Personally, I think that's because of inertia. When you have experienced the feeling of being unaccompanied and helpless behind you, you will feel that it is very happy to have support. But blindly relying on others is not conducive to personal growth. Therefore, learn to wean yourself. If you can, go to a strange place to work or study for a while. Stay away from familiar people and environment, and rely on yourself. Even if you are wronged, bullied, criticized and made mistakes, etc. You can only deal with it alone. Gradually, you will be much more independent, which is definitely a good thing for you.