Wang Boqing's daughter Kelly moved to the United States with her doctoral parents when she was five years old. Under the educational mode of combining East and West carefully planned by her father, she has been outstanding all the way and won many awards. In 2003, she received invitations from six Ivy League schools and finally chose Harvard University. Wang Fuzhi's son Wang Jing has been living with his parents in a fishing village on the outskirts of Qinhuangdao in northern China. Under the training of his father's ingenious devil teaching plan, he advanced placement several times. 14 years old refused the admission notice of the juvenile class of the Chinese University of Science and Technology, 15 years old refused the invitation of Tsinghua University, 16 years old wished to enter Tsinghua University Institute of Bioengineering. Although Wang Jing's school enrollment has changed from 8 classes to 18 classes because of his appearance, it is still overwhelmed, but the myth of Wang's adopted son has not ended there. Now Wang Fuzhi's second son is in Grade 2 10, and he is likely to surpass his brother on the rapidly rising academic road.
Resumes of the two fathers:
Wang Boqing: Bachelor of Materials Engineering, Master of Arts in Industrial Economic Management, Master of Science in Statistics, Ph.D. in American Economics. Work experience: worker, assistant engineer, lecturer, senior economist, and currently research manager of Washington State Research and Data Department. Visiting Professor of Southwestern University of Finance and Economics and Visiting Professor of China Language and Literature of Southwest University for Nationalities.
Related works: Grow up 1+ 1 and be the master of kids.
Wang Fuzhi: 1963 was born in Chaohe Village, Tuanlin Township, Changli County, Qinhuangdao City, Hebei Province. 198 1 dropped out of high school, and then worked in agriculture, breeding and small business at home.
Works: "Children Rush Forward"
Resumes of two children:
Kelly: Female, 1985 was born in Ya 'an, Sichuan, 199 1 moved to city of olympia, Seattle, USA with her parents, and now she is a freshman of Harvard in 2007. During his stay in the United States, he successively won Rensselaer Prize in Mathematics and Science, American National Scholar, Presidential Scholar Candidate, American University Women's Federation Outstanding Women's Science Award, Washington State Chief Scholar, AP Outstanding Scholar, Washington State Girls' Beauty Contest Fifth, Washington State Education Minister of Model Government, and city of olympia Youth Symphony Orchestra violinist, and participated in the English writing of 20 episodes of TV series "My Home has a Little Devil".
Wang Jing: Male, 1986, from Chaohe Village, Tuanlin Township, Changli County, Qinhuangdao City, Hebei Province, is now a student of Tsinghua University in 2006. In 2000 14 years old, he was admitted to the juvenile class of the University of Science and Technology of China, but he did not enter school. 200 1, admitted to the physics department of Tsinghua University, but did not enter the school; In 2002, I got my wish and was admitted to Tsinghua University Institute of Bioengineering.
The comparison between the godson of two fathers in actual combat;
discrepancy
Foreign dad: high diploma, doctoral degree, Chinese and western cultural background.
Dad Tu: There are no college students in the family history. I'm just a freshman, a typical peasant family in China.
Foreign dad: I think my daughter can go to college, but she doesn't have to go to Harvard. I hope my children will grow up healthily, be caring, help others and marry a good husband.
Dad Tu: We should get rid of poverty and change our destiny by knowledge. Since childhood, we have established the desire to enter the best university in China. We believe that mothers play a very important role in children's growth, just like a trickle. Cooperation with father is both rigid and flexible, and mother plays a great role in cultivating daughter's gentle and considerate character. Mothers have little effect, only do logistics, and generally do not participate in children's teaching.
Foreign dad: Influenced by western education, I pay more attention to the cultivation of children's independence. Regardless of children's homework, I only look at my grades at the end of the term, and I pursue the education method of "being responsible for myself", regardless of size.
Tu Dad: I accompany my children to read and study under the covers, and even give them a manicure and haircut. The devil training method and speed training method I invented are very simple, and some are extreme. I cultivate children's strong character in the most natural way.
situation
Communicate with children on an equal footing, admit to Kelly that you have done something wrong, and discover children's potential and habits in ordinary play. In the case of striking the table, let the children dig graves to overcome their fears, play with snakes to cultivate their courage, climb mountains and drink only two bottles of water a day, and exercise their perseverance and hard-working spirit.
Cultivate Kelly's awareness of cherishing the reading environment since childhood, bring Kelly back to China every two or three years to experience the life in rural China, cultivate Wang Jing in the simplest and most natural way, and tell Wang Jing that if he fails to enter the university, he will give him the wasteland in the backyard as a legacy (meaning that he can only farm on the wasteland all his life).
Wang Can is encouraged to participate in beauty contests, practice in research institutions, participate in mock US presidential elections, study music, attend summer camps, cultivate children's various talents, advocate play and learn through play. Because Wang Jing has speed and everything is fast, his study life is basically spent in the process of playing. In order to practice speed, he can disregard the quality of words.
Combining the educational advantages of China and the West, Kelly has a vision of combining China and the West, representing 80% of rural family education methods in China, and pinning his unfinished wish on his children, which is a typical China "father is willing to pay for his son".
similar
1, it's all a mistake, and I haven't read a professional parenting book.
2. Everyone emphasizes personalized education and thinks that family education is a very important part of children's growth, and they have never been superstitious about school education.
Everyone doesn't believe in IQ theory and thinks that their children are ordinary and not smarter than other children. They pay attention to tapping potential and cultivating talents. The last two children were admitted to top universities.
Everyone is aware of the importance of father's education in the process of children's growth, and thinks that father plays a leading role in the process of children's growth, subverting the traditional concept that mother undertakes children's education.
I am very willing to spend time on the growth of my children. I won't give up the opportunity to get along with children because of work. I will find out the advantages and disadvantages and potential of children in getting along and guide them according to the situation.
6. Everyone pays great attention to details, believes in the power of example, and emphasizes equal communication in the process of educating children, without parental pressure.
7. Pay attention to the establishment of children's independent, strong and upward personality before 18 years old, and agree with the view that personality determines fate.
8. Make friends with children and grow up together like friends.
9. All roads lead to the same goal. Kelly was admitted to Harvard, the best school in the United States, and Wang Jing was admitted to Tsinghua, the best university in China.
No matter "foreign dad" or "local dad", be a good dad!