Fate choice, where to go?

In daily life, there are often many choices, some of which are insignificant and harmless; Some choices are related to our life direction.

Some people have lived a smooth life because they made the right choice, and it has been smooth since then; And some people, because of the deviation in choice, have since become unknown and walked into the dead corner of life.

You have to go your own way in life. Since it is a choice, even if it is not your own imagination, you must grit your teeth to complete it. But what exactly is this road, but only passers-by know.

Su, a female master of Peking University, gave up her high-paying job. But resolutely chose to go home and become a painter. In her long working life, she said that she never dared to attend homecoming.

Sue's choice is naturally unexpected, so why on earth did she make such a huge change in her life?

High salary in high school, willful giving up

Good academic qualifications and high-paying jobs attract the infinite yearning of the world. After all, it also indicates a more relaxed, richer and more decent life. However, Sue actually chose to give up.

Sue's choice is naturally willful, which makes people wonder whether she has an excellent family background to support her to waste the abundant capital behind her and squander her precious youth.

However, the fact is not what we imagined. Sue was not born into a noble family. She was born in an ordinary family in Henan, and her parents are ordinary people who work hard to make a living.

Sue's family is not rich, and his parents can barely solve the problem of food and clothing all the year round. But even so, the lack of living materials did not stop parents from expecting Sue, nor did they deduct her education funds.

As the saying goes, children from poor families are masters while it is early, while Sue is very sensible at a young age. He not only understands his parents' hard work, but also often helps them do some housework within their power. Moreover, she is determined to be ambitious, determined to get out of poor rural areas and have her own career.

Of course, Sue hasn't slackened off in her studies, and he has been trying to keep excellent grades. Although he is in a remote rural area, his dream of being admitted to Peking University has been deeply rooted in Sue's heart.

Dream of Peking University, get what you want.

Finally, after studying hard in the cold window for ten years, Su finally came to the battlefield of the college entrance examination, but she didn't get into Peking University as she wished. This time, Sue's wish failed, but she didn't give up her insistence on Peking University. After failing in the college entrance examination, she made up her mind to go to Peking University for a master's degree.

It is precisely because of this persistence that Sue didn't slack off in college, finally. Sue got a master's degree from Peking University and entered the Peking University that many people dreamed of.

She expects that after graduating from Peking University, she can find a stable job, get a high income, get married in a big city and live a decent life from now on. Maybe this is the life that Sue originally wanted to choose.

I have to say that Sue is an idealist through and through. He can work hard for his ideal, but he is not satisfied with the status quo when facing difficulties, but chooses to give up.

Sue, who has been living in an ivory tower, knows that times are hard and life is not easy. Even if she struggles strictly according to her own life, she may not get everything she wants. Reality gave her a heavy blow.

Although Sue successfully obtained the master's degree in Peking University as she wished, she just graduated and found a job as a teacher in a university.

Facing students' regular life and limited salary every day, this kind of life makes Sue feel boring and boring, which seems to be far from her imagination.

Life is trivial and mediocre.

So Sue chose to resign and transfer to a company as a clerk. But she is still mediocre here. In order to make a living, she began to run endlessly and get tired.

The high consumption and fast pace of big cities made it difficult for Sue to adapt, and soon she felt unprecedented troubles. There is no doubt that she was finally defeated by the triviality of big city life, and she began to miss the tranquility and peace of her hometown.

Just then, a real estate company found Sue and planned to offer her a well-paid job. Such a high-paying job is often the dream of ordinary people, and this may become a turning point in Su's life. If we seize the opportunity, her life will undoubtedly usher in a broad future and material prosperity.

However, Su chose to give up "drifting north" and resolutely left this troubled city, but returned to her hometown.

Ordinary, difficult to make a living

Compared with the bustling big cities, Su's hometown is just an ordinary small county. At that time, at the age of 30, she just stayed at her parents' home and lived in a daze.

Of course, parents don't understand her choice. A master of Peking University is not looking for a well-paid job and a decent life in the city, but staying at home. What a scandal.

It's more gossip from neighbors. They talk about Sue's inaction and cast contemptuous and puzzled eyes at the same time.

Seeing more and more gossip from neighbors, it is not the way to stay at home all day and live in fear. What's more, Sue is also eager to have a career to support herself and reduce the burden on her family.

Finally, she left home. Surprisingly, Su, who received higher education, did not continue her well-paid and decent job, but turned to a bitter and tired painter.

A master of Peking University actually became a painter. This choice is even more controversial. But Sue seems to enjoy it. Although she works hard, she doesn't complain at all. This has been done for many years.

Compared with Sue's difficult situation, all her classmates have a successful career and a happy life, showing their talents in big cities.

Perhaps because of this, our works are too ordinary and humble. Because of his face, he never dared to attend Sue's class reunion to protect his dignity.

Although Su holds a master's degree in Peking University, she chose to give up her high-paying job and become a painter, struggling in obscurity in an ordinary life. She said that this kind of life is very practical and relaxed.

Even in the face of public criticism, so what? Just go your own way, as long as it doesn't go against your will. No matter what others say, it's just a passing sight.