"At the beginning of Xingyi soldiers' establishment, we decided to move our mother to live in Shu and make friends with Zhou Yu"-Sun Ce, who was in a weak position, became brothers with Zhou Yu, a teenager. From then on, these two handsome boys, who look exactly the same, made a lot of fame together on the land of Jianghuai.

The most interesting thing is that when they were still in their prime, they knew Er Qiao, which was famous in Jiangnan at that time. From then on, heroes were often accompanied by beautiful women, which became a very famous story in the Three Kingdoms period.

But from ancient times to now, few people have discussed these two questions in detail: Are Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao, who are beautiful and touching and can be called national colors, really married to love? Are they really happy all their lives?

Xiao Qiao, who is famous in Jiangnan, is actually her husband's "trophy".

Today's Qianshan County, Anqing City, Anhui Province, is the city of Anhui during the Three Kingdoms period, from which the abbreviation of Anhui Province came.

This historical and cultural city is also the hometown of beautiful women Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao in the Three Kingdoms period, so the buried hill is known as "the ancient capital of central Anhui, the hometown of Er Qiao".

Er Qiao's father, Gong Qiao, is a famous family in Anhui. In 2 14 AD, Sun Ce led the troops to attack Huainan. After Zhou Yu, a subordinate, captured Anhui, it was said that Gong Qiao in the eastern suburb of Anhui had two beautiful daughters, so he negotiated with Sun Ce and each of them got a beautiful woman to take away.

In this regard, there is a story circulating in Anqing: At that time, as a famous family in Anhui, Gong Qiao learned that Wu Jun had come to attack the city, stepped forward to defend his homeland, and joined forces with Anhui officials and a group of defenders to stand up and resist.

In the bonfire and war, Gong Qiao was unfortunately shot by many arrows, and finally died of his injuries a few days later.

Sun Ce and Zhou Yu attacked Anhui, very happy. Just as the people and property in the city were always looted by the victors after the siege in ancient times, Sun Ce and Zhou Yu, who coveted the reputation of two women, rode to Qiao Zhuang, the eastern suburb of Anhui, and broke in with swords.

When the city fell and his father died, Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao, who lost their dependence, seemed to be lambs to be slaughtered, and they could only hide around in the face of enemy commanders who broke into their homes.

However, Qiao Zhuang is so big that how to avoid it cannot escape the fate of being captured. Er Qiao, with beautiful appearance, is hiding in the ancient well in the backyard of Qiaozhai, and there is no retreat. They immediately set foot on the edge of the well in horror, thinking that even at the last moment, they should be honest and upright, at least to keep their innocent honor.

Sun Ce and Zhou Yu searched the back room of the Qiao family, and finally found Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao near the ancient well. When they first met this beautiful woman, the two brave generals froze for an instant, and they fell in love at first sight. At present, Sun Ce and Zhou Yu are forced to marry the sisters.

Er Qiao was ashamed and angry when he remembered his father who had just died. The two sisters hung their necks and cried. Tears mixed with rouge dripped into the well, and the well water was polluted. Since then, the well water of this well has the fragrance of rouge, so the world calls it rouge well.

Although the details of this folk rumor can't be verified, the basic historical fact is clearly stated in the book Biography of Jiang Biao-"Joe and his wife are homeless, but we are happy enough to get married."

Gong Qiao's two daughters have been displaced, but it is enough for us to be his son-in-law, which makes us feel happy and honored. Similarly, it is also recorded in the History of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Shu, and Zhou Yu Biography: Zhao is self-motivated, and Xiao Qiao is self-motivated.

Obviously, whether Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao like it or not, they are all captured by Sun Ce and Zhou Yu like "trophies".

Father Gong Qiao has passed away, and there is no "gift" or "matchmaker's words". Therefore, the future status and situation of the two sisters who hastily put on their wedding clothes are inevitably worrying.

Is Daqiao Xiaoqiao a wife or a concubine after marriage?

Historically, Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao, as weak women in troubled times, had no martial arts and lost their dependence, so they had to accept their fate and get married in a hurry.

But in ancient times, women also paid attention to their position in their in-laws, and there was an essential difference between being a "wife" and being a "concubine".

During the Guangxu period of the Qing Dynasty, the Records of Baling County quoted the Ming History as saying that the tomb of Wu Erqiao of the Three Kingdoms ruled the north in the government. Sun Ce attacked Anhui and got two daughters, Gong Qiao and Da Qiao, while Xiao Qiao returned to Zhou Yu, who later died and was buried here.

There are three verbs used by men in ancient China in marriage: Shang, Marry and Accept. Married to the daughter of the royal family, you can only use the word "Shang"; Ordinary people must use the word "marry" when they marry; Members of the royal family always use the word "Na" when they marry the queen or princess.

In this way, Sun Ce was not a member of the royal family at that time, and she married with the word "that", indicating that her identity should be "concubine".

Let's look for clues from the history of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Shu and Zhou Yuchuan. According to this book, Sun Ce and Da Qiao died less than five months after they got married. Sun Ce also entrusted his 1 son and three daughters to Da Qiao before he died.

To know that a woman is nearly 10 months pregnant, it is obvious that Da Qiao can't give birth to a child in just four months, let alone quadruplets at once, so it can be said that Sun Ce must have had a wife before.

On the whole, it can be concluded that Da Qiao married Sun Ce as his concubine.

Look at Joe again. In ancient times, the word "boudoir" meant that a woman married. Xiao Qiao married Zhou Yu, so I won't go into details, but what we know is that Zhou Yu, 24, married Xiao Qiao in A.D. 198.

Ancient people generally lived short lives, so they got married at a relatively young age. Men can get married when they reach the age of 15. Therefore, it is not impossible for Zhou Yu, as a noble child with a rich appearance and a bosom friend, to marry at the age of 24, but it is not without it.

The word "boudoir" is often used in more grand wedding occasions in history books. For example, when the royal daughter of the Zhou Dynasty married a vassal as her first wife, the verb "Gui" was generally used, and there was a written record of "Ji Wang's return to Qi was a gift of the Zhou Dynasty".

Then someone wants to ask, Xiao Qiao is not of noble birth. Can he marry Zhou Yu as his wife?

You know, Gong Qiao was a prominent family in Anhui before his death, and Xiao Qiao was good at piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and also proficient in embroidery skills. Such a rich inner quality must have been cultivated by a big family. Therefore, from the aspect of Xiao Qiao's birth, it is no problem for her to become Zhou Yu's wife.

Xiao Qiao not only gave birth to two daughters, 1, but also guarded Zhou Yu's grave after his death 14 years.

Imagine, Xiao Qiao, if she was not a respectable wife from the beginning, how could she hold on to it for 14 years?

How long did the happiness of Daqiao Xiaoqiao who married her lover last?

Daqiao Xiaoqiao had no family to fall back on before she got married. Whether they can live a happy life depends entirely on their husbands' love and care.

From the numerous poems left in history, we can know that Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao should be satisfied with their husbands, and Sun Ce and Zhou Yu are both great men of the times who established their careers. They are not only rich, but also outstanding in appearance. I think the two sisters got married for love.

But fate doesn't always seem to favor these four couples, especially Da Qiao and his wife. Less than half a year after marriage, Sun Ce, who had just been in high spirits to unify the Jiangdong region, was unfortunately assassinated. Da Qiao, the "bride", only won the honor of her husband for more than four months and became a widow. They left no children.

Da Qiao was widowed at a young age, which is undoubtedly the greatest misfortune of ancient women.

On the other hand, Zhou Yu died while preparing to conquer Shu. He died at the age of 36. Fortunately, Xiao Qiao lived with her "beautiful Zhou Lang" harp, harp, singer and wife 1 1 year, and gave birth to two sons 1 daughter. At least Joe can rely on them when he is old.

Because of love, Xiao Qiao insisted on guarding the tomb of her late husband Zhou Yu 14 years, and died in 223 AD. Xiao Qiao died at the age of 47.

In that turbulent era, Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao, beautiful women in Jiangdong, reluctantly put on their wedding clothes when their father's bones were not cold. Although the married person is the "Mr. Right", the two sisters never imagined that her husband died young, leaving only her white hair facing the blue light and spending half her life alone and painfully.