Colleagues who haven't been together for a long time say that I can't bear to let you go. People are emotional animals, a month is not long, but it is not short. It is enough to establish or cultivate something between two strangers. I smiled and said to my colleagues, you have to get used to it. That's the job. After completing the resignation procedure, it was time to get off work, and they were still busy with their work. I said goodbye to fate and pulled my seat open to leave.
I am not the kind of person who will jump ship at will, but I have done four jobs since my internship.
The internship in Guangzhou is also moving towards the goal set by itself. In the newly invested office building, the company can see the towering waist not far away every time it goes to work. There are many peach trees and other plants planted in the square downstairs, and there are Guangzhou Library and Museum in a few minutes. The working environment is not bad. Probably because I knew I would leave early, I had a weak relationship with my colleagues when I first joined the company, and I didn't deliberately establish some contacts. In addition, colleagues are IT frowsty men, so it is impossible to establish an emotional foundation. The only accident was that a month before I left, I suddenly fell in love with a tall Guangdong boy. I think leaving the company neatly is a bit of a constraint. At that time, the feeling of liking was as simple as junior high school. I saw that he was in a good mood for no reason. Buy him medicine when he has a cold, warm him up with a hot meal at noon, and ask him out to play on weekends, although he never asks. I just want to find some physical sustenance for this relationship, and I have never thought about how to like him. The day after I left my job, I spoke my mind. Then, I never saw it again.
After graduation, I came to Shenzhen, rushing between various interviews in the hot summer, confidently holding my resume to deal with various problems. This job is also one of my goals, and it is a copywriter for a real estate marketing company. Because the scale of the company is not large, there is no gradual training process, and I have not cultivated independent ability. My inner anxiety and doubt are infinitely amplified by the denial of Party A and my superiors. At that time, this emotion did not find a suitable outlet. I just want to escape this pain and self-doubt quickly and leave after four weeks in office. Then I thought about it carefully. This may be what Wang Xiaobo said. All human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence. Because I couldn't accept a blank sheet of paper, I didn't know what to do in the face of work, and I didn't survive that period of self-doubt and self-denial, so I became a deserter from work. The warning of this job is that if there is any problem at work, the first reaction should not be that I can't cope, but that I need to reflect my anxiety to my superiors first, and then communicate and mediate with my direct work. Many hurdles I thought I had crossed may be solved in front of experienced seniors.
Due to the pressure and anxiety brought by my last job, I chose office clerk for my second job after graduation. You don't need too much technical content and creative thinking, and you don't need too much mental activity. You just need to be careful, patient and rigorous. This comfortable working time lasted for more than a year. After thinking about my future work development direction and way out, I offered to resign. Because of the long working hours, I have established a feeling that I can go out to eat, sing K and climb mountains with my colleagues. So, at the moment when I offered to leave my job, I was always worried. Because I know in my heart that this resignation is also a screening of existing interpersonal relationships. For those colleagues who can eat together, sing K and climb mountains when you are still in the company, there will not be many who want to make an appointment or can make an appointment after you leave. Knowing that you left your job, you said that you would often contact your colleagues who dated at the weekend, and few of them would really contact you again. We are well aware of this. It's time for the train to stop at this station. We must move on. The people who get on and off the train are not determined by the train. Even if you don't give up, these are nothing compared with your future development.
Later, I found this job that I only worked for a month. The original intention is to study hard and learn more professional knowledge in this field, but the plan will never keep up with the changes. You don't know where the inflection point of life trajectory will appear, and all the things that have been planned in your heart will always be in your heart. But ending this working relationship is the result of self-choice. I am tempted by the blueprint for the future described by my seniors. If you don't try, you will regret it later. Although we don't know whether we can succeed or achieve the expected results, we are still young and it is impossible not to try.
In this life, the most lasting thing is the working relationship. Graduated from college in his twenties and retired in his fifties. For ordinary people, more than 30 years is the working life. Most jobs cannot exist independently, so there is a working relationship and a colleague relationship. People need to work for most of their lives. Over the years, some people have come and gone, and it is talk.an excellent thing to learn to bow your head.