Looks are born of fear, born of parents, and cannot be changed or changed. Except for the so-called plastic surgery.

Good-looking, you are lucky, you are blessed by God, and your parents gave you a unique gift. I'm so happy for you. Because looks are generally normal, it would be unfortunate if they are ugly. But in any case, you have to accept yourself, whether you are good-looking, plain or ugly. Accepting yourself frankly is the confidence of life.

Success depends on talent.

If a person's gold and jade are lost, no matter how beautiful the body is, it is nothing more than flesh and blood. Without talent, it is nothing more than a lifeless and dull skin.

Therefore, a plain, even a little ugly person, there is no need to feel too inferior. You know, since God has given talents, let them be used! . Because you have a living foundation. Living allows you to grow, learn and work hard. It also makes you understand the difference in looks and feel that you have to work harder. Because talent can be cultivated. As long as you study hard and live a confident life, you can still achieve the success you want.

Zhong Lichun in ancient times and Ma Yun today were not beautiful, but they also achieved great success. If you have the heart, you can look at the world celebrity list or the successful entrepreneurs in China. They can also give you the right answer. Some people may say that you have gone to extremes, and these examples are very few. Then I can be honest, yes. But I hope you can become one of them through training. Most successful people really don't succeed because of their looks. It's just that some stars are successful by their looks, but at the same time, you should see that many stars are also very literate and talented. In addition, successful stars are all plain-looking, such as Big Brother, Bo Huang and Wang ... ugly, such as Wei and Chen. These three actors are on the list of gods ... He Lihua, the lead dancer of Avalokitesvara, is still aphasia, conducting Zhou Zhou ... so the winner doesn't have to rely on looks.

Accept yourself and believe in yourself.

As long as you work hard, everyone can have a unique talent. I also believe that everyone in the ordinary can get the talent you want to support your life through their own cultivation, hard study and struggle.

Success depends on talent.

A person should not rely too much on looks, because looks will get old at any time, and only the talents you have gained through hard work will accompany you forever.

Remember, a person's success depends not on looks, but on talent. Only what you get through hard work is reliable.

Everyone's life, success depends on hard work! Besides, there is no shortcut.

Appearance is a person's external image, and ability is that his energy can reach a certain level.

Personally, I think looks can greatly promote the realization of ability.

Nowadays, people in the workplace can improve their image through makeup. If you are slightly fat, you can use aerobic and anaerobic exercise such as equipment or running skipping rope to achieve the purpose of losing weight. No one has an obligation to see your perfect inner self through your sloppy appearance.

The less capable he is, the more he needs to get opportunities by looking good. But for people with superior ability, appearance is only his plus item, not the decisive item.

Ability can also be tested, from what he says and does, from what he does. If you are not at ease, you can test it step by step from simple to difficult work problems.

For those of us with average ability, keeping smiling as much as possible, ensuring a clean and tidy image, putting on makeup that suits us as much as possible and giving people affinity can help us survive in the workplace.

For people with outstanding ability, maintaining interpersonal harmony as much as possible can make us better promoted.

Thank you for reading and hope to adopt it.

It depends on different ages and different feelings.

Before I am 20 years old, I will definitely face the present value.

As I grow older, I feel more and more that there are other more important factors to measure a person, such as personality, inner cultivation, correct three views, and so on.

The most representative people, such as Bo Huang and Zhang Yi, are all charming people. Yes, after zero zero, I am very concerned about whether this person has personality charm!

Ability refers to the comprehensive quality reflected in completing a goal or task, which needs long-term coexistence to be discovered. You can't judge a person's ability just by his appearance. Many people have both long-term good ability and strong strength, and many people have poor long-term strength. The main stars, such as, Hugh, Zhao and Sun Li, are well known to the public for their personal strength and charm. In life and work, when getting along with others, the first impression often gives people is that they are good-looking, honest, quality and polite. By talking, you can know that the other person is knowledgeable and humorous, and you will know the horsepower in the distance. Only by long-term cooperation can you know where the other person's ability lies and the truth of people's hearts.

First of all, being good will definitely take advantage and make people like it first. There is no need to deny this. But if you want to attract people for a long time, it is not enough to rely solely on looks.

Just like the master Degang Guo commented on his apprentice Zhang Yunlei at the tightrope walking festival, saying that people watched him eat noodles. But looking at the entertainment circle, there are many stars who look better than him. In this regard, Zhang Yunlei himself has a clear understanding. He said that if I didn't do anything else, I would just take pictures and be watched for two days a day. Will anyone watch it in a year? So he insisted on crosstalk on the stage even though the steel nails on his feet were worn out and sweaty.

Although good-looking is a stepping stone. But Zhang Yunlei actually prefers people to like him, because they like his cross talk, not just because they like his looks. However, he did not rule this out. He said that no matter what you do, even because of your appearance, as long as you come, I will show you everything I know, opera and folk art, so that you can see that traditional things are attractive.

After all, although he is good-looking, Taiping lyrics, ditty, Beijing Pingbang and pop songs are all drunk, and Yu Zi Allegro and Beijing Rhyme and Drum are all playing at will. @ Zhang Yunlei finally relies on strength.

Of course, people who explore their natural advantages and constantly interact with people and things, 1.0, 2.0 ... constantly upgrade themselves.

Everyone has natural potential, even if you think you are ordinary.

For an extreme example, when Xifeng first came out, few people thought that she was a person with talent potential. The external conditions were below average, she had no talent, and her education was even more ordinary. Everyone treats her as a joke, but some of her talents surpass most people. Regardless of personal preference, no one will deny her hard work and tenacity. Whether she wants to create a topic or go to the United States to survive on her own, in the past ten years, she has brought these talents to the extreme and lived the highest version of her life.

First, what is talent?

Interestingly, gift is expressed in English. gift is a word, which can be understood as: talent is a gift that God randomly assigns to everyone (so even brothers and sisters have different personalities and specialties). Gifts are large and small, some are easy to open, and some are too tightly packed, which may give up halfway.

Gifts are conspicuous, so some talents are dominant, such as good voice and good singing; Body coordination, dancing looks good; Excellent athletic ability, fast running and high jumping. Looking good is a gift, hard work is a gift, and carefulness is also a gift. What sets you apart is your talent.

Some gifts are easy to open, so some people are easy to find. For example, you can easily find that you are not interested in numbers and are good at arts or science. Even if you are an all-round scholar, some subjects will be easier to learn than others.

Some gifts are wrapped tightly, so some people give up discovering their talents before opening them, and some people have to open them for a while before discovering them.

In fact, whether you open it or not, you are already using this gift, but you just don't know it. Many people don't know their talents, because they are often used repeatedly by you inadvertently. You are used to it, and naturally you can't feel the existence of ta. But people around you can't understand. We must have heard the saying that "beautiful women don't know themselves" and "we don't take our talents seriously at all" Maybe you have such a person around you or you are such a person.

Second, when talent is overused, it will become a disadvantage.

We often say that blx is the overuse of highly sensitive personality (there is a book "Highly sensitive is a gift" dedicated to this, you can read it if you are interested), and decisive overuse is bullying. When you have this "transformation" thinking, you will find that, my God, you are full of advantages. The so-called timidity means being cautious and inarticulate, and is probably an activist. Full of confidence, to a large extent, it comes with its own transformation system. On the one hand, they do have something extraordinary, so even if they are really average in some aspects, this aura of confidence will make people feel that they are still above average. Generally speaking, such people will be promoted quickly at the early stage of their career development, because they are easier to be seen. When recruiting, the interviewer will prefer this confident job seeker.

Third, how to tap the potential of talents?

1. Find out from your past behavior events, especially those things that you are naturally attracted to, those things that you are willing to spend time and energy without asking for anything in return, and even can reach the point of forgetting to eat and sleep (entertainment-oriented enjoyment is not included, such as playing games and brushing dramas). Enjoying consumption is not a gift, but giving yourself is a gift.

2. We will like people of our own type, and admire and envy those who have qualities that we don't have. For example, if you procrastinate, you will be attracted to people with strong actions. Therefore, observing the friends you associate with, it is very likely that you also have some advantages in them.

3. Observe your parents and other immediate family members. What do they have in common? Chances are you have it, too, because talents can be inherited, such as strong hands-on ability and excellent language expression.

Talk to your parents and childhood friends about what you looked like when you were a child in their eyes. Many of our natural features began to appear at that time. I have a consulting client. Everyone commented that she was very business-minded when she was a child. In fact, even if she works as an adult, she is still doing business.

5. Think about what you are often praised for. Please take it seriously. That's your gift.

This question, at first glance, is very positive, but it is actually paranoid.

This is a very simple truth: if a samurai goes to war, he has both a pike and a dagger, and both are handy. There is no rule that he can only carry one weapon when he goes on stage. Why can't he take both?

The correct expression should be: people with looks should also have the ability; It doesn't matter if we don't have looks. We rely on ability.

Fortunately, in real life, many people who have looks and should be capable give up their ability training because of their looks. In this way, people who have no looks but are determined to exercise their abilities give up the road to success (referring to objective surrender, not subjective surrender). It is also a kind of balance in heaven.

Of course, the most valuable thing is those who have both looks and abilities. They don't rely on looks. Because they can do this, they are generally positive, have a correct attitude and pursue Excellence. They are dragons and phoenixes among people and leaders in the world of mortals, which must be affirmed.

Let me explain to you that in real life, some handsome guys and beautiful women have no partners and are not married. Since the advent of WeChat and QQ, many people's own conditions and external conditions are very poor, so they use deception to find the other half, but some people have succeeded. [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] What ability do you think this is? This question is simple. Now it is developing everywhere, and the information platform is very wide, which gives many people opportunities and abilities at this time. There are many talented people [tears] [tears] [tears] in Tik Tok and watermelon videos.