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There is no need for vocational school students to feel inferior.
Now I am a student in a vocational school, but I don't feel inferior.
My situation is a little special. After the intense college entrance examination, I was admitted to a college and received an admission notice. But today's reality is that it is difficult for college graduates to find jobs, let alone junior college. Therefore, I am a little hesitant about whether I can go to this college.
Once I passed a vocational school by car, and my father forced me to have a look. Only after I went did I know that this vocational school not only has good employment for students, but also offers majors related to my favorite art. This time, I was even more hesitant.
On the one hand, it is the college life I yearn for, and on the other hand, it is a vocational school with better employment. Every time I think about how to choose, my heart is extremely contradictory. If I go to college and find a bad job in the future, I will stay at home all day. I think it's a waste of parents' hard-earned money and worrying them. If you go to a vocational school, you feel inferior to the reputation of the university, and what you fear most is inferiority. Finally, after a fierce ideological struggle, I finally figured it out: bitter first, then sweet. Moreover, in vocational schools, I can not only learn a technology, but also teach myself some university knowledge, theories and skills. Coupled with my efforts and innovation, I will definitely break out of my own world.
Now, I no longer feel inferior. I think what today's society needs is talents with skills+knowledge+innovative quality, but now many college students are very tall and often disdain skills, so many enterprises can't find the talents they need. Students in vocational and technical schools can take the lead in the job market because of their accurate positioning from the beginning.
Finally, I want to say to all vocational school students: The key is to face everything with a good attitude and overcome the difficulties that stand in your way. Vocational education is promising, and there is absolutely no need for vocational school students to feel inferior!
(Lv Shaojia, Xi 'an Garden Technical School, Shaanxi Province)
Vocational schools can also make me proud.
Last year, I was unexpectedly defeated in the senior high school entrance examination. With my score, I can't go to County No.1 Middle School and No.2 Middle School, but I can only go to vocational secondary school. Holding the admission notice, my eyes were red with tears.
When school started, I began to communicate with my classmates. Like me, they were all "forced to go to vocational colleges". After more than two months of school, people asked me where to go to school, but I still faltered and said that I didn't have the courage to say the word "vocational college".
65438+ One day in June last year 10, the head teacher told us that vocational school students can enjoy the vocational education subsidy of 1500 yuan every year, which is really great news for me. My family is in the countryside, my father is in poor health, and I rely on my mother to farm alone to support my family. My living expenses are all saved by her frugality. 1500 yuan is not a small sum for my family.
At the end of 10, the school gave a 750 yuan grant. When my mother took the money from the head teacher, she cried with joy. Since this year, the school has changed the way of granting subsidies, opened an account for each of us in the bank, and directly transferred the subsidies to the account at the end of each month. In addition, the school also allows us to learn the theory while operating in the training workshop, and pay by the piece, so that I can earn 300 yuan a month for part-time work, plus subsidies, and I can subsidize my family life without spending money at home. Now, I don't feel inferior in vocational college, but I feel particularly proud that I can share my parents' worries.
(Guo Cuifeng, Vocational Secondary School, Wudi County, Shandong Province)
A watershed in life
Disappointed and sad after failing the senior high school entrance examination, I entered a vocational school that many people looked down upon-a coal mechanic school that made "coal spots".
Do I really want to enter such a school? Do you really want to be a "coal black spot" like your parents? Until I stepped into the gate of Yangmei Technical School and sat in the classroom, I was still complaining about my fate. I am listless in class, silent after class, and walk with my head down, as if others are always laughing at myself. I am deeply immersed in the whirlpool of inferiority.
"How old is this child? Where do you go to school? " My parents always give me a dirty look when people ask me. "The child is going to a key high school, and I have to hurry to save money for my child to go to college!" But I will stare at me afterwards: "Look at you, you went to a technical school, and the children of' Coal Black Spot' can make holes, and their parents can't count on you!" I really want to cry at this moment. ...
But in the three years of study and life in technical school, I gradually understood the truth that "360 lines, each line is the best". Through the study of integrating theory with practice, we have greatly broadened our horizons and increased our knowledge. More importantly, a conversation between the class teacher and me made me completely out of the quagmire of inferiority.
"Swiss army, I see you have been depressed recently. In fact, not only you, but also other students are a little depressed. In fact, don't underestimate our technical school, which is a place where talents come forth in large numbers! " Then, the head teacher told me the story of Xing Jun, a national model worker and worker technician. Although he is an ordinary worker, through hard work and hard training in his post, he has become a technical "master" that everyone can't live without.
After listening to the teacher's enlightenment, I looked at myself, blushing, and secretly determined that I must learn something in this vocational and technical school, reserve my technical knowledge fully, apply what I have learned, and create an extraordinary life on the coal naval battle line!
(Wei Ruijun of Shanxi Yangmei Group)
I feel inferior.
I'm a vocational school student, and I belong to the very inferior category.
In fact, I don't want to feel inferior, but also want to be confident. And those who make us learn badly from childhood and are criticized by teachers all the way from primary school are "used to it". I was naughty when I was a child, and my self-esteem began to strengthen when I grew up.
Although newspapers and TV always say that vocational education is booming, can you realize that except some students with really poor economic conditions, who can study hard in vocational schools? People like us who come to school because of poor study can't overcome their inferiority complex at all. Those students who study well and are full of energy used to study well. They want to find a good job with good grades and earn money to support their families early. To tell the truth, I feel inferior as soon as I leave school, because many people still look at vocational school students with colored glasses. The atmosphere in the school is not very good either. People who fight, fall in love and play games sometimes have a headache when I sit in class: I also want to learn skills and skills! When you are eager for progress, think about yourself, just like other peers. What should you do at this rate? But the foundation is too poor, and it seems that it is not so easy to chase. Now, I am really depressed. What should I do?
People's languages in the past
Job hunting experience helped me find confidence.
At that time, I was forced to attend a vocational and technical school in the city because of my failure in the senior high school entrance examination and the influence of my family's economic conditions, which was not my will. Since then, every time I meet a junior high school student who has been studying in a key high school, that sense of inferiority will quietly pervade my heart, and I always feel like a dwarf. But that job-hunting experience changed my one-sided understanding and helped me regain my confidence.
The job fair was bustling, and students shuttled in front of the recruitment booths of various units with resumes. When they saw a position that suited them, they voted. I am caught in the stream of people, constantly looking for "goals". An enterprise wants to recruit an accountant, but there are not many conditions that meet my requirements. Taking the opportunity of submitting my resume, I looked at my classmates from the corner of my eye. Most of them are junior college students or undergraduates. There are few vocational school students like me. When I submitted my resume, my heart cooled a lot, as if I had expected the result of my job search. But to my surprise, a few days later, I received a phone call from the company's personnel department, telling me that I was hired. At that moment, I was very happy. Later, I learned that my vocational skill level certificate and excellent performance in vocational skill competition during my school years made me stand out among many college students.
Looking back on that job-hunting experience, I was filled with emotion: it helped me find my self-confidence and made me clearly realize my advantages. I want to tell many vocational school students that there is no need to feel inferior. A skill is the "magic weapon" for us to be invincible in job hunting and find a satisfactory job.
(Gaolishu, Dalian City, Liaoning Province)
realize one's dream
In spring, I went to Qiu Lai. In a blink of an eye, this year is the third year I entered the university campus, and my life is ordinary and calm. Looking back on these days since I went to college, I have been enthusiastically participating in various club activities and enjoying a colorful campus life. Perhaps, this is really insignificant to many college students, but all this is precious to me.
Unlike many college alumni, I went to a vocational school instead of an ordinary high school. After failing the senior high school entrance examination, I chose a vocational school after missing the ordinary high school.
In fact, I didn't know the nature of vocational schools before, nor did I know that many people had great prejudice against vocational schools. I have come to understand that for various reasons, some people still regard vocational education as "second-rate education" and thus regard students in vocational schools as "second-rate students". I think the reason why people are biased against vocational schools is that many people don't understand vocational education, and it is precisely because of these misunderstandings and prejudices that many vocational school students feel inferior.
During my three years in vocational school, I have been experiencing and overcoming my inferiority complex. I don't want to tell others where I study, because if I tell others that I study in a vocational school, I always feel a few grades lower than others, and some of them can't hold their heads up. Even, I don't even have the courage to plan a blueprint for the future, because I don't feel qualified. Dreams are always beautiful, but as a vocational school student, what qualifications do you have to dream beautiful dreams? I can only face the cruel reality.
In this way, I spent a year and a half peacefully. During this period, I found that there are many things that I can do clearly, but I can't do well or even fail because of my inferiority. I'm annoyed about it.
Fortunately, I met a teacher who changed my life. She taught me to be confident, to stand up bravely and speak my mind. At this time, I discovered that many things are as simple as that. As long as you have the courage to try, success is yours. Later, through hard work, I was admitted to Huaiyin Teachers College, and my college dream was fulfilled.
Inferiority is a wet match, which will never burn the flame of success. Our future cannot be dimmed by inferiority complex. We should try our best to overcome our inner inferiority, and don't let it become a shackle that binds you and your hands and feet. In fact, the most important thing for people is to believe in themselves and learn to try bravely, so that they can get closer and closer to their dreams.
Teacher's point of view
Perspective on the Reasons of Vocational School Students' Inferiority
I have three years' teaching experience in secondary vocational schools and have a certain understanding of secondary vocational students. In my opinion, a considerable number of secondary vocational school students tend to feel inferior. Some are seriously tired of learning, often do not do homework and skip classes; Some have vague concepts of right and wrong, and regard fighting, puppy love and wearing strange clothes as fashion; Some people look down on themselves and attach too much importance to others' evaluation of themselves. These are all manifestations of inferiority. Analyzing the reasons, I think there are the following points:
First, the family lacks discipline and care. The vast majority of students in secondary vocational schools come from rural areas. Some of them are left-behind children, and some are from single-parent families. I was rarely educated and cared for by my parents since I was a child. Seeing peers snuggling up to their parents happily, they feel inferior over time.
Second, secondary education overemphasizes academic performance. The present exam-oriented education in middle schools can be described as impregnable. In order to improve the reputation of the school and pay special attention to the cultivation of gifted students, it is difficult for the sunshine of love to shine on "poor students" The school's assessment of teachers puts great pressure on teachers. In addition to hating iron not to produce steel, students with poor grades and some minor problems have also become the focus of teachers' punishment. In the long run, these students will lose confidence. And this part of the hopeless students in high school, and later some of them entered the secondary vocational school.
Third, the society lacks a correct understanding of secondary vocational education. In some people's eyes, a vocational school is a school where poor students gather, and it is difficult to make a big difference. Sending children in is just to confuse people. Some people even educate their children like this: If you can't learn any more, I'll send you to a secondary vocational school. Vocational schools have such a low status in people's minds, how can students not feel inferior?
In my opinion, to overcome the inferiority complex of secondary vocational school students, we should mainly start with school education. On the one hand, we should strengthen mental health education, guide students to establish confidence and courage, and understand that their life value lies in struggle and dedication; On the other hand, it is necessary to effectively improve the level of teachers' education, so that students in secondary vocational schools can achieve something, and they can show their talents and truly realize their own life value after entering the society; Third, the national policy should be inclined to vocational education, so that vocational school students can have a good home and really raise their heads.