Li Na's work went very smoothly and was praised by her boss. In one year, she was promoted from an ordinary employee to the secretary of the general manager. Li Na is very excited, not because of the promotion, but because she can finally meet the general manager face to face. As the general manager of the avant-garde company, he not only has a successful career, but also has an open mind and a mature temperament. He is the most admired object of subordinate girls, and Li Na is one of them.
Li Na is more careful about working for people she appreciates. Besides finishing the task, she also takes good care of Qian Wei's office life. Such a thoughtful secretary also makes Qian Wei feel very warm. With the passage of time, the relationship between Lena and Qian Wei has gradually become close. Li Na's affection for the general manager has changed from admiration to love, while Qian Wei, although middle-aged, has no partner. Invisibly, this pair of "lonely men and few women" is close to the edge of love.
After getting along for a year, Li Na began to "help each other in the same boat". The company accompanied Qian Wei and went home to accompany her husband. Neither of the two men noticed the difference. Of course, in the company, Li Na and Qian Wei are still purely superior and subordinate. However, paper can't wrap fire. Li Na, immersed in extramarital affairs, forgot her wedding anniversary. Just as she was shopping with Qian Wei after work, her husband who wanted to surprise her appeared in front of her.
Six eyes are opposite, but her husband would rather not come, while Li Na wants to turn and run away. Only Qian Wei seems "inexplicable". Li Na's "two sides and three knives" exposure. She left the company and so did her husband.
Excessive worship may lead to extramarital affairs.
Mature and successful single men are often admired by young women. When admiration has room for development, it may be transformed into admiration, dedication and even love. This happens mostly between middle-aged men and young women. Many young women involved in extramarital affairs are infatuated with their male bosses, so the company has become a high-incidence environment for extramarital affairs.
Actually, there is nothing wrong with worshipping your boss. This feeling needs to be controlled. Although loving old men may be due to Oedipus complex, this hidden danger does not exist for married young women, because most women who love their fathers will not marry people of the same age or similar age.
Therefore, the extramarital affairs caused by love are mostly emotional instability. There is no contradiction in feelings after marriage, which does not mean 100% stability, nor can it prove the determination of the other party. If between young couples, a man can't give a woman absolute sense of security, or the feeling she pursues, when another person appears and can meet the emotional needs of a woman, the probability of extramarital affairs will increase.
This kind of extramarital affairs can be compared to using feelings. Women are very emotional animals and have special feelings for a person, which proves that this person has touched his heartstrings. If a woman is immersed in this feeling and enjoys it, she will sublimate her feelings above all else, thus ignoring the consequences of "stealing forbidden fruit".