The more unruly people are, the smarter they are. what do you think?

My friend contacted me two days ago, and I felt a little lost. Say, "I feel that my emotional intelligence is really too low."

On the same day, the chief doctor of a department brought his family to treat him. After the treatment, I said that my hand was a little uncomfortable and I wanted my friend to help me. My friend thinks there are patients waiting behind, so let the doctor come back in the afternoon. You can make a detailed evaluation before you do treatment.

The doctor didn't come at last. He was still very angry in the department and said, "So-and-so is too arrogant to be human at all."

On the contrary, those who break the rules have good reasons to complain, while those who abide by the rules can't tell the pain.

Friends feel wronged, and then said:

"Maybe my expression was not appropriate at that time. In the face of some unruly behavior, you may find a suitable way to refuse, and the result will be different. But rules are rules. "

At that time, my first feeling was, "My friend's EQ is really too low. Could it be that you will know kung fu for a while? I offended the director. How can I get along in the workplace in the future? "

But looking back, friends are really smart. Seeing a friend like this seems to offend the doctor, but it has won the respect and trust of the patient and enabled the patient to get timely treatment.

That doctor, selfish and irritable, will cover up his mistake with anger even if he knows it is his own fault.

Friends, honest and modest, even if they know it's not their own fault, they will reflect on themselves;

It is obvious which is clever and which is stupid.

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Recently, I saw a news pop up on my mobile phone: "The first person who was shot and killed for disobeying the rules during the blockade of the epidemic in the Philippines". I can't help exclaiming that the cost of not following the rules is so great.

Obeying the rules is respect for life and responsibility for others themselves;

Breaking the rules is contempt for life and harm to yourself and others.

This also reminds me of the "Australian Chinese Ms. Liang" who was frequently searched some time ago. Ms. Liang came back from a foreign country where freedom is paramount. Don't be isolated at home and run "bravely" without wearing a mask.

The exposed video shows the arrogance of this lady. The opening is "I'm going to run, I'm sick, take care of me".

Faced with the persuasion of community epidemic prevention personnel, they not only refused to listen to the advice, but also shouted "help harass".

Finally, after Ms. Liang's behavior was exposed on the Internet, it aroused social concern and the company dismissed her.

Relevant departments have also made a decision to revoke Liang Moyan's work permit and leave the country within a time limit.

Now Ms. Liang is dumbfounded. I lost my wife and my soldiers. China can't stay, and Australia can't go back. Also bid farewell to millions of years of work. I wonder if she will cry and regret in the middle of the night.

During the epidemic, the infected virus was not isolated as required and was seen more than once; In order to facilitate the news of being killed by running a red light, it is often seen in newspapers. It's a pity, but we have to warn: ignoring the rules and not obeying them are waiting for an unbearable price.

Stupid people like to take advantage of their own convenience, break the rules, shoot themselves in the foot, and finally lose their protection and freedom.

Smart people often focus on the overall situation, abide by the rules, contribute to social construction, and finally get shelter and freedom.

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Some people say that the workplace is like a battlefield. If you don't follow the rules, you may lose your weapon and even step on some expensive mines.

There are no exceptions before the rules. This sentence applies not only to newcomers in the workplace, but also to those experienced veterans.

A company will be assessed every year, and then promoted and raised. Last year, the published results were surprising.

A, who is experienced in the industry, is also among the best in annual performance and has not been promoted.

B, who has been in the company for two years, is promoted for the first time among his peers, although his performance is average.

Inquire in detail, although B's qualification was average at first. But diligent, never late.

At work, according to the rules, reporting, contact and discussion, everything is settled. Colleagues all think that he is reliable and his business will be improved. The leader feels that he is reassuring and will give more opportunities.

Experienced veteran A, with unparalleled ability and experience, ended up having an unpleasant affair with the company. I heard that it also has a bad reputation in the industry.

The leader later commented on a and B.

"A is capable, although he is a little lazy at work. I was going to promote him to be the head of the team, change his laziness and lead the new people. However, private withdrawal is not only disappointing, but also touches the company's bottom line. "

"Although B has no experience, he asks modestly and doesn't arrive late or leave early. Training, there is still room for improvement. There is also promotion B to let everyone know that obeying the rules is the basic literacy of the workplace. "

A, people who don't obey the rules always think that breaking the rules can benefit more and get away with it.

And B abides by the rules, works reliably, and gets more opportunities.

The punishment will not be announced in advance. Work is like this, so is life. The protection of opportunities and the guarantee of security are always based on the awe of the law of stability.

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Japan is famous for "not causing trouble to others".

Japanese people follow the rules, queue orderly, passengers are quiet and orderly, tenants who clean their rooms before renting, polite and kind strangers, volunteers who take care of the elderly, and never talk too much about personal problems.

But these are not only the characteristics of Japan, but the unified characteristics of many modern countries with highly developed civilizations. Sociologists call it "stranger society".

With the development of social economy, China is also in the transitional stage from "acquaintance society" to "stranger society".

Society is like this: most strangers will help them when they fall, and express delivery can enter the house without asking, "Are you married?" "How much do you earn?" "Did you buy a house?"

Because rules and systems, relationships and human feelings don't work in a stranger society. I believe that in the case of extortion, theft and invasion of privacy, the system and laws will protect you, and the party who does not obey the rules will be punished.

Acquaintance society relies more on the network of relationships between people. There are acquaintances in the hospital who can jump in line to see a doctor, and acquaintances in the workplace who can airborne …

Someone in Zhihu replied, "The smaller the mobility, the smaller the circle, the more inaccessible the public power, and the more familiar the society."

However, in an efficient modern urbanization system, especially in the north of Guangzhou, orderly and higher education are its outstanding characteristics. It is wise to obey the rules when you want to get more opportunities.

Obey the rules, no matter how the society changes, it will never fall behind. Those who abide by the rules keep pace with the times;

If you don't follow the rules and are at a certain stage of social development, being effective for a while doesn't mean forever. Those who break the rules are eliminated and punished.

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It is because the picture at the moment is relaxed and convenient that the rules have become irrelevant decorations. If you don't realize the danger behind you, you will always lose more than you gain.

Rules are both constraints and protections. Protect those who obey the rules and restrain those who don't. Those who abide by the rules must have a long-term vision. They saw what was behind the rules and became smarter and smarter.

It goes without saying who is the champion in this game.

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