The mage said, you see, there is nothing in this world that can't be put down, just because it is not painful enough. If it hurts enough, you can put it down.
It's really like this, nothing can be put down, and no one can live without anyone.
People are often like this and don't know how to let go. More and more desires, more and more greed, fame and fortune, money, power and beauty, like mountains, kept increasing until one day I completely crushed myself.
For example, those corrupt officials, because of their great desire and insatiable greed, even sent themselves to prison.
The moment I stepped into the prison, I realized that no matter how greedy the money is, it will no longer be my own. No matter how many lovers I find, no one will come to see you again. From the end, I will go back to the beginning. Life will not bring death, nor will it take me away.
Know how to let go and dare to let go.
Knowing how to let go, in fact, many people understand. However, how many people dare to let go?
Just like us office workers, we go to work against the moon and watch the stars go home every day. I am very busy and hard every day, and I dare not slack off. I was a house slave, a card slave, a car slave and finally a child slave.
I have been fighting for others all my life, and I have never lived for myself. In this way, we are working hard, but also bear the tremendous pressure brought by skyrocketing housing prices, soaring prices, unemployment and illness.
You think they don't know how to let go? Don't they understand why? They know and understand it. However, they have no choice but to drop everything.
In fact, whoever the world leaves is the same, and time will not stop. Man, put it down when you are tired. Don't wait until you have a nervous breakdown to remember.
As Tagore famously said: When a bird's wings are tied with gold, it can't fly. Yes, if you have too many things on your back, even if you get them, you can't enjoy them, because you have been crushed by them first.
Put it down, put it down.
In society, no matter how much knowledge we have, no matter how much wealth we have, no matter how noble our position is, all of us learn from others and have something to learn from them.
The more successful you are, the more you have to put down your identity, keep a low profile and be modest. Only in this way can you gain more knowledge, create greater wealth and success, have a higher status and win the respect and love of others.
Don't think that you are smarter than others and can do everything well. You know this and you know that. Put away your arrogance and humility, and put down your identity to learn.
You know, identity is not born, it is given by others. In other words, when your strength is getting stronger and stronger, no matter where you go, you can win the respect of others, the road under your feet will get longer and wider, and you will get closer and closer to success. Come on!
Identity is not its own, it is given by others. Respect doesn't mean that you can win the respect of others by respecting yourself. Only by putting down your identity and respecting others can you win the respect of others.
In the process of real communication, only by knowing the word "willing" can we understand that if we want to make the road under our feet wider and longer, we must be willing to let go of our identity.
Because people have different values, when you are important enough, no one will let you go.
Smiled and said to Zhai Ming, "I want to leave this company. I hate this company! " "
Zhai Ming proposed: "I raise my hands in favor of your revenge! This broken company must give it some color to see see. But now is not the best time for you to leave. "
Smile and ask: Why?
Zhai Ming said: "If you leave now, the company won't lose too much. You should take advantage of the opportunity in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become independent figures in the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, and the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive. "
Smile think ZhaiMing makes sense. So he worked hard and got what he wanted. After more than half a year's efforts, he has many loyal customers.
When we met again, Zhai Ming asked with a smile: Now is the right time, jump up and act quickly!
Smiling indifferently, the boss and I talked for a long time, ready to promote me as assistant to the general manager. I have no plans to leave for the time being.
In fact, this is Zhai Ming's original intention. A person's job is always just for resume. Only by paying more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him.
Only by making yourself important enough can you have bargaining capital, so try to improve yourself.
Nothing can't be let go. Strive to improve yourself and make yourself important enough. Cheers!