As we all know, how to improve the chances of success by blind date with women? With the growth of age, many older single men and women are busy looking for their other half. Let's take a look at what boys see on blind date and how to improve their chances of success. I hope it works for you.

Boys blind date and see what women can do to improve their chances of success. 1 blind date can be regarded as a popular blind date activity at present. Many men and women find their partners in this way. For women, if they want to leave a good impression on men and enhance their goodwill, they should pay attention to many problems.

In today's society, blind date is becoming more and more popular, and many men and women of marriageable age will find love objects and determine their marriage goals in this way. Blind date, a way of making friends, is different from other social activities. It has a clear purpose, which is to find the other half in the future life. Therefore, outstanding performance in blind date activities is more conducive to finding high-quality objects.

So, when dating, what should girls pay attention to in order to leave a good impression on each other and even add points to their charm? To put it simply, girls should at least be polite, enthusiastic, neat in appearance and reasonable in speaking, which are all aspects that men pay more attention to.

No man likes people who are not enthusiastic and active enough to treat themselves coldly, especially on blind date occasions. Positive attitude and friendly interaction are very important. Some women only pay attention to their feelings when dating, and sometimes they pick up their mobile phones to play for a while, which makes the man very embarrassed.

Respect and courtesy for men will reflect men's education and courtesy in disguise. Therefore, a perfunctory and indifferent attitude will make the man think that you may be a willful and rude woman who doesn't respect others, and your goodwill will naturally decline. With basic manners and attitudes, the man will carefully observe your appearance.

A woman with delicate makeup and neat clothes will first give her man a good sense of enjoyment, and then she can show that she is a caring and thoughtful person and is very popular with him. In addition, in addition to external things, the man will also pay attention to your manners and get to know you from a deeper level.

Boys blind date to see what the woman can do and how to improve the chances of success. With the growth of age, many older single men and women are busy looking for their other half. There are a few questions when dating, I don't know how to deduct them! I'll help you make a list today and see if Bian Xiao can help you!

Question 1: How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had before?

This question is almost a question that men and women have to ask. Except for a few hypocritical people who will ask carefully, most people will ask directly. As a person who will become his lover, it is normal to know each other's past love history. Just like shopping, you should have the right to know and hand in your resume before looking for a job. If the other person is an understanding and high-quality person, he will often say it when he meets or even chats for the first time.

Because the truth of the answer to this question cannot be verified, most people know that the more times a man talks about love, the worse his image will be. If a man has been in love many times, women will think that this man must be very playboy or picky. Women have been in love many times, and men must think that this woman has been played by so many men. Most people will not be honest with each other even if they have been in love many times, so the answers you get are nothing more than those, one, two, three.

Question 2: How did the ex-boyfriend/girlfriend break up?

This question is also what most people want to ask, but they may be embarrassed to ask when they meet or chat for the first time. Maybe we'll beat around the bush when we get familiar with it. Ordinary people don't talk about their scandals, so the answer to this question will never affect their image. Some say that they can't get along, others say that their parents don't like themselves, or that the other party looks down on their home, such as being seen cheating on themselves, or being the last one. So this question is actually asked in vain. You can use it as a topic, but don't take it to heart.

Question 3: What are you looking for?

People will think, how can this question be stupid? Isn't this a required question?

This problem comes from two aspects:

First, a woman asks a man, usually a man looks for a woman. When a man has a crush on this woman, his mate selection requirements must be tailored for this woman, because to make her feel that they are a good match, even if they don't like men after dating, they will disappear automatically at most.

Second, the man makes a request to the woman. Although the woman will say many conditions, it is only half. The other half's request is hidden in her heart, but for various reasons, she is unwilling or ashamed to say it. For example, women's three hearts, responsibility, carelessness and self-improvement are all responsibilities. There is no standard, especially the previous blind date. Maybe the other person's steady words and decent clothes will make women feel his "responsibility". It would be ridiculous if they didn't care. According to statistics, the probability of being dumped by an honest man is 100 times that of a playboy, and the self-motivation is even more outrageous. In this society,

The stupidest thing about this question is that even if you meet all the requirements put forward by the other party, you may die. As for the reason, only the other party knows it clearly, so it is also a question asked in vain.

Question 4: Do you care more about your appearance than your heart?

This is usually a question that women ask men. Any woman who knows that she is not a beautiful woman wants to find a man who doesn't pay attention to appearance, but is it possible?

No matter men or women, appearance is always the first level. Maybe some people don't pay attention to appearance. It is also because he/she can't stand the disaster brought by handsome or beautiful people, or the other person has other advantages to make up for the lack of appearance. The so-called neglect of appearance is actually forbearance. American scientists have concluded that human beings are instinctively looking for types that can cultivate the next generation of fine varieties, such as waist, buttocks, white skin and big breasts.

This is human instinct, just like eating when you are hungry and drinking when you are thirsty. The stupidity of this question is that men or women usually don't just say that they pay attention to their appearance, but they will say many reasons for nothing. Finally, the cause of their death may be their appearance. So it's no use asking. What's more, most people are similar in nature. Where can the inherent nature of ordinary people be divided into good and evil?

Question 5: What's your monthly salary?

If this question is asked by a woman, a man will not be stupid, but a man will be stupid if he asks a woman. Why?

The reason why men's income is one of the most concerned issues for women now is that most women feel that the society is too unfair to women, which leads to their low income and no money to spend. So let the husband improve his life through marriage. Women who have been oppressed by men for thousands of years in China are out of breath. Women's liberation in the past 60 years has raised women's self-esteem to a very high level. Therefore, when a man asks a woman about her income, she will feel inferior. She is a sensitive and proud animal. Now she is in financial crisis. If you meet a woman whose company is going to lay off employees, she will be even more supercilious. Moreover, men who have financial requirements for their women are usually despised by women. Nowadays, women think that men can't afford to raise women. If you are not with a handsome guy, women will think you are useless. Women are used to "love" and men are used to "use".

Question 6: Are you a responsible person?

This question is usually asked by women to men. Women's sense of responsibility is the premise, but it is an unquantifiable problem. How can a man say that he is irresponsible?

Of course, women will definitely want to say at this time, this can be observed by themselves, but it must be reflected at the critical moment. Most people's life is nothing more than going home from work, unless a woman is pregnant or a woman is sick, and men may reflect this. It can only be shown at critical moments. Of course, you can feel it in a woman's "feeling", but if a woman's feeling is accurate every time, a man is just like buying a car for a woman. Different classes of cars will not be equally valued. Instead of pinning your hopes on whether the other person is a responsible person, it is better to find a capable man and pay enough attention to himself. It's no use asking.

Question 7: I want to get married. I hope you are not playing.

You don't have to ask this question, but many women have such a condition when choosing a spouse.

This is also a problem that cannot prove its accuracy. No matter a man or a woman, who can tell whether the other person dumped you because the other person just wanted to have fun, or because he didn't like you, or met someone better, no one can tell. Maybe the other party was very serious at first, but later I thought you couldn't meet my requirements for marriage and were more suitable for playing, so I played. Maybe the other person just played at first, but found himself old. Or in the process of playing with you, I think you are very suitable for marriage, or I can't find another more suitable object, so I am serious with you, so whether the other party is playing or serious, only after talking about it, I know how to ask for' coming out'. If you want to judge, it is easy to judge, which is inversely proportional to the charm of the other party or the popularity of the opposite sex, and I am afraid that you are not willing to find someone who can reassure you but can't make you tempted.

Question 8: What exactly does your job do? How is your career?

If this question is asked by a woman to a man, then the man may talk big, mainly to show his ability and win the favor of a woman. But men can't ask women too clearly. Just a few questions. If you ask carefully, you will be looked down upon by the other party. Why?

As Hua Niang said before, most women feel that this society is too unfair to them, their income will never catch up with that of men at their same level, and there are few opportunities for promotion, so only a few women will be proud of their work. If you ask too many questions and get bored, it will only arouse their dissatisfaction with their work, their boss and the society, and then vent it on you, even if the other person loves their job more. Love work very much, don't forget that in business, women's eyes are looking up. A woman with a tight job, or a woman who works in a famous top 500 enterprise, will definitely think that she has spent extraordinary efforts to get it. She will never think that she earns more money like a man, and the other half can make money without hard work, so unless you are sure of your job, it will be much more advanced than the other woman's job and make the other person appreciate you. Worship you, can let you consult, you can gently communicate with her work situation, don't forget the most important point, no matter when and where, be sure to let the other side feel your usefulness. Many men always think that their boasting will arouse the appreciation and interest of the other party, but you must make the other party feel how useful your work ability can be and what it can bring to her and you in the future, otherwise it will only arouse the other party's disgust and stimulate the other party's self-esteem.

Question 9: My family background and education are not good. Do you mind?

This is another question that women usually ask men, because men's family background and education are what women care most about, which involves their future economic ability. And there are many articles on the Internet about women marrying rural men. It seems that no woman who marries a rural man is happy, but wronged, because these things need to be thought out before marriage. Without this prospect and analytical ability, there would be no marriage. Although marriage is based on feelings, it is also a marriage.

If a woman's family background or education is not very good, she certainly wants a man to say that she doesn't mind, but whether she cares or not ultimately depends on the other person. This man will have other women with better family background and education than you. If there is, then he will mind, just like buying pork belly in the vegetable market. This grandma also sends onions. Although there are onions at home, she still chooses the pork belly grandmother who sends onions. Advise these women who think their family background is not good. If you really don't want the other person to mind, find a suitable one. Otherwise, maybe one day is the reason why you got dumped. Even if the other person doesn't mind, their parents and friends may whisper in their ears and become concerned. It's no use asking.

Question 10: Are you a playboy?

For a man, you must rely on your body, your time and everything to tie him up. Men's loyalty is there, but only a series of efforts and measures by women can win it. Maybe women will also say that living such a tired life is too complicated to love games. You also need to have a certain IQ and energy.

For women, it becomes simple, because once a woman is romantic, it is easy to feel physically that a woman's body can't deceive people. The best way to know that the other person has changed their mind is to sleep with her, so women usually meet those "impatient" men. Not all men only have sex. Sometimes they just want to prove that you still love each other because they are insecure, so they can't wait to sleep with you. Sure, these two.

When dating, if you tell the truth blindly, the success rate will not be very high. Honest people will never make more profits than glib people. Although many women like sincere people, a greasy person is too easy to pretend to be sincere, steady and honest. If a woman is deceived by a scheming dishonest villain, it is unfortunate that she meets an honest man behind her.