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The doctor tiger dad chicken baby makes people sigh: the child is not lost at the starting line, but exhausted at the starting line.
Not long ago, Mr. Mao, a doctor-level tiger dad, was taken to court by his wife, Ms. Zheng, because he was too obsessed with his children's enlightenment education.

Mr. Mao and Ms. Zheng have a son and a daughter. The son is 7 years old and the daughter is 5 years old. They are in a carefree childhood.

In order not to let the children lose at the starting line, and not to embarrass the doctoral father, Mr. Mao began to teach middle school and university knowledge, classical Chinese and advanced mathematics to the children who were still in kindergarten, and asked them to study late into the night. In the process of learning, they often abuse and sometimes even beat with insulting words, which has caused serious physical and mental harm to children. The child's mother, Ms. Zheng, had to apply to the court for habeas corpus.

This kind of chicken baby incident is getting worse and worse.

This kind of chicken baby incident has been common on the Internet recently.

Some time ago, the 15 page resume of a 5-year-old boy in Shanghai became popular on the Internet. At the age of 2, he began to sing along with poetry. At the age of four and a half, he learned piano and programming. At the age of 5, he could recite hundreds of ancient poems, play football and swim, and achieved 1 1 in Go ... Do you really doubt that you can digest so many things at an early age? With so many courses to learn, can children guarantee 8 hours of sleep and 2 hours of normal play time every day? I am even more confused. Are parents forcing me to take so many courses or are children willing to take them themselves? Does the child still have a happy childhood?

What's more, a boy at the age of 10 in Hangzhou was driven to hysteria by his parents. He was crazy with fear. He trembled and became emotional at the mention of the exam. The reason is that his parents always ask him to get 100 in the exam. If he only scored 99.5, he would be scolded by his parents: Did you eat 0.5? ! I wonder if this baby is their own! This is not a chicken baby, it is a malaria baby!

What caused the more and more serious chicken baby incident?

This makes us wonder what causes these parents to neglect their children's physical and mental health at the expense of their children's childhood and happiness. The reason is that our society is too eager for quick success and instant benefit, so parents' mentality has become more and more "collective anxiety" for fear that their children will lose at the starting line.

It seems that education is successful only if children get ahead in this society. As for whether children are happy or not, happiness is second. Moreover, the richer the large and medium-sized cities, the more serious the phenomenon of "chicken baby" is, because these parents are learning and struggling in the educational competition system of survival of the fittest, and they are more worried that they will fall from the class they struggled to enter, so they are not allowed to lose their children at the starting line!

Chicken baby education may lead to terrible bitter fruit.

As Professor Zheng Qiang said in an interview with Yang Lan, the consequence of this kind of quick success and instant benefit education is that our children are not lost at the starting line, but tired at it. "

Children are forced to study again in kindergarten, primary school, junior high school and senior high school, and all their enthusiasm for learning has been squeezed dry. Reading has become a horrible thing, not a happy thing. The purpose of studying hard for ten years is to be admitted to an ideal university, so once you enter the university, no one is in charge, no one is forced, you completely lose your goal and relax completely. Some even failed to get out of the shadow of high-pressure study in the college entrance examination.

According to statistics, 24% freshmen have serious emotional or psychological problems, some have depression, hollowness and even many children commit suicide after entering the university campus …

In September of 20001year, Huang X, a freshman in environmental engineering department of Agricultural Technology College, jumped to his death, saying that he was not used to dormitory life before his death.

200165438+February, He X, a second-year graduate student in the Department of Electric Power of South China University of Technology, committed suicide by jumping off a building. According to the students, He X may be under too much psychological pressure because of his grades.

June 5438 +2002 10, Jinan University Huang X committed suicide by jumping off a building. It is understood that the reason for his suicide may be related to the pressure of the exam.

According to incomplete statistics, from 200 1 to 202 1, 28 1 college students reported suicide.

Seeing these distressing cases and shocking figures, is this what Jiwa's parents want? Many children who have been treated by chickens feel that they have no fun and cannot get the love of their parents. They think living is a tool to learn and please their parents! Therefore, children who have been experienced by chickens are more likely to have disharmonious parent-child relationship and rebellious psychology, more likely to get depression and hollow heart disease, and more likely to commit suicide!

Socrates said: Education is illumination, not indoctrination.

Adults are more important before Jackie Chan becomes a phoenix! It is especially important to be a happy person! Everything in the world has its time, and pulling out the seedlings can only backfire and even lead to bitter results! Therefore, we should be people who ignite the enthusiasm, creativity and happiness of life for our children! Not the executioner who kills the child's nature and enthusiasm!