn moon is boundless. It's like a long day ...

At that time, Dicky Cheung was at its peak, red and purple!

No one expected that he experienced bankruptcy, ban and investment failure, and he was poor until the end of the month, with only 20 yuan left. I don't know whether to buy toilet paper or soy sauce.

Now 54 years old, he recalls that year. He said that he had thanked many people in his life, and two of them were the most grateful.

One is Andy Lau, who helped him pay his debts when he went bankrupt and made him make a comeback!

One is his wife, Jess Zhang, who has been with him for 22 years. She didn't dislike his bankruptcy and didn't hurt him.

At the mention of his wife, Dicky Cheung began to cry unconsciously. He said:

"When she got married, she wore a second-hand wedding dress found online. She knew that I had no money and comforted me that it was very retro and beautiful. Which woman wants to wear someone else's wedding dress at her own wedding?

So without Jess Zhang in those days, there would be no Dicky Cheung now! "

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Feelings are not bad or cheap.

Only those who are willing to give everything.

In the program "Music Time in Wei Jian" of Beijing Satellite TV, Dicky Cheung blew himself up: "When I was young, every relationship of mine was dumped, and everyone else broke up with me."

The worst time, he was injured in filming and admitted to the hospital, where he had a general anesthesia operation.

When he woke up the next day, the first thing his girlfriend said to him was, "Does it still hurt?"

He said, "Not bad."

The girlfriend's second sentence is: "Then let's break up."

Dicky Cheung was stunned and couldn't move. He said, "It's cruel, I just woke up!"

My girlfriend said seriously and realistically, "I don't want to marry a rich man, but you are too poor." I didn't say what to do. I just want to marry a husband in the future. I don't want to buy LV bags. I have to think about it for two years. " I heard that, Dicky Cheung stopped.

Afterwards, he said:

"I don't hate people, which woman doesn't want to live a good life? I was very incompetent at that time.

But I thought, why do I meet such people every time? I have a movie, and they all say they love me. If I don't have a movie, they dislike my poverty? Why do I get hurt every time? "

It was not until he met Jess Zhang that he discovered that God had made him meet so many wrong people just to give him the most precious person.

After Jess Zhang fell in love with him, he also panicked. At this time, his investment failed, he was heavily in debt and was banned. There's nothing to shoot. He was really afraid that Zhang Qian would leave him.

But slowly, he found that Jess Zhang didn't have much material thoughts at all. Instead, I sympathize with him everywhere and understand his difficulties.

When they are all at work, they are too busy to meet. The time to meet each other in a year adds up to no more than two months, but Jess Zhang never complained;

Dicky Cheung's economy is very embarrassed, and he has no money to buy a gift for Jess Zhang. He also has no money to date and eat. Jess Zhang didn't dislike it, so he followed him to a Hong Kong food stall and ate it.

Such companionship and waiting, Jess Zhang waited for six years, from the age of 24 to 30.

Dicky Cheung thought that there was such a "stupid" woman in the world. She wanted nothing, but she liked him!

So, for this woman, he will also work hard!

He had a dispute with TVB in Hongkong because of the pay of The Journey to the West's sequel. After being banned, he fled Hongkong and went to Taiwan Province Province and the mainland to work hard. No resources, no background, he risked his life to fight!

When he didn't have a chance to shoot, he went to the bar to sing and was named by the guests to sing the birthday song for 20 times.

If there is a scene, he will go on, even if his role is to jump from the height of 30 stories; Even if he needs to "burn", he will burn near the fire source from beginning to end, and his face will be disfigured if he is not careful. ...

But he will bite the bullet and do it whenever he has the chance. In this way, after being banned, he will sing and act step by step, be a Shang Yan with a big bald head, and he will come back to life!

Jess Zhang saw his efforts and hardships, and felt pain in her heart. She loved everything that Dicky Cheung carried, but she was also worried about why Dicky Cheung didn't give her a home.

Finally, Zhang Qian couldn't help looking for Dicky Cheung. She said, "I'm almost 30 years old. If you don't marry me, I'll be old. I am a very traditional woman, and I am getting married. If you don't marry me, then we can only break up. "

Facing Jess Zhang's anxious eyes, Dicky Cheung bowed his head, clenched his fist and was too nervous to speak.

Seeing Dicky Cheung's silence, Jess Zhang's heart cooled. She thought, maybe Dicky Cheung still doesn't love her enough, or why she hasn't got married after six years.

But what Jess Zhang didn't know was that Dicky Cheung didn't dare to mention marriage because he felt he didn't deserve it.

He is a single-parent family. /kloc-when he was 0/5 years old, his father left their mother and son.

As the eldest son, he began to bear all the expenses, rent, tuition and living expenses of his younger brothers at the age of 17, and he carried them all by himself.

Seeing his parents' marriage, he swore at that time that if one day he got married, he would not abandon his wife and children like his father, and he would give his favorite woman a happy home.

Therefore, he felt that he was not qualified to marry Jess Zhang.

But he deeply understands that Jess Zhang is 30 years old and really can't wait any longer. He crossed his heart and got up to find Jess Zhang.

As soon as they met, he knelt down to Jess Zhang. He said, "I love you, so I don't think I am qualified to marry you." I want to give you more, but I can't now. If you don't mind, I'll propose to you. "

Jess Zhang realized that this man didn't want to marry himself, but he didn't dare.

After learning of Dicky Cheung's sincerity, Jess Zhang leaned over and hugged Dicky Cheung, and they both wept bitterly.

The next day, they flew from Hongkong to Nanjing with Dicky Cheung's mother and brother, and got the marriage certificate.

Later, in the variety "Familiar Taste", Dicky Cheung and Iola mentioned the past.

He said emotionally, "I didn't have the money to give her a grand wedding when I got the certificate, but I know that women care about wedding dresses, but I dare not say it because I don't know how to say it." I can't say you buy a cheaper one. I have no money. "

"But one day my wife suddenly told me that she bought a wedding dress. I was shocked. She said she bought it online, second-hand, and told me that it was beautiful and retro. At that time, I was thinking, how can there be such a good person! "

It turns out that there really is a woman in this world who is willing to risk her life for Aigan. She doesn't mind that you have no money, and she doesn't mind wearing a second-hand wedding dress. She only cares about your sincerity.

There is also a man who doesn't feel that he has taken advantage of a woman after knowing that she has been wronged. On the contrary, he always feels guilty and grateful, and vows that one day, he will compensate all the beautiful women who have lost.

Dicky Cheung and Jess Zhang are such men and women.

Five years later, Dicky Cheung held a grand wedding for Jess Zhang in the famous St. Augustine Church in the Philippines, invited many star media, and customized a private wedding dress for Jess Zhang, which cost a lot of money.

He said, I want to give you a fairy-tale wedding to make up for your regret;

She replied, I would like to make my veil white and live with you forever.

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? After marriage 15 years, two miscarriages.

Husband and wife are United, and there is no big hurdle.

After getting married, Dicky Cheung lives in Hongkong and Jess Zhang lives in Peking. They are still in different places.

Many people think it's incredible that they don't live together after getting married.

In this regard, Dicky Cheung explained: "Many women will live with their husbands after marriage, but my wife has lived in Beijing since she was a child, and her family, friends and circles are all in Beijing. How can I bear her to give up everything and come back to Hong Kong with me?

Besides, I have my mother and family to take care of in Hong Kong, so I can't settle in Beijing, but I will come to see her as soon as I have time. "

From acquaintance to marriage, they have been together for 22 years, but so far, Jess Zhang still can't cook, and Dicky Cheung is not reluctant. In the face of everyone's doubts, Dicky Cheung said: "It doesn't matter, we are also very happy to eat takeaway together."

Dicky Cheung's greatest love for Jess Zhang is freedom.

Jess Zhang doesn't like cooking, so don't do it; If you don't want to live in Hong Kong, then live in Beijing. If you don't want to shoot, rest; In a word, Dicky Cheung supports what Jess Zhang wants to do and supports him to earn money to support his family.

But two seemingly happy people, the only regret in this life is that Jess Zhang had two miscarriages before and after.

In the 4th year after marriage, Jess Zhang got pregnant for the first time, in be in heaven, Dicky Cheung. He got everything ready for the baby.

In the eighth month of pregnancy, Jess Zhang suddenly felt unwell and went to the hospital. The doctor told the fetus that his heart had stopped beating in the womb.

When the bad news came, Jess Zhang burst into tears and blamed herself for not taking good care of the child, which led to the miscarriage of the child.

Dicky Cheung doesn't care about his sadness. He left all his work and stayed with Jess Zhang day and night. He said that his wife was hurt more than me, and I must wake up at once and accompany her through the difficulties.

After the first abortion, after a period of silence, they silently comforted each other. It doesn't matter, we are still young and have a chance.

In the next few years, they still didn't have children. Until the past six years, 40-year-old Jess Zhang became pregnant again. This time, they are more careful. Dicky Cheung even gave up all his jobs to take care of Jess Zhang.

Unfortunately, it was August of pregnancy, and Jess Zhang felt sick again. This time, at the doctor's suggestion, they decided to have an early caesarean section. Unexpectedly, just a few days before the scheduled operation, the fetus miscarried again. This time, not only Jess Zhang, but also Dicky Cheung collapsed.

But he is a man and knows that he can't collapse at the moment. He must support his wife to tide over the difficulties again.

This time, he immediately took Jess Zhang's dog home, bought a bunch of fashion books, watched cartoons and played video games with Jess Zhang. Jess Zhang will do anything to distract him.

He said, "As long as she can be happy 1 hour, half an hour or even 15 minutes, I will be happy."

No one can understand the pain of losing a child twice before and after. I don't know how to stand this long night.

Fortunately, both husband and wife survived, and Jess Zhang was once depressed and decadent. Finally, with the encouragement of Dicky Cheung, he faced life again and looked down on it.

Dicky Cheung believes in God. He said that every time he made a choice, God arranged it himself, tried his best and obeyed fate.

On the anniversary of their marriage 10, they took them to the "date between Lu and Yu". The husband and wife sat in front of the screen for the first time, telling the story of their first 10 marriage, with ups and downs, laughter and tears.

Lu Yu asked Jess Zhang: "Do you feel safe in marriage when you marry such an excellent man?"

Jess Zhang said honestly, "For a long time, I felt unsafe because I married an excellent man and many women liked him. But Dicky Cheung told me that no one can give you a sense of security, you can only give it to yourself.

You don't have to keep what really belongs to you, and he won't leave; If it doesn't belong to you, he will leave no matter how you keep it. You can never control anyone, you can only guarantee that you are excellent. "

Fortunately, Jess Zhang is confident and happy now. Although she gradually withdrew from the screen, she had her own career, circles and hobbies, and Dicky Cheung never failed his wife's trust.

He said: "In marriage, two people need space and trust. As long as two people trust each other and stay away from each other, no matter what they do, their feelings will not be defeated. "

Later, someone asked Dicky Cheung, "Are there any actresses you have worked with?"

Dicky Cheung smiled. He said: "No matter how vigorous love is, it will be boring one day. No matter how beautiful a girl is, her figure will be good. " Or no matter how good and perfect a person is, everyone will have shortcomings.

Well, in that case, instead of pursuing a vigorous relationship and love, it is better to find a long-lasting marriage and cherish it. "

In fact, Dicky Cheung and Jess Zhang are both ordinary people in reality.

As long as we enter marriage, we will find that marriage is not much better than love. Many times it's not so romantic, but it's a chicken feather.

But who has no contradiction? Which couple won't quarrel? Whose life can always go uphill?

In the face of these disturbances, we only need to remember one sentence: the happiness of life is not more wealth, but less desire.

Peace of mind is not as good as peace of mind, and the width of the house is not as wide as heart. As long as the husband and wife are United and the family is harmonious and beautiful, it is the greatest blessing in life.