1. Go your own way and let others talk.
When dealing with jealous people, it is best not to take some measures to deal with jealous people. Because jealousy itself is suspicious. Therefore, it is better to treat jealous people as ordinary people. As the saying goes, if you are not surprised, you will be surprised. Instead of thinking hard, it is better to "govern by doing nothing" and finally achieve the effect of "governing by doing nothing".
2. Take necessary compromise and concession strategies.
No matter how clever a person is, he is stupid, and it is hard to be confused.
Confucius once said: be smart and wise, and stay stupid; Work is the world, keep it; Help the world bravely and keep it with family; Rich all over the world, remain modest. This is not only a simple strategy, but the fact is that when a person is surrounded by flowers and applause, he needs to be modest and prudent, which can not only prevent him from being jealous, but also fundamentally adjust himself.
Only by turning hate into love can we restrain disputes.
The way to turn hate into love is mainly to influence jealous people with sincere love, so as to eliminate and dissolve jealousy. People often say, "hate is centrifugal medicine, love is glue". Therefore, if you meet a jealous person, if you can repay him with kindness and influence him with love, the grievances will naturally be resolved.
Restrain unprincipled struggle with principled tolerance is the key to eradicate two-way jealousy and multi-direction jealousy. If a jealous person challenges you, instead of fighting, you will shrink back. Seeking common ground while reserving differences with moderate tolerance without losing principle, or seeking common ground while reserving differences, are all good ways to resolve and avoid jealousy.
3. Countermeasures of persuasion and encouragement
When some jealousy is caused by misunderstanding, it is necessary to persuade and communicate. Otherwise, the misunderstanding will be deeper and deeper, which will seriously interfere with and destroy the normal communication of interpersonal relationships. Pay attention to calm when persuading, and be prepared to persuade many times.
We should also take an encouraging attitude towards jealous people. Because jealous people are psychologically lost and unbalanced when they are at a disadvantage, although they are as heroic as cows on the surface, their hearts are empty, implying a pessimistic mood. Therefore, we should take an encouraging attitude towards jealous people, mainly by objectively analyzing their strengths, strengthening their confidence, changing their misconceptions, and trying to provide some substantial help to jealous people so as to turn jealousy into fair competition.