He calls himself Shun, a freelance writer, a radio host, and an emotional commentary expert in CCTV's "Half the Sky" column. Constellation: Taurus Blood Type: Type A In 2004, Yu Shunshun started her blog career and wrote columns for many paper media. She is famous for her blog. She made 1000 online Q&A columns about love and marriage feelings, specifically for those who are confused about love and marriage to answer questions for free. She was honored as "intimate sister" and "female bodhisattva" by netizens. Her writings on sexual feelings are frequently seen in newspapers all over the country, and she has been interviewed by Phoenix Satellite TV, CCTV and other media, and has published a series of books, such as "Sexual relationship never takes off and never changes color", 1, 2, 3, "Love diving" and "Don't eat love as a meal". She is an emotional blogger sought after by many netizens in Sohu.com and Sina.com, and also a special guest of many TV emotional programs.
Yu Shunshun Sina blog, what man is suitable for being a husband?
It is very important to find a man who loves himself, followed by the conditions for choosing a man. Of course, men's conditions should not be underestimated. You can't treat street vagrants as your best spouse, and you can't treat men who have bad habits such as pornography, gambling, lying and violence as lifelong companions. For the average male in the crowd, you have to identify what specifications he is. Some specifications are definitely not suitable for your special type, so leave him alone. Don't neglect other aspects that are not to your taste just because he can still meet your needs in some aspects. Before choosing a man, you should be clear about your needs for your spouse in marriage and avoid men who can't meet your needs and will bring you a lot of trouble, so that you can get close to happiness. In order to help many wives identify men, Yishun summarized several popular men at present, which is convenient for you to seek as needed:
Phoenix man-this kind of man was born in poverty. He has been diligent since he was a child and is highly valued by his family. His family has no financial resources and lives by farming. His brothers and sisters don't say much. His relatives and friends haven't left the country yet, but they have all entered the city. He has a good life on earth, even if you have a mortgage. His family scrimped and saved, so he gave up a college student and even higher education. It's not easy for him to be where he is today. It is wrong to think that he ignores his family and does not repay his parents, brothers and sisters.
But the problem is that the Phoenix man has too many poor relatives, and the poor pit at home is too big. If you help him with this, you have to help him with that. If you give this to that, you will soon find that it is not only difficult for you to find him by "relying on the sweetness of men", but also you have become the target of his family's needs-whether you can afford it or not, you have to take care of it and give it, otherwise you will be the bad guy in the eyes of him and his family.
Moreover, this is particularly important. Phoenix man is the darling of feudal families. When he was a child, he only studied and did not do housework. After he marries you, he won't see that all your money and efforts for his family are in vain. He will only use his old mother, a great and hardworking old mother who can be listed as a heroine, as an example, and ask you to catch up with your studies and do all the housework well. You can't do it. He felt wronged and his life was not good.
Once he has money, you will definitely be rejected or even abandoned by him, because he is not diligent enough. If he can't make a fortune, you will still be unlucky: you will continue to make selfless and fearless contributions to him and his family until you die-you will be missed by him before you die. What he missed was mainly your pension. Well, most Phoenix men are stingy and pay close attention to money. Be thrifty with him when you are alive, and never mix with him after you die.
Shi Jing men-affordable men, you can live by their names, can't you? Men in Shi Jing belong to the masses in the crowd, and there are no particularly good conditions to show off, nor are there too bad conditions to ease. Those who follow the rules in school can easily become Shi Jingren. Their characteristics are relatively family-oriented and relatively earning money.
The men who are suitable for this job are all men who are "greater than the upper class and less than the lower class". Although there is no big prospect, the income is stable, and I can barely afford the house and raise the baby. If they are lucky enough to meet an older peacock girl in the city, with the proper support of their families, their little life is also very interesting: because they don't have much skill, they don't fantasize about finding a beautiful and talented wife; And their industry is often a mental labor department, which is relatively strong at the grassroots level. For Xiaojiabiyu, men's soccer is enough. Diamond Male, who is too rich, can't control and hook up, and Phoenix, who is too short of money, can't cope and can't accept it.
Men who are suitable for business are generally boring, because most of them work in offices and engage in technology, so it is difficult to have a ups and downs of house life, so that they are used to playing online games, watching football matches or searching for pornography to engage in online dating. When they meet a particularly unrestrained girl, he can immediately think that the boring life can be reshuffled, but in the end, they will face a semi-bankrupt situation. Shi Jing man's realistic brain immediately played a role: he would choose to go home voluntarily and convert to the marriage castle. This is related to their style of seeking stability and seeking truth, so men in Shi Jing are more popular at present. Better than Phoenix Men, they don't have such a big pit for women to fill, and they are not easy to appear as nouveau riche-people who are always stable and easy to be accepted by women.
However, once the right men encounter economic crisis and are laid off or dismissed, they will easily collapse in a short time, because their lives have never experienced such great ups and downs; Apart from my existing major, I can't basically engage in other industries, and it is difficult to change careers and re-employment. Women often regret that they didn't choose a Phoenix man with relatively poor conditions at this time. Phoenix man has suffered at least, and it is not easy to compromise with life.
Low-carbon man-said to be "a man who advocates saving a low-carbon life", Shun thinks that low-carbon man should be a man who has nothing to want. If the economy is strong, even savings are relative to income, but if you are not rich, you will not consume and insist on self-abuse. Low-carbon men are forced to be low-carbon and have no money to buy a car. Of course, they have to walk and squeeze buses, which reduces carbon emissions. No money to buy clothes, of course, a piece of clothing for three years, of course, reduce the pollution of the printing and dyeing industry; There is no money to eat raw seafood, of course, we have to eat simple meals, which of course protects rare populations.
But how many low-carbon men are willing to live a low-carbon life all their lives? How many women are willing to live with a low-carbon man who wants nothing? Therefore, low-carbon men don't seem to be popular, so I won't waste my breath on analysis, but I want to remind older women, especially those who have been hurt by love and have more money, to focus on low-carbon men: it's relatively safe to find him, and he will be good to you for the sudden high-carbon life-don't be afraid of men taking advantage of you. I can't get anything, why should I find you?
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It can also be found directly in the grassroots blog column of Sohu blog page. In addition, Yu Shunshun now lives in Weifang, Shandong Province, and is also the host of the evening emotional program "Ten Nights Talk" of Weifang Radio FM933.