The root of these problems actually lies in one thing: fear of interacting with people. Since this is the root knot, let's break through here. Start from a small circle, take the initiative to communicate with people, chat and talk first, and then gradually deepen. At the same time, be careful not to be timid and generous. There is a proverb that clothes are not worn, but dirty. People don't like you not because you are poor or anything else, but because you are timid and difficult to get along with everyone. Introversion is not easy to lay down, but at the same time, you should have a tough heart and be fearless. Even if you don't talk much, it has connotation, so that others will not dislike you, but will regard you as an important member of their own circle. Your tenacity and connotation will become the nutrition of this circle. -I know that. I am introverted and seldom talk, but when I speak, others listen carefully and have a feeling of understanding after listening, especially those girls. You know, the more extroverted people are, the less connotation they have. At this time, they need you to provide them with nutrition.

In addition, it provides a secret to overcome timidity: the first thing to do when communicating with people is to smile, especially when interviewing, giving the examiner a cheerful smile first will greatly improve the atmosphere. I remember my first job, when a young female leader interviewed me, I smiled at her as soon as I sat down, and then the next interview was as easy as chatting, and I went to work the next day.