Life should be a process of learning to do subtraction. You don't need to live someone else's life, let alone live for others. Life is only a few decades, just be yourself. There is no need to envy others.
The excitement and prosperity of others have nothing to do with themselves. Trying to fight blindly will only increase your troubles. Therefore, the most important thing in life is to be content, look down on gains and losses, and let nature take its course. As long as you are healthy and someone loves to have something to do, it is the greatest happiness.
If you are the one, once a popular female guest changed from a "goddess of the masses" to an "ordinary woman", which was hard to accept for a while. In particular, knowing that other female guests were better off than her aggravated her dissatisfaction with the status quo, so that she suffered from prenatal depression and eventually hacked her husband to death.
The name of the female guest is Wang Jia. She changed from a little-known "internet celebrity" to a murderer in just one year. What did she go through?
If you are the one, join hands with "Gao Fushuai" and Wang Jiacheng, the goddess of the masses.
Wang Jia is from Yan 'an, Shaanxi. She was born in 1978, and her parents are employees of machinery factory. 19 years old, Wang Jia was admitted to the Chinese Department of Northwest University. At school, she showed strong editing ability and served as the editor-in-chief of the school magazine for a long time. After graduation, Wang Jia successfully entered the World Book Publishing Company.
We can see from Wang Jia's resume that she is a talented and capable woman. Strong women generally have higher requirements for love, and Wang Jia is no exception. Too picky, she remained single until she was 30 and became an "older woman". Urged by her parents, Wang Jia tried to fall in love with her male colleague, but broke up in less than three months.
At that time, "If You Are the One" was popular all over the country, and Wang Jia specially asked for leave to register in Nanjing. Wang Jia has a good career and image, outstanding temperament and harmonious words and deeds. These advantages made her stand out in the primary election. On 20 1 1, the program group went to Xi 'an to shoot a short film for Wang Jia.
Later, Wang Jia participated in four programs in succession. The first three times she saw female guests who were not as good as herself, and many of them chose their favorite men. Wang Jia feels very lonely. On April 9th, when recording the program for the fourth time, a "Gao Fushuai" named Zhang Tianyi successfully captured Wang Jia's heart.
According to Zhang Tianyi, he was terminally ill, but with the spirit of never giving up, he not only cured his terminal illness, but also made some achievements in his career, and served as the general manager of a company in Beijing. But busy with work, I am still single at the age of 30. He wants to find a partner, and it is best to get married within six months.
Finally, Wang Jia left the lamp. With years of study, she spoke a very "powder-sucking" declaration of love.
The male guest had a terminal illness, failed in his career and experienced so much. They must be people who know how to cherish. I really want to have a family and happiness, and I also want to be a person who knows how to cherish it. No matter you are poor or rich, or you are sick, even if you have nothing, I am willing to fight with you. The meaning of life is not to take, but to give. I really want to do anything for you!
Wang Jia's words made many female guests present shed tears, and even the host was deeply moved. Of course, Zhang Tianyi is no exception, and naturally took her away without hesitation.
Because of that touching declaration, many people paid attention to Wang Jia's Weibo and became his "fans". Wang Jia and "Gao Fushuai" held hands, which was once very sweet. They often share happy moments in Weibo, and fans naturally send their blessings.
On April 22nd, Zhang Tianyi was on a business trip in the United States, and Wang Jia also expressed his inseparable feelings in Weibo. But in May 1 1, everything changed. Wang Jia wrote in Weibo: "I also need to be respected. Why did I disappear? " Obviously, Zhang Tianyi left without saying goodbye and ignored Wang Jia.
Wang Jia is already a well-known "Internet celebrity". Many people pay attention to her love situation, but I didn't expect her to be cheated in the end. I finally had a serious relationship, but I met such dog blood. Wang Jia once stayed in Lacrimosa all day, hiding at home, afraid to see anyone.
During this period, a fan named "Wen Wen" sent a private letter to Wang Jia every day to comfort her. She also praised Wang Jia for not only being beautiful, but also daring to love and hate, and finally expressed her affection.
Wang Jia naturally refused at first, but this fan has been chasing after him. Whenever night falls, there will always be a hot text that moves Wang Jia. On May 27th, the two met again.
This "Wen Wen" is called He, a human being. He works as an account manager in a bank. His mother is a teacher and his father is a vice principal. The conditions are quite good. Moreover, he is more than one meter eight, two years younger than Wang Jia. Finally, under He's unremitting pursuit, Wang Jia finally agreed to associate with him.
However, Wang Jia's "idol" burden is too heavy. In order to alleviate the embarrassment brought by Zhang Tianyi, she also published a love diary in Weibo.
It's incredible. I finally found Prince Charming. He is destined to be the person I want to marry in this life. I was surprised at his persistence and enthusiasm.
They have also made rapid progress. They met their parents in July and planned to get married on New Year's Day, 20 12. During this period, their wedding room was also decorated, but Wang Jia suddenly didn't want to get married.
After the initial passion faded, Wang Jia thought that Wen Jia was not worthy of him. He was just a small clerk, far less than his predecessor, Zhang Tianyi. Several sisters who participated in the program together all found "rich" boyfriends. Wang Jia feels like a dwarf when chatting with each other.
However, just when Wang Jia hesitated, she found herself pregnant. After thinking about it for a few days, she changed her mind and decided to marry him. On the eighth day of the first month of 20 12, they got a marriage certificate, and in April, they got married.
After Wang Jia got married, her stomach gradually got bigger. Looking at her bloated self in the mirror and comparing the image of the goddess in the program "If You Are the One", Wang Jia felt extremely uncomfortable and had a sense of frustration. For a time, she couldn't accept changing from a "mass goddess" to an "ordinary woman".
And the female guests who participated in the program "If You Are the One" together, some have absorbed 1.3 million powder in Weibo, and also published bestsellers, and their careers have developed very well. Some female guests married a "coal second generation" although they failed to go on with male guests, and Wang Jia was invited to attend the wedding.
Seeing others live beautifully and colorful, Wang Jia feels like an ugly duckling. She became more and more dissatisfied with the status quo and began to quarrel with He Wenjia frequently. He said to the nail on the head: you want to live like that, then you can participate in this program again.
At the same time, why is she coming home late for work? Wang Jia suspects that she is having an affair outside. To this end, Wang Jia wants to find the so-called evidence and catch him cheating.
Wang Jia is swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and her mood is naturally unstable. After examination by the doctor, she suffered from mild depression. Fortunately, He realized the seriousness of the matter and played with his wife whenever he had time, which relieved Wang Jia's symptoms to some extent.
On the morning of July 3 1, He made breakfast and asked Wang Jia to eat. However, Wang Jia suddenly said, "I don't want to live." Hearing this, He Wenjia hurried to check and found Wang Jia watching If You Are the One. He Wen Jia immediately knew what was going on. He grabbed his laptop and fell to the ground with a bang.
He Wenjia shouted: "You are over 30 years old. Do you still have to live on the show? It is time for the goddess to return to the world! " Wang Jia suffered double harm from her husband's words. The two had a quarrel, which also laid a hidden danger for killing her husband.
The next night, Wang Jia added, "I want to commit suicide." He Wenjia thought she was unreasonable again, so he took out a knife from the kitchen and handed it to her. When Wang Jia saw her husband do this, she was so angry that she couldn't speak at once. She went downstairs alone and sat in the yard, thinking about suicide and her hatred for what over and over again.
In Wang Jia's view, if he wasn't so persistent, he wouldn't have married him, and life wouldn't have been such a failure. He caused everything. So Wang Jia's hatred for He grew bigger and bigger, and it haunted her all the time. Finally, Wang Jia decided to kill He first and then commit suicide.
At about 3 am on August 2, He Wenjia was sleeping. Wang Jiating was pregnant, so she picked up a kitchen knife and slashed at him. After all, the strength of pregnant women is limited and will not be fatal immediately. When he woke up in Wen Jia, he didn't fight back at all. He ran out of the house covered in blood and shouted, "Somebody, kill someone." .
However, He Wenjia was seriously injured and stopped before he ran far. Wang Jia caught up with him and cut him down from behind. He turned around with difficulty and begged, "I love you Jiajia. I was wrong. Don't kill me." But Wang Jia was unmoved and cut another knife.
With all his strength, Wen Jia stood up again, ran a few steps forward, and then fell headlong. At this time, Wang Jiacai woke up like a dream. She threw away the kitchen knife and cried in her arms. After a while, Wang Jia hit 1 10 and 120 again, and then picked up a knife and stabbed herself several times.
In the end, He died of acute hemorrhagic shock because of his injuries, while Wang Jiaze was slightly injured and the baby in his stomach was fine. After more than half a month, Wang Jia gave birth to a boy.
For the sake of his grandson, his parents withdrew the civil lawsuit. In the end, the court held that Wang Jia suffered from prenatal depression when he killed, and his behavior control ability was weak. In view of his surrender, he was given a lighter punishment and sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of 10 years.
After Wang Jia was cheated away by Zhang Tianyi, how could he boldly make love to her and help Wang Jia out of the shadows with persistence and true love? This shows that Wen Jia really loves her. Moreover, he has a good family condition, his parents are intellectuals, and he has a house and a car in Ann.
But despite this, Wang Jia is still not satisfied. She feels that she is a "goddess" and deserves a better life. Therefore, when the ideal conflicts with reality, Wang Jia's psychological imbalance, coupled with emotional instability during pregnancy, eventually leads to depression.
If Wang Jia does not compare with others, her life will be very happy. Her husband loves her, and her in-laws are sensible. This is the family that many women dream of. But she didn't cherish it and destroyed it herself. An unsatisfied woman is really terrible.