Being a housewife for a long time caused Wu Min a psychological gap, which made her doubt about her marriage.
After Wu Min and her husband moved to Shanghai, she was very strange to life in Shanghai. She is lazy and needs company very much. Since marriage, my husband has been working outside to support his family. She has nothing to do but take care of the children. She lives in a villa and doesn't worry about life and expenses. Unfortunately, my husband is obsessed with his work. He often goes to work at the beginning of the month and goes out at the end of the month. She was away from home most of the time, which led to a cold relationship between them. She is at home alone. It is easy to make mistakes without company.
The marriage of middle-aged people is very bitter. Apart from romantic love, marriage is a chicken feather reality. When you open your eyes every day, you must work hard for your daily needs. Wu Min's husband is an elite in the workplace. He has been running for many years. He belongs to the higher income class. He seldom stayed at home, which caused her complaints and dissatisfaction. Years of marriage have brought her stability and prosperity, but it is also accompanied by deep emptiness and fear. Especially when she saw that her former classmates and friends had a wonderful life, the psychological gap was very large.
What her husband did made Wu Min more and more indifferent. Her husband didn't give up his job, but still insisted, which made her sad and angry. Tears immediately lost control. Then the husband went home and played a trick to tell her not to stare at the little sugar pill and make the illusion of happiness, and then stabbed her severely. For her, this is undoubtedly a devastating blow and a complete despair of marriage. She still has romantic fantasies in her heart.
Marriage is a combination of resources and equivalent exchange. In the mode of strong women and weak men like Chen Shan's family, husbands must provide more emotional value, and vice versa. In Wu Min's family relationship, she is also a person with relatively weak economic strength and must provide emotional value, tolerance and patience for each other.