I thought the result was young and beautiful, but the final result was beyond many people's expectations. The proportion of women with "high emotional intelligence" is the highest, which is more than twice that of young and beautiful women.

Indeed, there are many happy women around me.

They are not the most beautiful, have the highest IQ, and have no deep family background and economic strength. They have only one thing in common: high emotional intelligence.

The same woman, some people are liked by men, and some people are not appreciated by men. The key lies in their emotional intelligence.

0 1, a woman with high emotional intelligence knows how to control her emotions.

The happiness of life depends largely on one's emotions.

Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. Women are emotional animals and are easily influenced by emotions.

Women with high emotional intelligence know how to control their emotions, and will not affect the overall situation because their emotions are out of control. Naturally, she can be liked by men.

My colleague Zhang Jia has a very happy married life. Now her seemingly smooth love life is full of ups and downs at first.

Zhang Jia is from the countryside, and her husband is from the city. They fell in love at first sight in college and got together.

Zhang Jia's husband's parents are employees of state-owned enterprises, and they have arranged many blind dates for him before. These girls come from similar backgrounds to her husband's.

However, due to the appearance of Zhang Jia, all these blind date objects were ruined, so Zhang Jia's parents-in-law gave Zhang Jia a good evaluation.

Once during the Spring Festival, Zhang Jia had dinner with her husband, his family and a few friends. Maybe she drank some wine. Later, the topic of rural girls marrying urban men for an urban hukou was discussed. Zhang's mother-in-law is emotional, implying Zhang's father and son.

Zhang Jia was wronged at that time, but she managed to control her emotions and smiled.

Later, my parents-in-law felt guilty and invited Zhang Jia to dinner to apologize. At this point, Zhang Jia still controlled his emotions, politely accepted the apology, did not embarrass his parents-in-law, and took care of the overall situation of family harmony.

Zhang Jia's emotional control won everyone's respect and trust, and also won her husband's love.

Women with high emotional intelligence don't get carried away in prosperity, don't lose their manners in adversity, and know how to sacrifice themselves and take care of the overall situation. How can a man not like such a woman?

02. Women with high emotional intelligence know how to put themselves in other's shoes.

I remember a famous person said: The world is beautiful because everyone is different.

Women with high EQ know empathy, which enables them to get along well with the people around them.

A woman with high emotional intelligence insists on herself without a bottom line. They are determined to make friends with like-minded people, but for people with different ideas, they don't refute them as soon as they come up, but choose to listen and think from the perspective of others.

Patty Hou, a famous artist in Taiwan Province, is such a woman with high emotional intelligence.

Unlike other female artists in Taiwan Province, Patty Hou and her rich husband Huang Baijun got married on 20 1 1. It has been nine years now, but they are still deeply attached to each other.

After marriage, they have two sons, Ian and Ethan. Now the boss is 5 years old and the second is 2 years old. A family of four is happy and sweet.

Their happy life is inseparable from Patty Hou's sympathy.

In the entertainment circle, Patty Hou has always been known for his understanding. I remember an interview in which a reporter asked her husband what to do if he cheated. When she met other female stars, she would have ignored them with a black face. Patty Hou said that she is a public figure now, and I am very glad that everyone helps me supervise.

Even when asked about sex, she can laugh it off and thank everyone for their concern.

It is not surprising that Patty Hou's way of thinking from the perspective of others and saving face for others has always been favored by her husband after marriage.

Women with high emotional intelligence can be harmonious but different, seek common ground while reserving differences, and let others get along with them like spring breeze. Men naturally like to associate with such women.

03. Women with high emotional intelligence will survive.

A woman with high emotional intelligence can live, and she can always lead an ordinary life with relish.

Of course they know that life is not easy, but they will try their best to make life interesting.

Once in Zhihu, I saw the living condition of an urban woman with high emotional intelligence.

She usually pays great attention to dressing up. Although there is no heavy makeup, the makeup is exquisite, well dressed and dignified.

She kept the house in good order and raised some succulents, which were warm and beautiful.

She is an amazing woman at work, but she reads incense when she comes home from work, and sometimes she learns some new dishes to share her joy with her relatives.

She likes traveling, and whenever she has a holiday, she goes out to experience exotic customs and enrich her mind.

She and her husband met at a book club. She recited Ye Zhi's When You Are Old on the stage, and they hit it off.

Then they fell in love and got married. The two of them still watch exhibitions and travel regularly, and their lives are full and happy.

Living with such a woman, life is always full of happiness, how can men not like it?

The same woman, the same environment, some people live happily, while others are full of misfortune. All these reasons can be summed up as: mentality.

And mentality depends on a person's emotional intelligence.

A woman with high emotional intelligence can control her emotions and take care of the overall situation; Can get along well with others and gain respect; You can live seriously and fill happiness with ordinary daily life.

Compared with these things, "young and beautiful" is not so important, so men naturally like women with high emotional intelligence.

If you have such a woman with high emotional intelligence, please cherish it.