Tang Jiahong, President of Shenzhen Foreign Language School
This book is not pedantic, theoretical or metaphysical. From the perspective of typical cases obtained from the first-line practice of educational psychology, Mr. Hu wrote the Encyclopedia of Education to answer questions for parents, which can be called the first book of "practical learning" in family education.
Chairman of Sino-German Mingde Cai Li Education Group
In the 1980s, we lacked decent books on parenting education. I remember Karl Vitri's Education was highly praised by everyone, but it was foreign and had little influence in our environment. In recent years, there have been endless books on parenting, but what really refreshes me is this book "Worrying Parents, Worrying Baby". The author's painstaking efforts can also be seen.
Professor Liu Feng, Dean of hunan university of arts and science Institute of Physical Education.
Some people say that the western education model is better than China's, but it's not entirely true. It's just that there are more humanized things in the western education model, but now we really should gradually integrate these things into our education. I think the points mentioned in the book are very good.
Xie Sheng, Executive Deputy Director of Education Supervision Office of Xiangzhou District People's Government, Zhuhai City.
A little book, completely change your way of education! This book can be said to be a good example of how to establish a "contractual" relationship between parents and children, which is condensed from a large number of real cases. It solves the problem that many parents know how to love their children, but they don't know how to love them. Moreover, the writing is vivid, full of gas field, heavy in content and informative, but it is easy to read. Both parents and growing children can benefit a lot from this book.
Chen Zhanghua, Vice President of Zhuhai Xiangzhou Experimental School
Seeing how simple and realistic the title "Worry-Free Parents Worry-Free Baby" is, I immediately attracted me like a magnet, stopped curiously to open the book catalogue, and shocked the heart of an old teacher who has been teaching for more than 40 years and is also an old father. A vivid typical case, how familiar and difficult all kinds of life individuals are, found the answer in this book. This is well worth reading.
Zhu Hunan Changde Education Bureau Director
This book expounds the problems in education from the perspective of psychology, which is a new way. For teachers, it is recommended to read carefully and let them reflect on their current working methods.
Tie Mingdong, Director of Education Bureau of Wuling District, Changde City, Hunan Province
As the saying goes, "people looked for him thousands of times, and suddenly looked back, and that person was in the dim light." When parenting education is paid more and more attention, we find that there is no suitable theory in this field. Either mechanically copy foreign theories, or just describe a trivial process of family growth, lacking reference. But this book is really what we have been calling for and looking for for for a long time.
President of Nanshan Affiliated School of Li Qingming National Academy of Educational Sciences.
Children grow up only once at each stage, and once they miss it, it may affect their lives. As a parent, you need enough care, patience and especially wisdom. Might as well draw some wisdom from this book.
Tang Huiyun, Party Secretary of Changde No.1 Middle School, Hunan Province
Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. It comes from life, not on paper. Many cases are far more convincing than one case and deserve people's reference. Psychology is a science that applies what we have learned. Only by thinking about family education from the perspective of psychology and finding the real reason for its failure can we prescribe a good prescription for our family education.
Gong, principal and senior teacher of Zhuhai No.7 Middle School.
When I was in normal university, I hardly received any knowledge about parenting education, so that after I became a teacher, I couldn't give my parents more substantive family education advice at the parent-teacher conference. Today, after reading the first draft of "Parents' Worry, Babies' Worry", it suddenly occurred to me that psychology and pedagogy courses in normal schools should make up for the lack of family education and cannot be ignored. As a teacher, especially a class teacher, we should integrate the cases in this book into our own teaching and recommend them to our parents, because parents are the first children and engineers who will always accompany their children to shape their souls. Li, director of Zhuhai Xiangzhou Education, Scientific Research and Training Center, is a senior middle school teacher.
Today, China is becoming an only child, and children's family education has been highly concerned by the society. Worrying about Parents is an operational guide for parents to learn how to be their children's friends and even brothers and sisters.
Bi Dongning, director of the office of Zhuhai Xiangzhou Education, Scientific Research and Training Center, is a senior lecturer.
Behind a problem children, there is often a problem of parent-child relationship. Many children's problems come from the hurt of their parents' "love", sometimes asking too much and controlling too much; Sometimes, it is too much to ignore, too much to ignore; Sometimes, it is too much indulgence and too much satisfaction ... children themselves are the masters of growth. True love, love that promotes the healthy growth of children, as the author said, parents need to pay moderate love, patience, listening and openness.
Tong Jinbo, Principal and Senior Teacher of Zhuhai No.11 Middle School.
/kloc-In the 9th century, German educator Froebel said, "The fate of a country is in the hands of its mother rather than those in power", which shows the importance of family education. However, in the face of children's education in China today, parents of ordinary families are worried and scratching their heads, and even professional educators are confused. In the voluminous books on family education, there is much discussion from the perspective of what should be, but little discussion on the operational level. The value of "Parents' Worry, Baby's Worry" lies in that it focuses on human nature and psychology, starts with subtle methods, and expounds educational methods in the form of case analysis, giving people real inspiration and practical help. It is a family education book worth reading.
Yu Zhijun, a primary school Chinese teaching researcher and special teacher of Xiangzhou District Education and Research Training Center, Zhuhai City.
Although I only saw the catalogue, it was enough to arouse parents' expectation of reading the contents of the book. How do parents look after their children? How do children view their parents? How do parents and children love and communicate? Equality, respect, participation, trust, unity, tolerance, honesty, listening and encouragement ... The warm family education stories and tips in the book will help every parent face up to their family education problems and gain the courage, thoughts and wisdom of love.
President of No.7 Middle School in Changde City, Hunan Province, Liu Guojun
This book is based on the real case of the first scene of family education and reflects the current educational problems. Children's problems come from their parents. If you want to educate your children well, you may wish to find another way to reflect.
He Xiaoming, President of Changde No.5 Middle School
Now more and more people question China's educational model. Perhaps what needs to be questioned is the concept of education. This book is good, originated from practice, unique in vision and practical in theory, and combs the concept of education.
Zhu Jinsheng, President of Changde Lan Zhi Experimental School
Every child is different, so all parents are novices in educating their children. Therefore, we urgently need a book that can be used for reference, including all kinds of problems between parents and children, abandoning blind reasoning, putting problems into daily concrete cases and treating the right medicine.
Li Yong, Director of School Logistics Service Management Center in Xiangzhou District, Zhuhai City
This is a book brewed with a high sense of social responsibility and fraternity. Children are the future of the country. Only when children from generation to generation grow up healthily (including physical growth and psychological growth) can this nation and country prosper. Teacher Paul Hu conducted a grass-roots research on parents' education, which took more than 20 years' efforts, which is a great effort in itself. She creatively put forward the "contract" theory, which effectively solved many parent-child problems.
Chen Zhiyong, vice principal of Qiaoguang Primary School in Xiangzhou District, Zhuhai.
From the first moment I saw the book "Heartbroken Parents' Sad Baby", I was deeply attracted and gave me a clear feeling. In education or life, parents (teachers) want their children (students) to be the best and their children to grow up healthily and happily, but many ways and means are not accepted and understood by children. This book is based on vivid typical cases around us, aiming at solving the problems of students with difficulties, and also providing the direction for educators, parents and children to solve problems. It is of great educational and guiding significance. Whether educators repay their parents or even growing children to read this book, it will be of great benefit and will benefit children for life.
Wei Hong Director of Political and Educational Affairs Office of No.15 Primary School in Xiangzhou District, Zhuhai City
"There are no bad children, only parents with improper methods." After reading this book, it is more important to give a child a happy life and complete personality than to teach him to pursue money and status, success and applause all his life. Times have changed, and parents' concept of family education should be updated accordingly! Squat down, talk to children on an equal footing, perform "two-person turn" with children, keep learning, keep reflecting and keep accepting new ideas. Only in this way can we form a symbiotic relationship with our children, be healthy, happy and harmonious physically and mentally, board the stage of successful education together, and win successful medals hand in hand.
Zhong, Director of Political and Educational Affairs Office of No.11 Primary School in Xiangzhou District, Zhuhai City
Unlike all the books on parenting education I have read before, the author of this book, Ms. Paul Hu, has both theoretical depth and height of the times. As a psychological counselor, she has unique conditions and can be exposed to all kinds of parent-child problems. All these contribute to the extraordinary value of this book, which will surely set off a whirlwind in parenting education.
Tan Dunxiang, Principal of Yu Ying Primary School in Changde City, Hunan Province
This is definitely a modern godson Bible. In this society where parents leave their children's education to schools, all kinds of cases in the book shock us, even ourselves. It's not that some parents don't want to educate their children, but that they usually don't work hard and always wait until there is a crisis to educate their children, and often take the wrong way. The child is a piece of rough jade, a piece of white paper. In this book, you can find ways to live in harmony with children and correctly guide common progress.
Mao, Principal of Lixian No.1 Middle School in Hunan Province
Just like throwing a big stone into a rippling lake, the chaotic state of family education was messed up by a book like "Worrying Parents Worrying Baby" and was injected with new life. I believe everyone who has read this book can gain a lot.
Professor Chen Hunan Women's College
Communication is the premise of education. Mastering psychology will undoubtedly make communication clearer. This book reflects many problems in education and can be used for reference by parents and teachers.
Yin Jianchu, President of Hunan Xidongting No.1 Middle School
For me who has been paying attention to and thinking about parenting education, this book has special significance. The author's point of view opened a window for me. Many problems of parenting education that make me depressed are opened one by one through this book, which really makes me feel refreshed.
Li Hua, director of the teaching and research section of Shenzhen Nanhua Middle School, is a senior teacher.
Unlike all the books on parenting education I have read before, Mr. Paul Hu has both theoretical depth and height of the times. As a psychological counselor, she has unique conditions and can be exposed to all kinds of parent-child problems. All these contribute to the extraordinary value of this book, which will surely set off a whirlwind in parenting education.
Chu Lihua, Principal of Beizheng Street Primary School, Changde City, Hunan Province
The so-called education people will think of school. In fact, parents are the first educators of children. We educators and friends of parents should read this book, because education is not a simple problem for a few people.
Ding Meiyun Principal of Sancha Road Primary School, Changde City, Hunan Province
My understanding of this book is: "There are no children who can't achieve great things, only educational methods that destroy their spirituality." Worrying about parents and worrying about their babies is undoubtedly a book to help parents get out of educational misunderstandings and blind spots.
Yan Juxiang, Principal of Dongsheng Primary School in Changde City, Hunan Province
I was shocked at the moment I put down the book. I can't put down the cases in the book for a long time. What caused the contradiction between parents and children to be so great rather than a conflict of interest? This book not only answered the questions of my parents and friends, but also untied my heart for many years. As an educator, I am grateful to have such a book.
President of Seven Star Violin Piano Art School, Changde City, Hunan Province, Xiang Li
The thousand-year-old family education method of "sticking sticks to show filial piety" has evolved into "doting on the little emperor" in modern times, which cannot be said to be the sorrow of education. Maybe we should reflect on how to teach students in accordance with their aptitude through this book.