Let's take a look at the protagonist in the incident, Fan Jiang, president of Taobao Business Group. Isn't this the epitome of a smart and capable boy around him? From Xinjiang, I was admitted to the computer department of Fudan University. Enter Google China after graduation. In a few years, he chose to start his own business and was successfully acquired by Ali. Later, he successfully entered Alibaba and rose to the position of president of Taobao.
Although many people around you may not have such a fast promotion path, there are many similarities: 985 colleges and universities were admitted to first-tier cities from other places, entered well-known foreign companies after graduation, and chose to start their own businesses after working for several years, or directly entered well-known private enterprises without entrepreneurial experience, all the way up.
Similarly, there is a state in which men are strong and women are weak in marriage. Looking at the experience of the heroine's wife, the sense of existence is indeed a bit weak. There seems to be only one label for her on the Internet, Madam President. Besides, I can't find any other labels. Even which college you graduated from and which industry you have been engaged in before can't be traced back. It can be seen that the president's wife is indeed an exile to herself, although she is concerned about this family.
The contents of the President's wife's Weibo are quiet and good, but with all due respect, there are too many shows and too few dry goods. Although there have been articles commenting on the gap between the president's wife and the network celebrity Xiaosan before, one is that she has entered the newly rich social butterfly class, and the other is that she has made small money around ordinary people. Please forgive me for not knowing the world of the rich, but the content of the President's wife's Weibo is basically the same as that of an online celebrity. Cooking, dressing and showing off are all daily activities. On the surface, "rich and colorful, quiet and beautiful life", the discerning person will know at a glance that it is because there are too few things in the stomach and the realm is too limited.
For example, the president's wife mentioned that she likes to do jewelry design and obtained relevant qualifications. Why not talk a little more about your knowledge, research and experience in this field and output your ideological leadership? No.
If the nouveau riche in China are so daily, we are too desperate.
Compare the resumes of other executive wives around the world:
Melinda Gates, wife of Microsoft founder Bill Gates, graduated from Duke University with a master's degree in business administration. After graduation, I joined Microsoft. Together with Gates, he founded and served as the chairman of the Gates Foundation, the largest foundation in American history. Athletes, marathon climbers.
Mackenzie Bezos-Although divorced, her former wife Bezos was really energetic. After the divorce, she became the top three richest women in the world. Graduated from Princeton University, novelist, and his representative works include The Test of Luther Albright and The Trap. 1994 co-founded Amazon with Bezos.
Ma Dongmin, Ph.D. in Biology, Mrs. Li Yanhong, CEO of Baidu. Graduated from New Jersey State University, USA, junior class of University of Science and Technology of China. She/KLOC-graduated from abroad at the age of 0/9, and is known as the "princess" in the international student circle in new york.
Compare Mrs. Jiang's daily life again, the boundary difference is too big!
Judging from the rocket-like upward trajectory in recent years, President Jiang is indeed a wise man. It is said that Wang Xing of Meituan once commented on Fan Jiang and said, "In the next few years, look at Huang Zheng and Taobao in Pinduoduo &; It should be wonderful how these two very smart people, Fan Jiang of Tmall, compete. If Fan Jiang can win this battle, then he is the well-deserved successor of Ali CEO, if he is interested in doing this job. "
But this round, he not only lost in the communication with network celebrities and Zhang Dayi, but also lost in choosing a wife. It is estimated that he patronized the beautiful and virtuous (which is also a common mistake made by most men in China) and forgot the advice that Grandpa Buffett once gave: "The most important investment in my life is not which stock I bought, but who I chose as my partner."
As the wife of an executive, the correct way to open it is not only to get rich vaguely, but also to take care of the daily life of the family.
Don't confine yourself to the network celebrity troika all day: be beautiful, rich and show off in an ostentatious manner. Improve your ideological level, see the outside world more, and care about the sufferings of ordinary people.
Don't just leave a personal label-Mrs. So-and-so. If you like jewelry design, write about jewelry; If you like food, write about it professionally. At that height, you can have access to much more resources than others. In the long run, although you may not be a big shot, it is no problem to be a small opinion leader.
If you have nothing to do, you can go to MBA or EMBA (money should not be a problem). On the one hand, it is to improve myself, on the other hand, it is to better support the other half. Want to make love last forever, not only by beauty, but also by their common language.
As for the people who eat melons, it doesn't really matter who wins or loses this round, huahua and online celebrities. The key point is that if people, especially women who eat melons, are still concerned about the situation that two women rob a man, it will make the status quo of women's progress go back to a hundred years ago.
The self-growth of huahua is the key to the problem, which is also a problem that all newly rich and even middle-class wives need to think about.
/kloc-More than 0/00 years ago, a Norwegian playwright wrote a realistic drama "A Doll's House" to encourage women's self-liberation and growth through conflicts in marriage.
Nora said before she finally fled:
Now I only believe that, first of all, I am a person, just like you-at least I have to learn to be a man.
To be a man, we should give full play to her potential and live out her own value outside the social role!
About the author: Chacha, an internationally certified ACC coach, focuses on women's growth, self-awareness and personal brand. I am willing to be grateful and appreciate life is lovely!