Nowadays, girls are very cautious in choosing marriage, because we all know that you want to have a good life by choosing marriage.

Of course you don't want anything inappropriate to happen between two people. Everyone just wants to get married and live together for a long time.

But a marriage and her husband have a common language, and they have three views, and they love each other.

It is also important that you can live in harmony with the other family, because marriage is a matter for two families. If you get married at his house, you have to get in touch with his parents. Wouldn't it be even sadder if two people often have disputes over their parents?

Although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are also a family, they are not relatives in blood, but because a man finally chooses to live together. This relationship is actually very fragile.

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Xiaohua came from the countryside, and a girl was finally admitted to the university. When I was in college, I liked a primary school that came out of the countryside.

Although Xiaohua is from the countryside, she has excellent academic performance and often gets scholarships. It is this hard-working quality that attracts her husband. After four or five years of college love, Xiao Li just got married as an intern.

Both of them found a good job, but at this time Xiaohua found herself pregnant. Naturally, the pregnant floret can't become a full member, so she stays at home for a few days and intends to continue to slowly submit her resume.

However, Xiaohua, who has just been pregnant, has not had any work experience. In this case, it is very difficult to find a job. Although she tried for a long time, there was no result.

It happened that at this time, the mother of her husband Xiao Li came to live in the city with her son, and by the way, she could take care of the pregnant floret.

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Xiaohua could have a good future. Although she can't blame her children, it's really for her children, her husband and her family, so she gave up her good career and kept her baby at home with peace of mind.

At this time, as a husband, we should love and appreciate her. As a mother-in-law, knowing Xiaohua's contribution to the family, she should sincerely treat her as a family member and love and take care of her as a daughter.

There is always a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, such as mother and daughter, which is maintained on the surface, but this incompatibility also exists. What kind of relationship depends on how individuals maintain it.

Xiaohua's mother-in-law came to her son's house. She sees her son go out early and come back late every day. She thinks her son is very hard, and picks out the meat and cooks it for him every day.

Xiaohua saw all this in her eyes, but didn't make it clear. Because she is pregnant now, she really can't go out to work, and many companies won't want her.

Stay at home all the time, get along with my mother-in-law, and think about getting on well with her mother-in-law, so that she can bear it.

But Xiaohua didn't expect that her mother-in-law took his tolerance as her weakness, so she bullied her even more. Mother-in-law doesn't care about her at all, and she doesn't care about the children in her belly. She only cares about her husband.

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Husband is really good to himself, but better to his mother, so when there is a problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she will trust her mother more. It is precisely because of this that my mother-in-law has no worries.

Mother-in-law thinks Xiaohua has no ability to work and only stays at home every day to spend the money earned by her son. She felt that her son was really wronged and wanted to help him vent his anger.

Moreover, the family is not rich at all, so we need to raise an idle person. One day Xiaohua went to the hospital to check the fetus, found out a little problem, needed to spend money, and drove Xiaohua out.

Xiaohua never thought that she would be swept out by her mother-in-law. She lost such a good job opportunity because of pregnancy, but she was looked down upon by others.

Xiaohua told her mother-in-law that she would not ask me again! It is true that this mother-in-law is too short-sighted. Xiaohua is not incapable of working, but can't work in a good company for physical reasons.

But as long as Xiaohua is willing, she can have her own children and find a better work unit than her husband in a few years.

I hope your mother-in-law can think hard. Your daughter-in-law is also a treasure in the hands of parents.

She was brought up by her parents since childhood, and she loves her deeply. Because love is married to your family, you should give her the warmth of the family. Caring for her and taking care of her is what an elder should do.

I also hope that every girl can meet a good mother-in-law and live a more perfect and happy life with her husband.