Maybe it's too reasonable. It looks cold. Looks ruthless. It killed.
All the goodness and beauty in human nature. But there is neither a hidden "glorious side" nor a hidden "unbearable side" in human nature. The so-called feasibility means that we are willing to approach things that are beneficial to us and instinctively avoid things, which makes us. At the same time, when we are close to our own fun, we will enjoy a good feeling in our hearts; When we are forced to get tired of things, we naturally hate them.
Looking back on your own words, a person is not this primitive animal instinct. When we know this, when some people do something, of course, we can eliminate many indiscriminate stimuli and increase some knowledge and understanding. The most direct and effective way to get to know a person is to try to talk to him. A person can express his "voice" through language, but he should pay attention to communication and communication. Some skills and methods. First of all, we should be good at listening and create an atmosphere for each other to express their wishes.
Whether it is a formal conversation or a daily chat, we should first establish a relaxed and happy atmosphere so that the other party can express themselves. At the same time, putting yourself on the audience list is not only a dependence on the other party, but also a respect and a willingness to spit. And you can stay rational and calm, so that you can track and analyze the things behind the voice information more objectively. For those insincere men, when we have in-depth communication on a topic, on the one hand, we will cover up "left and right", on the other hand, we will soon talk about "until there is no privileged voice". Expose your hypocrisy.
Pay attention to body language when catching each other. However, many times, language can be completely modified and deceived. Psychologically speaking, body language is often more like a person's mouth. Because it is often conscious, it is the fastest and most direct response to the current situation in the atmosphere. Therefore, although we should pay attention to the content of the conversation, we should also learn to explain each other's psychological activities. Among them, "eyes" are the innermost. Psychologists' experimental research shows that, generally speaking, liars often fly and dare not face their opponents' eyes.
This is also a man who does not love you. He seldom wants to look you in the eye for a long time. On the contrary, when a man faces his beloved woman, his eyes are not instantaneous, but full of tenderness and love. Third, observe men's behavior. In addition, we can also spy on each other's mathematical activities by observing non-phonetic information. After all, it depends on what he did, not what.
This is a large part, because they have relatively confidential self-knowledge, so it is easy to "cheat" those girls who often feel inferior, and even lack enough attention and love in the process of growing up, so good people are good people when facing a speech, and they are easily moved and degraded. However, when you provide everything, "people who just want to play" have been evaded by various excuses and competitions. Psychological research shows that a person's facts are not only the information expressed by his oral language, but also the information is more like his original place of origin. Regardless of this behavior, he took immediate action.