First impression effect

The impression left by the first meeting will have an important impact on future exchanges.

1. Want to fall in love at first sight: go out and dress yourself up.

2. Online dating or blind date: While dressing yourself up, you should also pay attention to your speech and leave a good impression on the other party.

Exposure effect or just exposure effect.

The more we see something, the more we like it.

1. Create more chances of encountering each other and increase the exposure of reality.

2. Chat with ta frequently to increase network exposure.

Suspension Bridge Effect

The other person will put his nervousness and heartbeat,

Mistakenly attributed to my love for you.

Where to date?

Watch horror movies, ride roller coasters, go to haunted houses, and escape from the secret room.

Dark effect

In a dark place, it is easy to reduce the sense of security and create a sense of security because the dating parties can't see each other's expressions clearly, because it is easier to get close!

Where else can I date?

Dim bars, dim restaurants, campus at night.

Aronson effect

We like people whose attitudes or behaviors of expressing appreciation for themselves are increasing, but we don't like those whose attitudes or improper behaviors are decreasing.

What's the date about?

1. Compliment each other.

2. Every compliment is more profound, and you can get the lasting love of the other person.

(Praise the beautiful clothes-praise the collocation-praise the good aesthetics)

Franklin effect

Ask the other person to do you a small favor. Ta has successfully helped you and will have a good impression on you.

Suitable small favors: borrowing books, umbrellas, helping with express delivery, and checking resumes. ...

Law of similar attraction

We prefer people like us. People with similar appearance, interests, background, personality and values are more likely to attract each other.

1. If you want to improve the success rate of blind date, you'd better choose someone with similar background, interests and personality.

2. When dating ta, you can also mention more and expose your similarities.

Self-disclosure

The more self-disclosure two people have, the closer their relationship becomes.

1. Topics with low self-disclosure: celebrity gossip, other people's business.

2. Topics with high self-disclosure: hobbies-attitudes and values-relationship with parents.