1, recite "The Wishes of Tibetan Bodhisattva" and turn over to the father.

It is suggested that girls watch the Wishing Sutra of Tibetan Bodhisattva in person. There are video follow-up versions on the Internet, and there are too many cases. Every merit of chanting belongs to my father.

2, chanting Buddha in the 24 hours after his father's death, stay by his father's side and read the word "Amitabha" loudly, ten times ten times, which can mobilize his family to read together. When reading, focus your heart and ears on the Buddha's name. The more people read, the better. The longer it lasts, the better. This is the simplest and most effective way to cross. Then, I will return the merits of chanting Buddha to my father.

There is no life and death. A low-level caterpillar still has the ability of become a butterfly, let alone a human being who is the spirit of all things. Now science only verifies that matter is immortal. Buddha thinks that not only matter is immortal, but also immortals will not die. Therefore, my father didn't actually die, or even leave this world (the earth). There are many such cases. For example, Wang Yongqing's son Wang Wenxiang had an out-of-body experience, which is a fact that many people in Taiwan Province know.

4, can't be too sad to say this, not to comfort the living. Buddhism believes that the grief of relatives will increase their emotional attachment to the deceased, which will have a huge binding force and hinder their freedom and detachment. Especially in the 49-day bardo stage, it will aggravate his inner pain.

5. It is recommended to cross as soon as possible.

If you want to benefit the dead, now is not the time to be sad, you should do everything possible to cross over. There are many real cases and methods in this regard, and the simple and easy methods mentioned above can also be implemented: the real existence of the Tibetan Bodhisattva. There is a video of Professor Zhou Chuntang, a famous person in Taiwan Province Province, on the Internet, which tells the real experience of his mother's visit to the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva. Please search and see. (2) You can also do merits for your father. For example: releasing, giving alms, offering sacrifices to monks, lighting lamps, etc ... This is of great direct benefit to him. (3) When I think of my father every day, I will recite the word "Amitabha" for him. The Buddha's fame and merits are incredible. Speaking of crossing, nothing is simpler and better than chanting "Amitabha"! (4) Do 1 3 good deeds for my father every day, and then repay him (in return, you can say: I would like to repay XXX with the merits and demerits I have done today, and wish him happiness from suffering and a good life as soon as possible)