The characteristics of a bad man are: thick-skinned, bold, good at lying, not too morally bound, with many tricks and means, and irresponsible once he has the opportunity to say it in the future. And these characteristics just hit the weakness of women.
Assuming that a good man and a bad man with similar hardware conditions meet the same woman, the lethality of a bad man is n times. First of all, the probability of a good man holding hands is much smaller, because a good man should consider the responsibility before starting to pursue, so he will not pursue what he doesn't fully like, which is immature at present, has a boyfriend, and has a bad future (for example, in a different place), with many restrictions. The bad guys won't be responsible anyway. As long as the other person is a little feminine or within reach, he will chase after him first.
Second, good people are honest. It doesn't matter if he has no money. He will also tell the truth about his woman's shortcomings, which will often disappoint her. And bad men can make up two stories at will to show their superior strength; Sweet words to women can easily make them be elated and think that they have found a bosom friend. In this impetuous social background, the results of a good man's years of hard work are mostly not as wonderful as the stories made up by a bad man in three minutes.
Third, good men always want to respect each other and will not find opportunities to flirt. Bad men stimulate women's hormones at any time by teasing, drinking and dancing. Take each other as your own whenever you have the chance. Once a woman's pleasure is aroused, she will soon fall in love with this man. A bad man's one-time effect often exceeds a good man's silent efforts many times. Some silly women think that men fall in love with her when they fuck her; A sillier woman thinks that once she is fucked by a man, she will definitely fall in love with him. Women's nature contains the gene of resignation.
Fourth, a good man really pays attention to the feelings of both sides, and his mentality is easily unbalanced, arguing with his girlfriend for some trivial things. The bad guy thought, anyway, I'm just playing a game and looking for some excitement. Come on, coax her. Why are you angry? The mentality is relatively peaceful, but it looks mature and has a good personality.
Fifth, bad men usually have more dating experience than good men. Referring to the first rule, a bad man acts whenever he has the chance. Even if he doesn't succeed, he accumulates experience and gradually understands a woman's psychology. Most women are irrational and have all kinds of inexplicable and totally illogical prejudices (for example, a man with stains on his shoes must be unreliable). Bad men do these superficial jobs well when dating through a lot of practical experience, while good men are ignorant, don't understand why, and think they are not strong enough.
Sixth, when there is a dispute between the two sides, a good man has self-esteem and principle and will not give in to the other side easily. Often no one will give in for small things, and finally they can only break up. And bad men are thick-skinned, and it is easier to admit mistakes than to drink porridge, and it is often easy to coax the other party to change their minds; Of course, that was when he was not tired of playing, otherwise he could find an excuse to break up even if the woman gave in, and sometimes women would give in again and again and completely become the plaything of bad men.
Seventh, a good man has principles and follows the rules, which often seems boring. And bad men are full of excitement and change, which often gives women a sense of freshness. Unconsciously, women are confused and controlled by bad men.
Eighth, if the woman realizes that the two sides are not suitable, she will take the initiative to break up. Good men will only take aboveboard measures, and the actual effect is limited; Bad guys can do whatever it takes, stalking, beating, threatening and luring. Women are lazy, changeable, easy to bow to strength, and often can't get rid of the dirty tricks of bad men.
So, as a woman, what is the effective means to identify bad men?
1. Don't believe in sweet words (worthless, but confusing). See what the man has done for you (money, labor, reputation, personal safety, etc. But be careful, don't make yourself look greedy and selfish, because it will probably ruin your image in the eyes of a good man.
2. Understand each other's personal information (by reading ID cards, business cards, reading each other's work resumes, calling each other's company, etc.). ). But be careful not to be too abrupt and communicate well. General liars and bad guys are jealous that others know his actual situation; A good man will accept it even if he doesn't understand it at first.
See if he is willing to take you to meet his family, friends and colleagues. Many men with playful mentality will find excuses to escape, because it will be even harder to get rid of you in the future.
I accidentally asked about his plans for your future. When prepared, the bad guy can often make it clear, but when suddenly asked, he may falter or contradict his previous statement.
Don't bother him by phone every day, just check it a few times when he doesn't expect it. In this way, those men who intend to step on a few boats will either show their true colors or give up.
6. See how deeply he remembers the time you spent together and your personal preferences. If the other person can't remember many details, it means that he may not be very interested in you.
Be careful not to be rude when using the above means. Most good men don't like savage girlfriends. Be reasonable and give priority to communication. If the other party asks, you can tell the truth, just to find out if the other party is sincere.
Four-word formula for picking up girls
The first trick: touch
This "touch" is different from what you think, it is to find out the details. My grandson said: Know yourself.
Peter, there's no fighting. My brother is a lout, he can't think abstractly and he can't speak clearly. You are all
What is biology and chemistry should be able to understand this truth. There are two ways to touch: yes.
He who touches his heart cannot touch his watch. What she likes and dislikes; What perfume to use,
Lipstick; What is that mantra, addiction; Family background, political background, and so on, all of them.
Don't be a class, remember it thoroughly. Remember, you are not studying for the exam. It's not hard to say,
It's easier said than done, as long as you work hard. When I was a brother, I always saw the girl I liked, who was worse than others.
The sisters moved her clearly. With this information, we can be invincible.
The second trick: shit.
The soldiers and horses did not move, and the food and grass went first. People in love are very unstable, and sometimes they can say anything.
Caused waves and the situation turned sharply. So, let's take care of the people around the girl first. If she
If you have a boyfriend, first become close friends with your boyfriend, wait for the opportunity and use up all the bad water in your stomach.
One day you'll turn over a new leaf. Look at the ancient history, Zhao Gao, Prince, Yongzheng and other big bosses. What they did was not just go with the flow.
Bright. It would be easy if she didn't have a boyfriend, but it shouldn't be careless. Dude, I'll do this.
Not doing well, as a result, her sisters said, "He is just a kind of distance beauty!" " "Brother, I am like a shadow.
Hanging from each other, standing alone for weeks
The third measure: stickiness
As the name implies, stick to her. The so-called sincerity, the stone is open. In this regard, brother Li Bai
My brother knows very well that he can sharpen the needle with an iron bar. Girls are made of water,
Easy to move. When I come home from work, it must be "all shall be well that ends well", and no one will make irresponsible remarks again. ask
To do this well, it is recommended to look at the thick black several times first. Don't be too persistent, do something different. should
Just just, soft is soft. What roses, Jacky Cheung? Please be careful, Dabao. Liu Huan said, When it's time to shoot,
Do it. He did it for your own good!
This has always worked. So far, there have been no cases of failure. Girls, don't laugh, if this happens to you.
Kind of right, but that fellow doesn't belong to the white horse series, so you are ready to cry. You asked me, and so did I.
Will give you a solution. Who told me that my old man has passion?
The fourth measure: trial
The so-called formula 0 is dispensable. Trial is to think carefully about which category you and she belong to.
To put it bluntly, it is worth it, otherwise it tastes bad and not worth it! But it's up to you,
You said you deserved it, and you said you didn't deserve it. If she says you don't deserve it, brother, I'll lock her up every time.
God gave her 20 Jin of lard. Five years later, let's see if she deserves it!
Important statement:
1 Disabled for people with bad intentions.
2 looking for a wife, disabled.
For married women, it is forbidden.
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Ten commandments for men
Men, in life, should seriously abide by the following commandments:
1, don't bet with women. Losing to a woman has no face, and winning a woman has no face.
2, don't fight with women, because women are not cute when they are drunk, and you are even less cute in women's eyes when you are drunk.
Don't talk to women about their love history. If you don't develop with her, your love story will be publicized everywhere.
If you have sex with her, your love history will become something she blackmails you.
4. Don't send money to women. Money will make good women worse and bad women worse.
6. Don't talk to women about other women. Because the same sex is the enemy; If you praise another woman, won't she?
Beware of crumbs; If you denigrate other women, she will have the same experience.
7. Don't tell women about other men, because women have been studying men all their lives, and she knows men better than you.
8. Don't argue with women. Because women are emotional animals and never make sense.
9. Don't seduce the woman you love. You will lose what you love forever, because women can't stand the temptation, let alone want it.
Seduce a woman you don't love, because you will get burned.
10, don't try to love two women at the same time. Because you will lead a miserable life; Married.
Stop looking for a lover, because you will suffer all your life.