I also have envious objects, and I yearn for the love like Jordan chan and Cherrie Ying. I also want a husband who is cool, gentle and considerate, and loves his wife like Jordan chan, but when I sigh why he is not me, I will tell myself, because you are not "Cherrie Ying".
This is an era of looking at faces. Yes, it's not terrible to look at your face. The terrible thing is that people are still trying to improve themselves while having a good face value. Most boys like a girl who can coquetry, but if this girl can do nothing but coquetry, you will get bored after a long time. A beautiful girl is really charming, but if she doesn't even know whether Nanhai belongs to China except luxury brands, do you still think she is innocent and lovely? Even such a beautiful face will be greatly discounted in your heart.
Appearance will fade eventually, but cultivation is the added value of your life. Girls, if you have someone you want to flirt with, first make yourself excellent, and then you can stand proudly beside him and say, "I am very suitable for you, let's be together." Otherwise, you are not even qualified to say this.
I'm about to be a senior, and I feel like a failure in the first three years of college. I don't know what I do every day. When I wanted to come out for an internship, I found that there was nothing to write on my resume, and I was very scared. Boiling frogs in warm water should be like this. University days are lazy. As long as you don't repeat a grade, you can go back to the dormitory to sleep and watch TV after class, and you will feel breathless after two steps away from home. The days of ease naturally pass quickly. Before I entered the university, I vowed to say my plan, but now it has not been realized. In this state, when you see a handsome guy, you can only say: Wow, so handsome; There should be nothing else.
But it doesn't matter, it's not too late to try to change. Once upon a time, I was very dependent on others. When something slightly bigger can't be solved, I will panic and ask what to do. The words "what to do" really make people feel helpless, like a lifeline, with no sense of security at all. In that case, why not make yourself stronger? When you encounter something, first calm down and think about it, clear your mind and solve it in an orderly way.
I didn't like reading before, but I watched TV dramas without nutrition all day, and I was full of expectations for unrealistic love in TV dramas. However, the reality is not like this, or I am not qualified to meet such love. So when I am bored, I pick up a book and start reading, playing the piano and learning from other people's experiences. One cannot stop learning for a moment, because knowledge is eternal.
Now let's talk about boys. Most boys like the goddess with fair skin, long eyes and thighs and excellent figure, but why do you always hear that the goddess can only look from a distance? Because you don't think you are qualified to stand beside her and say "I protect you".
How many boys spent their college time in games? In the dormitory, with air conditioning on, wearing big underpants, crossing my legs, growling at headphones and smoking. Life is fascinating, isn't it? Will your girlfriend fall from the sky? Don't ask me why I don't have a girlfriend, and don't ask me to introduce you to a girlfriend. Should I push my friend to you like this? You would say that's because you don't have a girlfriend. Come on, once you get into a bad habit, it's hard to get rid of it. Do you want your girlfriend to take you out of the game? It will only make you have more quarrels and break up in discord.
Why do movies and TV series play love in stadiums and libraries? This is not unreasonable. Maybe you sweated when you played, but at that time, you were sunny, and the sunny boys were really charming. Look at the parents and girls now. Which mate selection criteria is not sunshine, positive, responsible, caring, gentle and considerate?
It's not that you shouldn't play games, but there is a limit to playing games. Appropriate games can relax your body and mind, but don't forget to eat and sleep because of games, don't make progress because of games, and don't neglect people around you because of games. Besides teammates, you have friends and girlfriends in real life. Don't remind you of college. There seems to be nothing but games.
People who really don't like learning can't help it, but you can choose to broaden your horizons and go out more, instead of being an otaku all day. Sitting at home and knowing what's going on in the world? Friends, think more about your future. If people want to have a better person, they should change themselves first.
You like drinking. When you find a cool girlfriend, you can be as happy as you. A toast to you is to fuck your girlfriend. You may be very happy and feel that you have found a bosom friend. But I tell you, you can never expect her to help you go home after you get drunk, pour you a cup of hot water and take care of your upset stomach.
When you find a girlfriend who shares your hobbies, playing games, clubbing, smoking and wearing cool clothes, you will feel relaxed and happy. But I tell you, you can never expect to have a hot meal when you get home from work. When you are tired, you can pinch your back, beat your legs, watch movies at home occasionally and enjoy your time together.
Having said that, the reason is actually very simple. Think about why he (she) wants to be with you. If you put yourself in the other person's shoes, will you choose your type as your other half in the future?