But no doesn't mean you can't fantasize, but if you ask some married middle-aged women, maybe their fantasies about the perfect man are not like this. Middle-aged women may be more realistic when facing the imagination of their marriage partners.
For example, Angie in "Parents' Love" fantasized that her future partner was a romantic, handsome and versatile man when she was young, but she finally married Jiang Defu. At first, Angie was a little reluctant to marry Jiang Defu. At first, Angie felt a little wronged to marry such a lout second-hand man as Jiang Defu.
After more than ten years of marriage, Anjie gradually understood a truth. After all, a loving marriage is icing on the cake, and marriage is still a real day. The so-called rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea is nothing more than that. Jiang Defu doesn't have handsome appearance, academic talent and romantic mood, but he is pragmatic. He knows how to take care of his wife, and also has the ability to support her, so that Anjie can live comfortably in the world of Jiang Defu, and make Anjie happy physically and mentally by doting on her.
Therefore, Angie and Jiang Defu spent most of their lives. Angie is satisfied with her life and marriage. Therefore, at this time, her concept of marriage and love has already changed and her children have grown up. When it was time to talk about marriage, Anjie unconsciously carried out his view of marriage and love at this time. Seeing the promising young Meng Tianzhu, An Jie thought of his eldest daughter Jiang Yafei. She wants her daughter to have the same happiness as herself, so she tries her best to fix Meng Tianzhu and Jiang Yafei.
But how can Jiang Yafei, who is still a girl at this time, accept the arrangement from middle-aged woman Anji? The two people are at different stages of life, and their yearning for the object of marriage and love is completely different. Besides, Jiang Yafei has fallen in love with company quartermaster Yu Daguang at this time. Jiang Yafei likes men with culture and grace. How can Jiang Yafei be tempted when he sees Meng Tianzhu, who speaks Mandarin with difficulty? In fact, Meng Tianzhu's appearance in the play is ok, and being buried is just his way of speaking. However, Meng Tianzhu in the original is described like this. He is a short man with yellow teeth and some exaggerated and funny behavior. Such a man probably doesn't conform to the fantasy of most girls about their partners. No wonder Jiang Yafei despises Meng Tianzhu.
What Angie sees in Meng Tianzhu is what he looks like inside. The important thing is that he is young, promising and upright. She thinks that Meng Tianzhu and Jiang Defu are the same person, and they can give their daughter happiness in the future. But Angie forgot that if it was more than ten years ago, even Angie would not have taken a fancy to Meng Tianzhu.
Jiang Yafei was not with Yu Daguang, and later decided to marry Wang Haiyang. In fact, he also took a fancy to the elegance and culture of Wang Haiyang.
Happiness is sometimes simple, but it is by no means as simple as copying and pasting. There are many kinds of happiness. Men like Meng Tianzhu may be as down-to-earth and responsible as Jiang Defu, but they may not be suitable for every woman. The so-called happiness is just living with the right person. For Jiang Yafei, Wang Haiyang is the most suitable for him; Jiang Defu is the best place for Anjie. For Angie's youngest daughter Jiang, Meng Tianzhu is the most suitable one. Everyone has his own happiness, but this kind of happiness is not exactly the same, don't you think?