As the saying goes: "Haste can't eat hot tofu, haste makes waste."
The other day, I read such a story in the book:
There is a boy who likes student biology very much. He wants to know how the caterpillar becomes a butterfly. Once, he saw a pupa in the grass, so he took it home and observed it every day.
A few days later, a crack appeared in the pupa, and the butterfly inside began to struggle, trying to scratch the pupa shell and fly out. An hour passed, and the butterfly was still trapped in the pupa. The boy decided to help it, so he picked up scissors to cut the pupa open. But he didn't expect that the butterfly died soon because its wings were not strong enough to fly.
Tragedy!
The process of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly was originally very painful and difficult, but only after these experiences can we get a dance in the future. The help of external forces turned love into harm, which caused the tragedy of butterflies.
Enlarge this tiny phenomenon in nature into our life, and we will understand that rushing for success will lead to ultimate failure. To be a man and do things, we should have a long-term vision and pay attention to the accumulation of knowledge and wealth, which will naturally follow. In fact, many things have a painful struggle and struggle process, and this is also a process to promote your growth.
Most people also know that rushing for success often backfires, and doing it always runs counter to it. They forget to step by step, and time will fail them.
Master these three methods and control your desire for success, and your life will be smoother and smoother.
Haste can't eat hot tofu, haste makes waste.
Time will not fail anyone who works hard.
After graduating from the University of Political Science and Law, Liu Zihan repeatedly ran into a wall when looking for a job. She watched her classmates either enter the civil service or pass the judicial examination to become lawyers. In this regard, she is envious and depressed.
Friends advised her to stick to it and always find a good job in the judicial office. Parents also hope that she can settle down soon.
Liu Zihan believes that no matter what the situation is, you must first have a job to support yourself, and then you can talk about hobbies and dreams.
In those days of job hunting, Liu Zihan made a living as an English tutor and submitted resumes to the legal departments of various companies. However, all the resumes submitted have fallen into the sea.
Gradually, she found that a good job in the eyes of others may not be suitable for herself. If she is too eager for success, it is unrealistic to get a place in the judicial field quickly.
Therefore, Liu Zihan decided to give full play to her advantages and apply for an English lecturer and speech coach in an English training institution. Sure enough, this job is more suitable for her, students like her classes very much, and she has found her own beacon of life.
"You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, and no one can eat fat in one bite, and I always believe that time will not disappoint anyone who works hard." She is still so calm in the face of her friends' approving eyes.
Start doing one thing wholeheartedly. No matter how reluctant you are, you should try your best to do it well. And after doing it, the mentality will be very calm, and maybe you can get unexpected gains.
Master these three methods and control your desire for success, and your life will be smoother and smoother.
The mentality will be very calm and you can get unexpected gains.
If you are too eager for success, you will miss a lot of good things that should belong to you.
Haste makes waste!
This is a point that my father has always emphasized. He said that blindly seeking quick success and instant benefit subjectively violates the objective law, and the result can only be failure. Only by getting rid of the psychology of crash, working hard actively and step by step can we achieve our goal.
In fact, when you strive to improve your strength and constantly strengthen yourself, everything will go on naturally. Many times, failure is not because we are not smart enough, but because we are too smart and want to succeed too much.
Slow, not stagnation and ease, but accumulation and precipitation, is ready to go, is a thick accumulation.
Because, even if you ride the wind and waves, some things may not reach the other side before others. If you are too eager for success, you will miss a lot of good things that should belong to you.
Maybe you will say, take your time, so slow that even the day lily may get cold. But have you ever thought? If you don't insist on walking step by step and want to leap forward, you may miss more beautiful day lilies.
In fact, most people who fail are impatient. In the face of some things, they can't always deal with them with a normal heart, and they are prone to impulsive words and deeds, which will directly lead to failure or worse results.
Master these three methods and control your desire for success, and your life will be smoother and smoother.
Don't rush for success, take your time and your God will give it to you.
It can be seen that impatience has a great influence on our physical and mental health, so how should we control it?
1, keep a normal heart
Keep calm when things happen and know what to do before. For some important things, we must make plans. With prior consideration and arrangement, people will not be impatient and their temperament will become calm.
Learn more and think more, and make your character quiet, steady and peaceful. Don't rush for success, take your time and your God will give it to you. If you don't get what you want, either you don't have enough time and practice, or it doesn't deserve you.
2. Know yourself correctly.
When setting goals, we should reasonably determine the time needed to achieve them according to our actual ability and current situation.
Be tolerant of yourself and don't be too impatient. If the time is not set properly and the expected results are not achieved within the expected time, people will become impatient and not calm, which will affect the motivation of follow-up efforts. Therefore, it is necessary to determine a reasonable expected time according to personal circumstances.
Master these three methods and control your desire for success, and your life will be smoother and smoother.
According to your actual ability and current situation, reasonably determine the time required to achieve the goal.
3. Raise awareness.
When impatience appears, we should learn to adjust ourselves, improve our ability to resist stress, and remind ourselves: "Calm down, can you solve the problem urgently?" ? Impatience will only make things worse. "
Through these self-suggestion and relief, it will help us quickly restore our emotional normality and gain a successful mentality. Besides, people should do things from beginning to end, not anticlimactic.
Everything should have a good start, and you can get satisfactory results through your unremitting efforts, which will effectively help you overcome anxiety. Actually, it's no use worrying.
Master these three methods and control your desire for success, and your life will be smoother and smoother.