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At what moment did you feel like Superman?
? A small group of friends have something to say. He is a doctoral student. He is usually as busy as a bee. Every day, he stays in the laboratory against time. He has never seen the sky at four o'clock in the morning, because at that time, he was staring at the research and development project in his hand. ...
In short, every day is busy except vomiting.
Unfortunately, life will never let you go just because you are tired.
More than 20 days of papers, because the computer system crashed and disappeared, small groups went to many computer repair shops, but failed to turn the tide. Seeing that the defense is imminent, there is only one solution: rewrite!
Hundreds of thousands of words of papers were knocked out word by word under the package of night.
At the end of the paper, he made a circle of friends with a huge black circle, and compared it to a winning gesture: at this moment, I really feel like a superman.
The pain is real, and it is real to get through it.
Hemingway said in A Farewell to Arms:
Life always makes us black and blue, but in the end, those injured places will definitely become our strongest places.
I have experienced it, crossed it, and I am no longer afraid. Are there any other tricks for the hardships of life? Bring it on!
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In high school, I had a friend who suffered from moderate depression. Every day, she has 1,000 reasons for not wanting to live, but she tries to find 10,000 reasons to keep her in mind, because her newly divorced mother is standing behind her.
She secretly went to see a psychiatrist by bike without telling her mother. Sometimes she really wants to ride a bike in the middle of the road. She died once and for all without pain, but she couldn't. The stormy home and the poor home have to be supported by her!
The tears shed along the way dried up at the moment I got to my door.
At that time, friends and classmates around me also intentionally or unintentionally isolated her and stayed away from her. Who will make friends with a person who is moping all day? Everyone thinks she is too melodramatic.
She also hurt herself. She tried to cut the artery. Before the imaginary picture of blood gushing out appeared, she gave herself a slap in the face: live!
Fortunately, the knife was tilted and did not cause massive bleeding.
When the poor mother rushed into the bedroom, she saw that her daughter's hand was bleeding and almost collapsed!
She said to her mother lightly, "Nothing, just a minor injury."
At that moment, her mother was very anxious, and her confusion made her very distressed.
She insisted on taking medicine, reading books about depression and treating herself, and finally overcame depression with strong perseverance.
And those who are bitter and have never suffered from depression can't feel the same.
Faithful wife, I'm glad I didn't give up on myself.
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I have a reader who is very afraid of pain. You can moan for a day or two when your feet are worn out, and cry for a month when your forehead is covered, but you are stronger than anyone when you give birth.
She was still reading Lawrence Cohen's parenting book when her water broke. Without warning, she knew she was going to have a baby.
When she arrived at the hospital, the situation was not optimistic. She was in terrible pain and kept biting her lower lip. Her eyes were full of tears, but she didn't fall down.
The inspection report came out: high-risk pregnancy!
The risk is great. If you are not careful, you may kill two people.
But my reader, who was really a superwoman at that moment, shook the obstetrician's hand and said, "A natural birth."
After the husband signed the certificate of life and death, he insisted on staying, and he wanted to accompany his strong wife through the difficulties.
Repeated contractions make readers almost faint, and even if the husband is considerate, he can't share any pain.
Readers should repeatedly say to themselves: "don't give up, we can get through it!" " ! Definitely! "
The heartbreaking cries of other pregnant women gave her the creeps. She knows that life and death are only a moment, and she still has a lot to do, so she can't die. She always encourages herself to hold on, hold on!
After 12 hours of great pain, mother and child are safe. At that moment, tears burst into my eyes: fortunately, the child is safe, but fortunately, she is still alive.
The husband has been shaking, and the moment he heard the child crying, he was even more sobbing.
The reader wants to laugh that he is weaker than himself, but he has no power.
She looked at her seven-pound son, and the loving mother's love made her feel that her suffering was worth it!
The husband tidied up her broken hair and choked and said, "wife, you are really a superman." If I were you, I really can't do it ... "
That kind of pain, I don't want to come for the second time in my life, but she thanked her strength and got a new baby.
She used to talk about having children, but now that she has passed, she thinks that's it. She even discussed with her husband to have a second child, so that the child can have a companion, and she will bear it no matter how hard and painful it is.
Seriously, I think readers are superman.
Thanks to these superwomen, life can continue and men become fathers.
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Not long ago, "Hu Weiwei, the founder of mobike, cashed in 65.438+0.5 billion yuan, and his peers are disgusted with you" exploded in the circle of friends. Many people think that their peers are strong women, even superman, and themselves, hehe.
We give ourselves chicken blood with distant goals, thinking it is motivation, but it is actually anxiety.
At what moment did you feel isolated?
At what moment did you feel that you had failed in life?
At what moment did you feel old again?
The answer is that we always seem to be dissatisfied with ourselves. We have been watching other people's wonderful lives, but we forget that we can also be superman.
At what moment did you feel like Superman?
Anyway, you should give yourself a little applause, because you are superman!
There is a saying in "The Spice Girl at the Bottom":
The biggest lie in the world is that you can't.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself. The real superman does not win every battle, but is extremely strong and brave even if life is difficult.
Don't always beat yourself with the success of others, because Superman will always live irreplaceable!