I'm Ling Xin, the nanny of two children. I haven't worked for six years, because my Dabao was 2.6 kg premature. For her sake, I resigned, because there was no one at home to help take care of the children, so I had to resign and take care of the children at home until Bauer was born. In the past six years, I have felt too much sadness about full-time nannies.

1, no money, the goal is to make money, and I have done micro-stores, Taobao, brushing, WeChat business and stock trading with my children. One set didn't work, so I changed the other set. After three years, I wasted time and energy, and finally it was in vain.

2. I realized that my husband was left out in the cold and neglected, because his work is facing a colorful world, and there is no shortage of beautiful and smart women in the working environment, and he deals with different people every day.

What about me? She is a housewife, has no own circle, and walks around the house all day. Polarization, and he has little in common. He also came back with his mobile phone and rarely communicated.

Sometimes I chat with my female colleagues recklessly after work so late. Busy all day without help and understanding, a little disgusted! My heart is cold, even a little hatred.

3, realize that you are backward, backward is worthless, who will talk about dignity with a worthless person. After Bauer was born, I realized that my life should not be like this. I want to realize my dream and become a useful person through exams. Sign up for the teacher qualification certificate, and the teacher will take the undergraduate exam himself. Change yourself through learning.

However, two years later, both the written test and the interview of the teacher qualification certificate passed, but the Putonghua test failed three times. Although there are online tutorials for self-taught undergraduates and teachers are urging them to study, they can't stick to it. I was particularly anxious when I came to the exam.

4. See the dawn of life

Seeing the cool advertisement, I was very excited because I was about to take three exams. Is it true?/You don't say.

Anyway, it is no problem to experience it. I am just a casual psychology, and what I have experienced is true and sincere. The monitor of the training camp is very attentive. Always greeting me to remind me to study, no matter how late I ask questions, she always replies, and she will chat with me and give me advice, which really touched me, so I insisted on listening to the experience class and punching in.

I was shocked when I heard it! Wow, I really mean everything I say. After listening to the live class of the teacher, it was shocking! I feel that I have seen hope and my study has been saved! I will feel that my life has been saved.

Seeing celebrities is slow and fast, creating miracles, and people with physical disabilities can succeed, and so on! I began to reflect on myself. I listened to it two or three times and copied the courseware. I learned this method of Kangci's progress, but I still don't quite understand it. Then I saw the sharing of Kao Ba's classmates and started benchmarking.

I decided to concentrate on this course.

But at the end of 10, I have to take the self-study exam of three subjects. I was very anxious and decided to concentrate on reviewing the exam first, so I used the progress book, and then I was addicted to this state that I had never experienced before, and I could write it every night in the morning of 1-2.

1 1 In June, 2008, he became a student in the fifth exam.

Second, what did Kao Ba bring me?

1. Progress in learning:

Because I have a progress book, I have never been so confident in the exam, and then when I saw the test paper, I knew that I could get those points steadily. I passed three subjects in that exam.

20 19, 1 10, applied for BA. By June 2020, 10, I had passed 8 subjects and graduated from 5 subjects, among which I once applied for 4 subjects. I can only take notes on three subjects a month, but I don't have time for that subject, and then I only got 52 points. Later, I learned that as long as I made serious progress, it would have passed long ago.

That month, like devil training, I fought until two or three o'clock every day. I have to take care of my children and pick them up, and I have to be busy with housework, but my serious attitude and method of practicing progress are so serious that I can pass every subject.

Exercise books play a great role in passing the exam quickly.

Second, the harvest of parenthood.

Because I learned Kao Ba and read the details of Bu Liang Zi's memorizing 2 1 sudden English, I thought: Can children in kindergarten class recite a book? Then I picked up the Disciples' Rules to make my daughter make a little progress in this epidemic.

I'm thinking: if she can recite it, then I have to recite it first before I can understand her feelings. Then I took action,

We recited in the competition. I first take her to read sentence by sentence, then take her to understand sentence by sentence in a language she can understand, and then recite sentence by sentence, following the core algorithm of learning.

Children find it a bit difficult. Those words are incomprehensible, and they are still absent-minded in understanding. I will naturally follow her and teach her a word when she is in a good mood. Teach her when she wants candy. Teaching while playing games. But every time, let her review the previous progress, encouragement and praise, temptation and games. Finish it in one month. It will be finished in two months.

I remember my daughter came back a few weeks ago and told me that the teacher invited her today. I asked her why. She said that the teacher asked her to recite Disciples Rules. Very happy, very fulfilled.

Third, improve the relationship between husband and wife.

I think all children can recite the rules of a disciple, listen to the teacher's class and answer questions, and find that Tao Te Ching has a great influence on the nuclear teacher. I am interested in the sentences mentioned on the back page. I like and approve this book and take immediate action.

The husband sees his daughter's progress and wants to learn. He may think that as a father, he can't even recite Disciples Rules, and vowed to do so. Time flies. Half a month.

He hasn't been able to recite it. He doesn't listen to my method, and his learning method is wrong. Playing disciple rules in a loop every day is like listening to a song. He can only remember the first paragraph and put it down when he is tired of listening.

I told him the meaning of discipleship. Someone asked him to recite the Tao Te Ching, which is more suitable for adults, with me, and he agreed. I found that his way of speaking was to learn to sing. He doesn't understand. How can he succeed if he recites every word? Wasting time.

Then I remembered him. From the first chapter of Tao Te Ching, I taught him to understand in a language he could understand. One sentence after another, and then I went back. Slow is fast. You can recite a chapter in less than 20 minutes, and then stick to chapter 15 intermittently. He stopped because he was busy with his work and didn't review progress, but he agreed with Kao Ba's method.

Because of Kao Ba's study, I can make things more organized and teach my children more methods. Then every night, no matter how late he comes back, I will share my feelings with him. What I learned. Then after listening to it, he had doubts, feelings and learning. Then he used to listen to me "nagging" before going to bed. And at first, you will tell me something and listen to my opinion.

For him, I think he is also like a child. Let him experience it and he will be sure that the tighter the sand in his hand, the faster it will flow. It is better to let him go and let him run. If he falls, he will grow naturally.

Husband and wife are like each other's mirrors. How do you want him to treat you? You must treat him. If you smile at him and praise him, he will appreciate you and feel your kindness. Even if he doesn't appreciate it, if you do well, he will gradually feel your kindness.

There are also women who always love learning and constantly improve their values and abilities. Youth erased by years can't erase the charm brought by learning. The more confident, the more meaningful, the more beautiful, and the less old, the most beautiful woman is confident and calm.

For the sake of children and families, we should study hard to be a virtuous wife, coordinate the relationship between husband and wife, and let children have a warm and happy home. Let's go

Four. Experience and harvest of being a class Committee

The first time in the training camp, I was a serious member. I read their resumes among the people who signed up for the class Committee, and they all think they are very powerful, but they are very ordinary and can't be the head of the class Committee. I just want to learn this training well.

I wrote a draft almost word for word. Listen carefully every day, punch in, and then at the end, get all the cards, play a lot of excellent cards, and award outstanding students.

After the training camp, I did not hesitate to report for duty, continued to burn a pot of water, followed the teacher, and practiced the real knowledge of Kao Ba.

The second time in the intensive camp, I saw the recruitment of the class Committee. Because I just finished the exam and didn't study well before, I really wanted to study again, and then I was assigned to the position of academic Committee. The wind chime class told me that it only takes one hour every day and gave me a link to the 13 list. When I added them, I used a universal password. 13 people have seen me.

Accept me and I'll start working. I greet him every morning to remind him, or sometimes I send him new ideas or punch in, and sometimes I ask him what he is busy with recently. Give her some advice.

Check their cards every day and give them encouragement. But my words of encouragement were one-sided, so I thought about how to praise them. Then I think the truest compliment is to see their needs in his articles and praise their advantages.

Until the end, some players and I were like friends, and several groups had the highest punching rate.

Later, I felt that the work was getting easier and easier, and sometimes it was finished in less than an hour. At the end of the camp, he won the excellent class Committee and the goal achievement award.

The third intensive camp, because I want to concentrate on the exam, I want to stay in it silently, and I don't want to be a class Committee. But that month, I saw that there were many loopholes in the group and unconsciously assumed the duties of the class Committee. I was asked to be the class committee in my class, but I still chose freedom.

I thought I would have more time to study. But the freer I am, the less motivated I am. I concentrate on punching in every day. Although I have excellent cards almost every day, I still feel inadequate. Action and thinking, combined with Kao Ba knowledge, are excellent cards.

My conclusion is: as long as I think there is nothing I can't do. Full card at the end of the camp, outstanding students, king of memory, goal achievement award.

In fact, for me, I don't care about these, I care about learning, I care about helping others, seeing the progress of others, that kind of joy! I see.

In the fourth training camp, I saw many job advertisements in the intensive training camp. Compared with the previous three Kaoba training and intensive training, I haven't been able to boil a pot of water, and my study is not good enough. Then there will be an exam next month. Why don't I walk in again?

After introducing myself, I applied for minor courses with general academic qualifications, and I found that their academic qualifications were somewhat shameful.

In fact, the first person who took the initiative to find me was Jing Yu's class. "See your resume, I appreciate you. Why not come to our class as a minor course? " . "Thank you for giving me this opportunity. The higher I do, the greater my responsibility. Is the sentence "the position of the ass determines the mind. "When you sit in that position, you must think about that responsibility and force yourself to take responsibility.

Teaching is the best learning, and teaching can reach 90%. Then I output the best teaching. I learned to summarize and punch in, and I learned to teach my children in simple language. Then the harvest is gradual, and the progress of the children can surprise me.

Slowly, I feel like a class committee, treating students as my own children. I want to educate them with stories, so first of all, I will set an example to influence them.

When I finish the exam, I will really fight for the next class, continue to go through the exam and continue to boil this pot of water.

Thank you for meeting Kao Ba.