I don't think 1 is desirable. Fathers should spend more time with their sons and set an example. The father plays an important role in the growth of boys, and is the first male that children come into contact with, which will have a great influence on children's words and deeds. However, many fathers don't realize their important role, and they are often just shocking the world in family education, which will have a negative impact on their children's growth. Dad should not be confined to "strict father", but should spend more time with his children, set an example for them and guide their words and deeds correctly.

2, mom should be less spoiled and willing to let go. A mother loves her children, especially her son, and always treats her son as a treasure. Many mothers often spend too much time on their sons and even spoil their children, unwilling to let them suffer. But this is not good for children's growth, and even has a negative impact on children's character formation. A mother's doting on her children will only make them arrogant and even lead them to become "giant babies". Therefore, mothers should be willing to let go and not spoil their children. Moderate letting go will make children grow better.

Parents should put each other first, not their children. For many families, children are the most important, and all adults will try their best to meet their requirements. However, this can easily lead to family conflicts and even have an impact on children's growth environment. In fact, parents should put each other first, so as to promote family harmony and give their children a better education. If children are the first in the family, parents are likely to quarrel over their children's affairs, which will create a wrong demonstration for children and affect the formation of their character.