A few days ago, my mother called me and said that if you meet the right one, you can think about it. Don't be too picky, or you will be dumped at the age of 27 or 28. However, I looked at my friends around me, and everyone seemed to have no idea of falling in love or even getting married. So, I am confused.
I have heard a chicken soup before: "sweet love will always be your turn, you have to believe, you have to wait." However, I waited so long and found that everyone else had sweet love, but I didn't!
With the change of age, in fact, I have become more and more compromised about falling in love, and so has marriage. I remember a friend said, "Good love always has three things at the same time. I like you, you like me, and we are suitable for each other. Without one, it is impossible to be perfect. "
So when I was in college, I always thought that if I got married, it must be with someone I like, otherwise it would be meaningless. And I always feel that the feeling of liking can't be cultivated, which is one reason why I always insist on choosing the person I like, not the person I like.
But now that I graduated from college, everyone around me told me that it is better to choose someone who likes you, and feelings can be cultivated. So, I don't know what to do.
And now I think marriage is not only between two people, but also between two families. So, maybe when I'm around 30, I'll get married because I'm old enough.