When two people get along, the more emotionally involved they are, the less likely they are to get hurt, but the more they ask for something in return, the more likely they are to get hurt.

Personally, I don't think it is necessary to deliberately hide your true self to cater to each other whether you are in love or after marriage, which will only lead to one party getting more and more tired, thus causing the balance of feelings to collapse. Only by keeping your own rhythm can you jump out of the most beautiful waltz in the world.

Moreover, there is no right or wrong in some trivial matters in getting along, only who is more tolerant and who loves who more. A person who always asks the other person to make changes must ask more people in his feelings, and such people will be hurt sooner or later.