Yuanyuan Liu

One day I asked my brother seriously, why do you think I can't get married? My brother looked at my face and answered me more seriously. Don't you know that you are ugly? I said I don't know. He said that many things in this world are related to looks. For example, was Cinderella chosen by the prince because she was poor? That's because she is good-looking.

But can't ugliness be saved? The first typical girl with a crooked face forwards wonderful quotations on Weibo every day. For example, I will be unreasonable, nagging, crying and arguing with you. I'm just like Monroe, but if a man can't handle my worst, she doesn't deserve my best. I just want to see if you still care about me. Every time I see such words, I feel it's great to say them. That's the feeling. Have to comment on forwarding. You can dump such a girl. The second kind is a pseudo-female man. Now, whenever a woman is rude, she thinks she is a woman. In fact, everyone really misunderstood. The three words "female man" stand for gentleness, while "Han" stands for skill. Every time you gently remind them, the other party will bring out the pattern of domineering and leaking, and then scold you for being hypocritical and mean, questioning you and saying that you dare to be yourself. I want to ask them if I can.

Relatives and friends often tell you that you can't find a boyfriend because your standards are too high. Don't trust them. What they mean is that you simply don't deserve the standard man you like. An ugly orange, he will try to sweeten it, because he is ugly. Aren't we ashamed of our efforts? The standard man you like always tries to sweet talk because he is ugly. Are we still ashamed not to try? Finally, I'll give you four words: Sometimes you have to have something in life and you have to stick to it all the time. If you want to find someone who is not afraid of ugliness, you will have a boyfriend if you work hard.

The second time: facing an unsuccessful life

Li Yuanyuan, Ma Weiwei.

How to face an unsuccessful life? First of all, what is an unsuccessful life? I don't think you, including everyone at the scene, can say that your life is an unsuccessful life, because your life is not over at all. As long as we don't die, we just have a failure in life. No one can say that your life is an unsuccessful life.

Yuanyuan tells us that as long as people are not dead, it is impossible to judge success or failure. The popular chicken soup for the soul often tells us that as long as we persist and work hard, we will succeed. If we fail, everyone has different standards for success. As long as you have spiritual satisfaction, it is also a success. I don't know what the self-deception ability of all of you here is, but I will always find that in this play of life, I am not the protagonist, but a walk-on.

I am a walk-on in your life and all of you, but I am the protagonist of my own life, so when I fail and get booed by the audience, I can and must sing alone. Yes, I'm from Peking University, but in high school, no one thinks I'm a poor student, the kind who didn't do his homework and passed the 180 exam in the whole grade. Then one day, the poor student suddenly wanted to enter Peking University, and then worked hard like a psychopath, but I still failed the college entrance examination. Some people say that you failed. Did I fail? How easy it is to admit defeat is much easier than that kind of persistence and patience day after day. But I don't believe it. Four years later, I returned to Peking University for postgraduate study. Therefore, a person has never tried anything, never done anything risky, never worked hard for anything, and never failed. He is not qualified to fail, but you are different. You have dreamed and sent it. You have loved, hated and regretted. Therefore, as an ordinary person among all sentient beings, you have tried your best to live the best life. Who is qualified to say that your life is unsuccessful?

The success rate is actually extremely low. After all, monkeys know that it is the instinct of every animal to climb trees with more bananas, weigh the gains and losses, and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. But do you know that the pursuit of this almost hopeless success is what distinguishes us from other animals? Because you are almost doomed to fail, every day you expect success is full of a kind of happiness called anxiety. When you try your best to fail, you will know that your life has never been wasted, because it is wasted on ideals.

Every ideal is worth your life. Life is so short, I choose to be a blind and enthusiastic fool. I will always be young and always have tears in my eyes. I will always believe in dreams, the meaning of hard work, and that regret is more terrible than failure, because an unsuccessful life is only imperfect, but it is complete.

Tagore said, "Birds fly through the sky without leaving a trace." But my friend, you know, you should know that you have flown in this sky.

The third time:

What can young people do for the world?

Yuanyuan Liu

I am a student of law school, and my professor in every class once said this in his class. They often say that the law stipulates this, but in real life ... "Real life is a very magical life. In real life, honest people who respect the rules are often unknown all their lives, but those who cheat will eventually gain fame and fortune, so young people like me often have experienced predecessors. What I want to ask is what we young people can do for the world. One day, the president of the bank will be born after 90, the entrepreneur will be born after 90, and even the president will be born after 90. When the whole society is occupied by the post-90s generation, I want to ask you post-90s generation, what do you want to become in this society?

I know that not everyone can be the kind of person who stands at the forefront and masters the destiny of the country. You and I are both ordinary people, a small screw in this huge social machine. Every day when I am studying, I am told by my parents not to delay my study. When I graduated, I sent my resume everywhere, waiting for a company to admit me; Forced to get married and buy a house on holidays, we have to use the best 20 years of our youth to repay the loan, so that every young person is busy living a life without dreams, and has no time to care about politics, the environment and the fate of the country, and has no energy to do anything for this society. But later, I found that there is one more thing that you and I can do. The thing is that our generation must not get worse when they are old. In the future, if you go to the roadside to set up a stall, you can't sell gutter oil snacks. Start a factory as a boss in the future, don't cut corners and produce some inferior products. Being a good person in an ordinary post is very, very important for every ordinary person, because each of us is destined to change the world when we are born.

I am a law student. If I am a fair and strict judge in the future, then the society will be better because of having a good judge. I hope everyone will remember that even if you are given 100,000 reasons to do evil, you should keep your integrity and bottom line. There is only one reason, that is, you are not an animal, but a human being. I hope that all of us born in the 1990s can become those rare young people, hate evil all our lives and never go with the flow. You will never bow your head, never give up your principles, and never be disappointed in human nature. So, my dear post-90s generation, if those people tell you again in the future, "Don't dislike young people, you should adapt to this society." At this time, you should face him like a real warrior. You tell him, "I'm not like you. I'm not here to adapt to society. I am here to change society. "

The fourth time: "Please fall in love for the purpose of not getting married."

Yuanyuan Liu

It is said that everyone once had a crush on others. Do you remember the person you secretly loved when you were seventeen or eighteen? Is he the kind of Shen Jiayi who studies well and looks handsome, or the kind of Rukawa Kaede who loves playing basketball and is particularly cool? Think of him now, is it a smile or silence, or do you think that what you wanted in those days was just that? I found that when we are most willing to love someone, it is just the time of unrequited love.

I have had a crush on a boy since my sophomore year. This is an exciting thing. Every time I see him talking to him, I try to smile. I'm afraid he knows, I'm afraid he doesn't know, and I'm even more afraid he knows but pretends not to know. Secret love is also a lonely thing. I think his name is only safe in my mouth. Do you think there is pure friendship between boys and girls? (No) Yes, as long as one of them is killed and doesn't say anything, the other one will play the fool to the end. I played the role of his most loyal friend from beginning to end. Every time he needs help, I am the first to rush in. He said I know him best. Why don't I understand him? No one knows him better than I do. I know he likes that petite girl. I started to lose weight from a fat man weighing 120 kilograms, and lost 10 kilograms. He often praises me as the kind of sensible girl. Yes

What about you? Do you still remember the feeling that you like to die alone? One day, when you fall in love with someone, it suddenly seems that you have a soft spot, as if you have armor. Perhaps after several injuries and unforgettable love, they become smarter, more rational and more skilled. But I want to ask you, do you really not believe in love? Then why do you cry after watching Titanic and Love Story in Beijing? You really like being smart.

If a person is hurt in love because of true love and deep love for others, does he look stupid? Is it sad? No, those who consider all kinds of conditions to get married, only to find that they have no memory of love when they get married. Love never seems to have happened. I think those talents are pathetic, so I hope we can try to love another person like a girl of seventeen or eighteen, instead of getting married. I love him so much in my heart, he can't hear me, I love him so much, he can't see me, but I love him like a lonely Sivir, so embarrassed and so brave, and I want to remember it until the day I die. I think it's precious. I think it's beautiful. I won't regret it.

If someone tells me that I love you to get married, or that I love you to get married, then he looks down on me, and he also looks down on my love, because for an idealistic girl who is 23 years old and can't be grounded, it's terrible not to get married all her life, but what's even more terrible is that some people have been married all their lives, but they have never been loved.

Ask for adoption, dear ~