A really smart girl never hurries into a relationship. She understands that good love must be to make herself better, not to make herself perfect and force herself to please each other.
I have a friend who recently quarreled with her boyfriend and broke up for a simple reason. On the way out to catch the high-speed train, the boy was carrying a heavy suitcase. Halfway through, he said I couldn't carry it. Please hold it for me.
The girl tried to move it and found it was really heavy. Then she told the boy that it was too heavy for me to carry, so the boy got angry and left a sentence: this little thing can't help me share. What can you share with me in the future? Leave my friend, go away.
Is it funny? Ridiculous. You stay with me only for the rest of your life. Do you have anyone to share? If my friend really marries this boy, I can even imagine what kind of life she will lead after marriage.
Just like in Confessions, before marriage, you were the little princess in the hands of your parents. After marriage, you became an omnipotent superwoman.
You cook and do housework alone, pick up and drop off children, take care of the elderly, don't wear makeup, pay attention to your figure and clothes, while your husband seems to live in another world, relaxed and free, singing and dancing.
So marrying the wrong person is more terrible than not marrying 100 times.
Friends are devastated after breaking up. She was going to submit her resume to find a new job, but it was also put on hold. She stayed in the rental house every day to order takeout, didn't go out, didn't clean up, and interrupted her fitness exercise. A simple and lovely girl has become a sloppy person who gives up on herself.
Every girl is afraid of meeting the wrong person. At the Round Table School, there was a discussion about "How to recognize love rat at a glance". Teacher Li Meijin said: If you really love each other, you should make them feel comfortable, not make them feel reluctant and wronged.
Good love is not a romantic thing, but you can feel each other's spoil on a dull day. Bad love will make you selfish, irritable, sensitive and pessimistic, just like my female friend.
And good love will make you feel that every love word and every hand-holding is a sense of ritual of life and love. This is probably what the mother of Taiwan Province Province wants to tell her daughter.
Who doesn't like affairs? But what is more touching than romance is the long indulgence. You appreciate my life interest, and I appreciate your tolerant company.