You are so young that you have no demands on yourself. You deserve to live like this! We don't ask ourselves to be gods, but this is the state we should have as young people!
Do you regard work as a tool to support yourself, just to make a living, or make yourself a promising young man through work! Completing the work from nine to five is an explanation to the boss, and completing the final passing line is the most honest answer to the teacher! You are still a junior in the company for three years, and your grades in the class for four years in college are a little lower than the bottom. A few years later, you are still standing still, and those who have requirements have already entered another hall by hard work. When you are still wondering how others do it, their work ability and academic performance are already a few blocks away from you!
People who have requirements for themselves must often take the initiative to work overtime, or continue to learn relevant knowledge after work, instead of lying down after work or going out to sing every night after work. After class, Xueba left you with the back of going to the library countless times and discussing academic incurable diseases with teachers countless times. Of course, you have no idea what you are talking about. Others often pay attention to all kinds of professional information and exam news, while you focus on entertainment gossip which is stronger, which star is cheating and which star is illegitimate. You clap and curse hard!
You have no requirements for yourself now, and you will blame others for asking too much of you in the future! You spoil yourself too much for fear that others will be too cruel to you. You are too soft-hearted to yourself and think others are too strong! Sometimes it's not that your opponent is too strong, but that you are too weak! So-and-so company got promoted. You think people depend on relationships. So-and-so graduated and entered a famous enterprise. You think people go backstage. So-and-so lives a dignified life. You think people are raised!
In fact, behind the scenes, others just don't let themselves go so easily as you do. They are cruel and demanding of themselves, which you can't do So you either shut up or be very demanding of yourself!
There is often a class of people in life who like to judge others. I call them picky. Among these people: "She is pretty, but she is too vain. She is very nice, but she is too selfish. She is very kind, but she is too stingy, .............! "This kind of person thinks that everyone has a problem and he is the most perfect.
Even between male and female friends, there will be various problems that are not in line with their wishes. No one is perfect, and a relationship can only continue in mutual tolerance and understanding. His smelly socks are everywhere, his toothpaste is everywhere, her hair is everywhere in the sink, she doesn't like to fold quilts, and so on! If people always look at others critically, you will never be satisfied, but when you see all kinds of imperfections in others, have you ever thought that there may be more imperfections in yourself? People always point the finger at others, but rarely find their own problems in turn and correct their mentality!
We are often not so perfect, but others don't tell us our problems, and you forget to look at yourself. If you go on like this, you will only live in the circle you draw for yourself!
If I have problems with others, I will analyze myself first and then others. If the problem is with me, I will apologize, correct or communicate! But in fact, through this process, you can also find some problems of the other party, and it will also be a reference for you to consider whether this person is worth making friends! Any problem must be two-sided. Don't magnify any imperfections of others. Instead, accept these imperfections. You can leave silently! You should learn to look at yourself in interpersonal communication!
A few days ago, a 26-year-old girl's speech in the super speaker was all over the internet. She said that she often couldn't let go of her mobile phone and work and didn't care about her health. It was not until the moment when ovarian cancer was found out that she really realized the health problem and the importance of health. Fortunately, she still has a chance to realize the health problem, but doctors like Bella and Aring Zhang can't correct it!
Don't stay up late. Health is very important. Don't work too hard. Cherish life. Every time I go to the hospital when I am sick, what the doctor says most after examination is: Don't stay up late and work regularly. Among young people, if you are not a night cat, you are not a young man. Internet buzzwords that are often poisonous to people, such as "You are ugly, you sleep first, and the more wonderful the night is". Youth is not the capital for us to spoil our bodies. Everyone's reason for staying up late is impeccable. I have to work overtime, or I won't have money for you tomorrow. I will write a paper, or I won't get a scholarship. I'll study this problem again. I will chat with my friends for a long time! These things are not unimportant, just not as important as health!
On the seventh day of the National Day holiday, my work and rest were chaotic, and I didn't go to bed until around 12 every night. I usually go to bed on time at 1 1. The difference of one hour makes me sleep two hours more the next morning, at noon 1 hour, so I will sleep 1 hour later, so I will sleep three hours more every day. The point is that my work efficiency during the day is greatly reduced. Many people are talking about time management, time cost, time value and so on! Actually, people are wrong! Sleeping on time is the most effective time management method, and sleeping on time is the lowest cost and the most self-management in colleges and universities! A good sleep is the most profitable investment!
Young people don't eat in the morning because they are young and strong, and they eat hard at noon to make up for it. I did the same in high school. It's simple to skip breakfast just to sleep for half an hour. Later, when I ate something cold, my stomach ached. What am I asking for? Your body is very naughty, you can play as you like! I used to like to eat barbecue in the middle of the night 12, and I felt very cool. Later, my stomach went bad, so I couldn't eat any barbecue and spicy food. You are still eating at midnight. The human liver is from 1 1 to 1 rest. Poor liver can lead to hair loss, endocrine disorders and various skin problems. Freshmen and sophomores often stay up late, which leads to serious endocrine disorders and hair loss. The final result is to take medicine for two years. Until last year, I still drank Chinese medicine and Chinese patent medicine every day for conditioning. Drink until you cry and vomit! Believe me, I really don't stay up late! You can earn money slowly, you can play with your mobile phone tomorrow, and you can chat tomorrow! Life is only once!
Why do young people have requirements for figure? One is for the health! Dress well, and second, feel good about yourself! Young people should be full of vigor and vitality, not a doddering look. If you have a belly, the beer belly will unconsciously add your age. If you are sloppy, people will think you are a hooligan!
People in good shape look good in clothes because there is no extra meat. Take seller show and seller show as examples. In fact, the biggest difference is not mito skills, face value, but figure. You said that the seller lied to you, but you lied to yourself. You have no requirement for figure, why do you dress like a model? You love snacks so much, are you so lazy and have poor self-control? Who is to blame for not looking good in clothes? Who is responsible for this poor figure? Others look better in clothes than you. You say that's because they are better-looking and genetically better than you! Regardless of height and face value, people who dress well and have a good figure must be more self-disciplined, sporty and strict than you!
Feeling good about yourself is reflected in the fact that you can become confident when you are in good shape, and self-confidence can become beautiful, thus emitting charm from the inside out. Weight loss, proper muscle gain, vest line, buttocks and abdominal muscles can all be your requirements for yourself! Young people should not live like old people. You are so young and beautiful, but the way you bend over is really ugly!
Yes, you can't stop the disease, but you can slow it down and even reduce the risk of illness. There are no absolute things in this world! The cancer woman said, "Don't think that you can sit back and relax with the vest line." I beg to differ from this sentence. Exercise and good figure are never the highest guarantee of health, but no exercise or fitness can not guarantee that you will not get sick. I never thought I had a vest line, so I felt fine. On the contrary, exercise and fitness make me pay more attention to health!
This is what I have learned in recent years. Young before the age of 22, with collagen on his face, white skin, no sun protection, no maintenance, no enough mask, no good sleep, no makeup when going out and crossing the street, but he can't get it back! Later, every time I go home for the New Year, my brother-in-law will say that you are not as white as before and your skin is not as good as before! Of course I know nonsense, I regret it! I shouldn't often go out to play without sunscreen, I shouldn't often stay up late, I shouldn't eat spicy food! Heartbroken! I don't ask so much of myself, I deserve it. The longer I grow, the uglier I get! Ha ha!
You happened to have a beautiful face when you were young. Please be kind to it. This is a world of looking at faces. There are too many things a face can say. Your mentality, your attitude towards life, can be seen from your face! Don't be naive to think that your inner beauty is the real beauty. You should carve it naturally, even if you want to understand your connotation, only consider whether you want to continue to understand your heart after seeing your face! Don't go out unkempt and don't wear slippers!
You want to find a handsome boyfriend and a beautiful girlfriend! But why do people like you when you are so ugly? Is your heart more beautiful than the virgin Mary? Are you a very talented person? Or are you rich? Or do you have high martial arts and good spirit?
If not! Please ask yourself a little face value properly! Young people should learn to take care of their skin, maintain and adjust themselves before it is too late. Don't wait until there is no cure to seek medical advice everywhere!
Excellent people must have requirements for themselves, and only when they have requirements for themselves can they be qualified to ask others! An age of passion, youth and ambition, you shouldn't live like a 70-year-old man!
There was a time when I had no demands on myself. I just watch TV series every day, but I don't pay attention to eating. I just sleep, I'm not fat, I don't read too many books, and I know a few words! It wasn't until I started interviewing for a job that I found that my resume had been sent out and I hadn't heard from anyone. I didn't understand many things during the interview, and even I couldn't get into some company thresholds! I just know that in recent years, I only asked myself to live, not to die, which made me like that! I'm thinking about my old ambitions. Where are those ambitions? When did I become a person without requirements!
After a year of adjustment, I'm on my way again! It turns out that I am also an ambitious, ambitious and demanding female warrior!