As the rich second generation, some people stand on the shoulders of the "ape giant" and step into the peak of their lives, while others only stand on the soles of the "ape giant" and stare at the peak. Many human factors, such as Dong Mingzhu, lamented that he dared to fight all his life, and lived "The Legend of mir", but how did he cultivate such a child with a general qualification certificate? But I saw the most precious side of Dong Dongdong.
He is brave enough, his mother is Dong Mingzhu, and he is not afraid of gossip, so he concentrates on being himself. Alone, he can reach for millions of venture capital, but he puts his arm behind his back, enters his passionate field by his own diligence, and works hard every day, just like others, in order to better realize his ideals.
When Dong Mingzhu's brother tried to use the kickback from the agent to bypass Gree Air Conditioning, Dong Mingzhu's children had made an agreement with her: Don't interfere in his daily life and don't live in the shadow of his mother. Compared with the monthly salary of 5000 yuan, people who make money by "sucking blood" are the least successful. Therefore, even if children become "ordinary people", Dong Mingzhu always looks proud when talking about children.
In this period when everyone is eager to establish personal relationships, take advantage of opportunities and make money quickly, Dong Mingzhu's children have become completely the other way around, and have their own sense of rhythm. If the purpose of cultural education is to cultivate a confident and happy child, Dong Mingzhu has already issued a test paper with a score of 100.
Previously, she was asked about her hopes for her children in the variety show "We Are Newcomers in the Workplace". She said, "I hope my son can become a useful person to society. But being useful does not mean reaching a certain level, but doing something beneficial to society. " It is undeniable that it is not so much "forcing" children to be alone as being a parent who dares to let go; It is not so much "forcing" children to become excellent as accepting their ordinary.
Some people may say that Dong Mingzhu, as a top-ranking rich man, her educational methods have no practical significance. But she is so excellent that she can accept such an ordinary child. However, many parents have been forcing their children to become excellent. For parents, the most painful thing is to destroy their own children. The energy invested has become the root cause of children's work stress. The time invested has become the cause of the child's collapse. You think children can break out in setbacks, but in fact children always fail in setbacks.
After all, how can children guarantee what adults can't do? One day, everyone will find that "ordinary" is the home of most children. Accepting ordinary children is a compulsory course for most parents. But to be fair, is it really necessary for people to be so anxious? When the criteria for evaluating children are only "good" and "not very good", parents will inevitably be driven by anxiety and break away from internal exams. But for most children, it takes a lot of effort to become an ordinary life.
Dong Dongdong, a 38-year-old lawyer, is still renting a house. Isn't his own life difficult? No matter how sarcastic others were, they never gave up. Parents learn to let go of their anxiety and accept their children's ordinary, which is the most extraordinary thing in their ordinary life. Everyone has worked so hard for a long time, and our goal is to make our future generations live in a better world. I hope they can be healthy, happier and more cheerful. Because people will suffer all kinds of disasters, people with a cheerful heart will never give up looking for ways to deal with them. "
Success, such as Ma Yun and Dong Mingzhu, only stipulates that children become normal people with physical and mental health. Ordinary people, like everyone else, have the best expectations for their children. Why do they become talented? Only when parents accept their children's ordinary things can they see their children's real bright spots. I didn't realize until now that children are never really ordinary. They try to live the life they really want, and this is the best answer. what do you think?