Yong Dong's marriage failed. Many people will think that his name is homophonic with Yong Dong in The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, but he doesn't have the fate of Cowherd. The failed marriage once wanted him to die alone and never touch his feelings again. But at the age of 46, Yong Dong scored twice and got married again. What is the life of such a man who is afraid of marriage?
Dong Yong, a professional policeman, 1968 was born in a military family. He has a brother and a sister. He belongs to the youngest and everyone loves him very much. Everyone in the family is excellent. Yong Dong's brother is a Peking Opera actor and her sister is a drama actress. Although it is a military family, everyone is very elegant. Influenced by his older brothers and sisters, Yong Dong has a strong interest in art.
/kloc-at the age of 0/0, my sister took Yong Dong to apply for the Opera Academy. At that time, 500 people took the exam, and the number of places was limited, which was a precious opportunity for everyone. Every parent is eager for their child to become a phoenix, and the competition is fierce. Yong Dong is one of the nine places. At such a young age, he left his family and began to study.
While other children are still playing coquetry in their parents' arms, Dong Yong has begun to work hard for the future. Life is so wonderful that everyone says the starting point is fair, but in the end everyone pulls away on the road. 1985 After graduating from school, Dong Yong could have stayed at the Peking Opera Theatre, but his family's concern made him give up such an iron rice bowl. He returned to Hangzhou and became colleagues with his brother and sister-in-law.
During Yong Dong's work, a lot of Peking Opera tracks and pillars appeared in the troupe. However, with the rise of film and television dramas, these traditional arts are gradually ignored. However, during his study of Peking Opera, Yong Dong has accumulated a good kung fu. Fortunately, he has a very good face value, and many directors have taken a fancy to this sunny boy. He was invited to appear in some works, but was stopped by the troupe. 199 1 year, Yong Dong resigned for his dream.
At that time, Yong Dong didn't know what the future was like, but he knew in his heart that his life was limited. He was so confused that he couldn't find a foothold, and his love for art became stronger and stronger. In the entertainment circle, but the reality is often cruel. Without background and resources, I haven't received a job for a whole year, often hungry, and I can eat a full meal a day. This is his happiest thing.
When he was down and out, all he had left was 10 yuan. In order to save money, he would rather walk back to his rental house than take a bus. There are blood bubbles on my feet, and I have been gritting my teeth to prove that I want to get ahead and live the life I want. At that time, Yong Dong's sister gave him a lot of help and spent this difficult time. 1998 is unforgettable in Yong Dong.
At that time, he met an actress who was 1 year older than Dong Yong and took care of him like a sister. And Yong Dong slowly fell in love with this woman for a long time. The following year, the two confirmed their relationship and entered the marriage. After marriage, the two married appreciate each other, and at this time, Yong Dong also ushered in the peak of his career. Film contracts have appeared in many criminal investigation films, making many viewers remember this handsome man.
Because most of the actors are policemen, the audience called him a "professional policeman". Everything is developing in a good direction, but unexpectedly, in 2002, Dong Yong's sister suffered from blood poisoning and a blood tumor because of taking diet pills. Such bad news made everyone in the family very sad, and it was only a week from onset to death. The two brothers and sisters loved each other deeply, and Yong Dong was immersed in the grief of losing her sister. This way of parting is not surprising at all.
With the death of her sister, Yong Dong's life has also changed. In 2006, he chose to end his marriage because of disagreement with his wife. In fact, in the entertainment circle, many stars' marriages are unfortunate, which will eventually come down to the word "personality disharmony". These four words have become the labels for the end of many marriages. So is life. When two people get along at first, they will feel that everything is perfect. Before marriage, you were jealous of me. After marriage, you found that the other party had some bad things, so you felt that you wanted to get a divorce because you didn't want to save it.
After Dong Yong divorced because she was afraid of marrying her good husband, she hired three people to take care of herself, one specialized in cooking, one worked as an assistant and the other as a private driver. He feels that this kind of life is very comfortable, and marriage is not necessarily his best destination. But my brother at home can't stand it anymore and thinks he should find a woman to take care of him. After all, a man should have a family, so what does it feel like to be alone? Often say to him: "Who cares if you are old?"
But Yong Dong didn't think so. He said firmly, "I will never get married and have children again in my life." Don't know what the reason is, let Yong Dong determined. Although parents at home are worried, they can't change anything. Yong Dong's sister-in-law is also very good, comforting the elderly at home and saying, "Let me take care of my brother's marriage." This matter was put in Yong Dong's sister-in-law's heart, and she began to plan for her brother-in-law.
On 20 14, my sister-in-law introduced Dong Yong, a woman who knows how to live, to her colleagues. Accompanied by her sister-in-law, Dong Yong and Zheng Jiayan went on a blind date. When two people meet, they are very calm. Yong Dong has a good impression of this unpretentious woman, and there is nothing vulgar about it. The two began to associate. Two people fell in love in love. Yong Dong defeated himself, and they walked into the hall of happiness hand in hand.
Yong Dong, who had been single for a long time at that time, scored twice at the age of 46. I have to say that the power of love is great. In 20 15, two people gave birth to a lovely daughter, and Yong Dong was heartbroken at that time. Although he is old, he is still running for his family and children. He had long since disappeared and became a very loving husband and father.
Conclusion Everyone has different views and understandings of feelings. Slowly, I will feel very disappointed and want to die alone and lock myself up. In fact, open your heart and happiness will come. Yong Dong is the best example. Although he once refused and gave up life, he really had it. He also regretted it in his heart. It would be great if all this came earlier. Do you think marriage is the best destination?