There is a limit to borrowing money, that is, when you lend it out, think about it first, and it won't affect anything (it won't affect your relationship or your life) until you pay it back.

Let's talk about what we said when we borrowed it. If you don't tell the time clearly, it's normal for others not to know. But if you are so upset and care so much, ask when you will pay it back, and if not, why not.

Think before you ask. If he says no, what are you going to do? What are you going to do if you decide when to return it, but you don't cash it? Think before you ask. (Did you fight? Want something back to pay your debts? Tear your face and become strangers from now on? Think about it first, see if the plan is good or not, and if you can accept the joint consequences, it is not difficult to feel when you think about it. -just accept the reality)

Take this kind of thing as a lesson and don't do anything that bothers you. For example, lend money that you care about or affect your life.