The love process between Xue Ming and He Long is almost the "love template" for all wives-leaders take a fancy to it, take the initiative to pursue it, organize matchmaking and get married. Many people become their husbands' full-time secretaries after marriage.

At that time, He Long was 42 years old and was a famous commander of Northwest Bureau. Xue Ming, 22, is a beautiful female student who defected from Tianjin to Yan 'an. When we first met, He Long sent an invitation to Xue Ming: I have a chef who can cook Tianjin steamed buns. You can come to see if this Tianjin steamed stuffed bun looks like it. Since then, Xue Ming hasn't moved his mind, although he has been organized several times. On one occasion, Xue Ming was sent to He Long to report his experience in studying rectification documents. After the report, He Long sent Xue Ming back to his residence. He Long comes first, and Xue Ming comes last. It rained heavily and the road was slippery in the dark. Xue Ming got his foot stuck in the mud. He Long pulled her back, and He Long pulled Xue Ming out, pointing not far away: That's where you live.

This rainy night's farewell was quickly "passed down as a joke" in the Northwest Bureau: they walked around and sent it back, which was simply a success!

Soon, Peng Zhen came to Xue Ming: CSI has no time to fall in love with you and sit in this cave of Northwest Bureau. He will fight at the front. We think you two can be husband and wife! Please let me know if you have any questions. During the Cultural Revolution, when He Long and she were taken away, their own children were not around. In the detention center of Xishan, the couple missed their children, but were afraid to say anything to each other. One day, Xue Ming found an open letter on the steps, written by his youngest daughter, He Liming.

When Xue Ming was in his 80s, he could recite this letter: "My dearest parents, brothers and sisters are all working on the boat now. They don't get seasick in a typhoon of magnitude 8. They do a good job. Don't worry. " When He Long was finally taken away in the name of going to the hospital for treatment, he kept reaching out and looking at his wife: I went to the hospital, and you? Xue Ming said, I'll follow you, but all she can do is watch her relatives get into the ambulance and the car slowly drives away.