There is a warm-hearted aunt in our community. She is a famous matchmaker nearby, and many couples near the street are arranged by her. She has always adhered to a principle when connecting the bridge approach, that is, the door is right. If the strength of two people in all aspects is too different, then their concept level is definitely not equal, and if they live together, they will have constant friction. I quite agree with this aunt, but now people pay attention to the right match, not the family conditions, but the three views of two people.
My friend Xiao Ming is the most beautiful one in our dormitory, but her feelings have always been unsatisfactory. When I was in college, Xiao Ming talked about an object, which was the vice chairman of the student union. Two people are handsome men and beautiful women. But in the end, I couldn't escape the curse of graduation, because my boyfriend wanted to work hard in a big city, and Xiaoming didn't like the fast pace of big cities and chose to stay in his hometown for development. Because Xiao Ming has a junior college education, there are many obstacles when looking for a job. Finally, after a lot of resumes, Xiao Ming found a fairly good job.
Because of the nature of his work, Xiao Ming has little contact with the opposite sex, and Xiao Ming has not completely come out of his last relationship, so he has been single. Xiao Ming doesn't think there is anything wrong with being single. It's that she sometimes wants to be an unmarried person, but Xiaoming's parents are very sad, because girls of Xiaoming's age are married, and some even have children. How can parents not worry when they look at their single daughter?
Xiaoming's parents asked relatives and friends to introduce many people with good conditions. Xiao Ming didn't like it, so he pushed them all away. If she can't get rid of them, she will bite the bullet and meet them. She didn't even sit down for a drink. Later, her mother was ill and hospitalized, and her mother was still worried about her lifelong events. At this moment, Xiao Ming felt very guilty and immediately told her mother that she was willing to go on a serious blind date.
After leaving the hospital, my mother asked my sister to introduce an object to Xiaoming. Before meeting her, my mother said happily, "Silly daughter, I heard your aunt Wang say that this young man is excellent. He is not only handsome, but also highly educated. He is a doctoral student. You must cherish it. " Looking at his mother's happy appearance, Xiao Ming didn't beat her, just put on makeup silently, and then Xiao Ming arrived at the appointed place.
Sure enough, after seeing the blind date, Xiao Ming felt good at first sight. Although the face value is not high, but the figure is good, dressed appropriately. You can score 75 points. After a brief greeting, they walked into a nearby cafe and chose a quiet place to sit down. The two men eased their emotions, and then Xiao Ming took the initiative to introduce himself.
Xiao Ming had just finished talking and was about to take a sip of coffee when the other party said in a tone of disgust, "You graduated from college, and your education is too low. Anyway, I am a doctoral student. Then we got married, and I took you to the reunion. When it comes to academic qualifications, I am ashamed. "
Hearing this, Xiao Ming put down his coffee and tried to fight back, but the other party didn't stop listening. She always said, "Look, if you are not ugly, you should lower your education, but after you get married, you should be filial to my mother and have a baby as soon as possible. My mother is waiting to have grandchildren. "
Xiao Ming was completely annoyed, and then raised his voice and said, "Stop, you didn't deviate from the eight characters. You have gone too far. I haven't agreed to stay with you. It is still too early to talk about married life. " At this time, the other party was a little surprised and said, "Why don't you agree? I don't deserve you for such a high degree. "
For this confident boy, Xiao Ming doesn't want to be too entangled. He said bluntly, "I'm sorry, I don't deserve you." That's very kind of you. Goodbye. " With that, Xiao Ming left the cafe. When I got home, my parents looked at Xiaoming expectantly. Xiaoming told the truth about the cafe. At this time, Xiao Ming's mother was immediately anxious: "This man is too bad. With such high knowledge, he is really blind and has no self-restraint."
Written at the end, as the saying goes, it is important for people to have self-knowledge. Obviously, the man in the article didn't realize this. Because he graduated from a doctor's degree, he feels superior and can ask others to do this and that at will. Such a man really has no culture.
Here, I advise all older girls not to consider their own happiness in order to compensate their parents' guilt. You know, parents' original intention is to be happy, just to complete the task of getting married. I also hope that parents can give their children more time and believe that children can find their own happiness.