Zhou Li and her husband have been in love for ten years, and a pair of children are smart and beautiful. When talking about her husband with others, she always looks happy. That kind of happiness is not "fake" but true from the heart. But she went to the hospital alone after a discomfort, and the result was like a bolt from the blue. She has cancer, terminal. Zhou Li chose to hide, and then made a series of actions. Deliberately quarreled with her husband and filed for divorce in a rage. She doesn't want children or property. When her husband stayed, Zhou Li didn't take the initiative. It took only two months from filing for divorce to divorce. She was seriously ill and didn't tell anyone. At that time, she was 40.
A woman was seriously ill and kept it from everyone. When she was 40, she asked for a divorce. Is this out of love or responsibility?
Zhou Li divorced her husband for a simple reason. She is very ill and cannot be cured. Divorce is for children and husbands. She doesn't want her children to be sad, and she doesn't want her husband to be single for life. Without divorce, her husband loves her so much that he will definitely treat her. There is no need to treat this disease. Might as well leave the money to two children. The worst fear of a serious illness is that money is spent, and people are gone, which is not worth the candle. She made this choice out of love. All the pain, bear, don't bother anyone.
After the divorce, her ex-husband proposed to remarry many times, and Zhou Li said a lot of ugly words. Her ex-husband was angry and remarried. Seeing that the woman whose ex-husband remarried was very kind to her ex-husband and two children, she left with confidence. Even if she left, she didn't tell her ex-husband, and her family gave her a funeral. But when the two children clamored for a mother, Zhou Li's ex-husband knew how much she had done. Love is still there, people are gone, but life goes on. Her ex-husband said Zhou Li was stupid, but Zhou Li's parents said she was out of love and didn't want to drag them down.
Marriage needs love as the driving force and responsibility as the foundation to maintain it. But Zhou Li's behavior deeply hurt her husband's heart. Let's analyze it.
Zhou Li and her ex-husband were very happy, but she was seriously ill and chose to bear it alone. On the surface, she is righteous, but in fact such a woman is very selfish. Husband and wife are two people in one. They should share happiness and hardship. No matter what choice her ex-husband made, he had the right to know and decide, but Zhou Li deprived her husband of his rights and chose to bear it himself. This kind of behavior is distrust of marriage, and it is also irresponsible to one's other half and family. She acted out of love, but it was irresponsible.
In the life of husband and wife, husband and wife must discuss things with each other, whether it is a blessing or a curse, they must spend it together. This is love, this is responsibility.