It is true that people need to be smart, but they should not be too smart or too calculating. The result of quick success and instant benefit will only be useless in the end. On the contrary, if you have no desire, you will be just, and there may be better results.
Too many people understand this truth, but how many people can do it?
Zhang Xiao and Meng Li are both older unmarried young people. Their acquaintance was introduced by friends, but this did not prevent them from falling in love at first sight and liking each other very much.
Zhang Xiao's monthly salary is about 8,000 yuan, which is moderate in his city, while Li Meng works as an accountant in a private enterprise, earning a little less every month, but the rich live a rich life and the poor live a poor life. After getting along with each other for a period of time, Zhang Xiao and Li Meng feel that their conditions are equal, so they have plans to get married.
Before getting married, Zhang Xiao got the support from his family, and the wedding room soon took shape. Considering Zhang Xiao's pressure, Li Meng took the initiative to bear the cost of the wedding room decoration, which made Zhang Xiao very moved, and immediately promised to write the husband and wife's name when the house was decorated, which made Li Meng feel safe. Because of the busy decoration, Zhang Xiao and his younger brother Zhang Yue went to get the real estate license, and Li Meng was busy at home.
After marriage, Zhang Xiao and his wife were still very harmonious, and Li Meng, intoxicated with the happiness of marriage, gradually forgot her room card and lived quietly for two years. Suddenly one day, a group of housekeepers came to Meng Li's house and said that the house was mortgaged, and the bank began to auction if it was not paid back within the time limit.
Both Zhang Xiao and Meng Li were confused by these words. At first, Li Meng thought they had come to the wrong house, but the staff of the other party took out a copy of the real estate license and found that the house belonged to them. The name of the owner was impressively written with the name of Zhang Xiao's brother Zhang Yue.
Li Meng looked at her husband Zhang Xiao strangely and asked him to take out the real estate license, but Zhang Xiao prevaricated for a long time and couldn't take it out. Finally, he confessed everything.
It turned out that when the real estate license was issued that day, in addition to Zhang Xiao and Zhang Yue, there were also Zhang Xiao's parents. They thought they could not add Li Meng's name to the house they bought, but in order to distance themselves from Li Meng, they didn't even write Zhang Xiao's name, so they decided to register it directly in Zhang Yue's name.
Zhang Yue lost money in business in the past two years, so he mortgaged the real estate loan behind Zhang Xiao's back, but he still didn't pay it back when it expired, so he ran away directly, so the bank closed the house.
When Li Meng knew everything, he felt that everything he heard was like a dream. The couple have always loved each other, and he devoted himself to Zhang Xiao and his in-laws. I didn't expect to be cheated by the other party from the beginning. Zhang Xiao's family thought they were clever, but they were betrayed by their own family in the end.
Li Meng asked the staff to come back tomorrow and called her in-laws. When she heard this, her in-laws collapsed and called her brother Zhang Yue inhuman, while Zhang Xiao and her in-laws begged Li Meng's forgiveness.
However, Li Meng's heart is cold. She is not a woman with a heart of stone, nor can she share the difficulties at home. But this is unbearable. After listening to Zhang Xiao and her in-laws' complaints, Li Meng filed for divorce and left without looking up. Think of this two-year marriage as a dream.
The house may be the biggest property of an ordinary family, so whether the husband and wife love each other or not, we should not ignore the question of where the house goes. Li Meng's tragedy is that he trusted the other party too much, so he was cheated by the other party and tampered with the name of the room card.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with couples trusting each other, but some things, such as houses, still need to be confirmed by themselves. We can't let each other do whatever they want, just like Zhang Xiao's brother in Zhang Yue can have such heartless things. What about Zhang Xiao and Li Meng?
Zhang Xiao finally lost his house and wife, which was basically caused by being smart. He thought it was foolproof, but in fact there were many problems. Ever since he had this idea, he has put a time bomb on his life and marriage, which is always in danger of exploding.
I think even if Zhang Yue didn't mortgage the house, Meng Lichi would have known that only his brother's name was written on the house certificate. After knowing the cause and effect, he would have chosen to divorce, because the basis of this marriage became cheating, and no woman could accept it.
Japanese writer Osamu Dazai said in Disqualification on Earth: "If we can avoid violent ecstasy, there will naturally be no sadness."
A lot of troubles in life are due to too much desire. In order to covet his own interests, Zhang Xiao cleverly decided to give his house card to his younger brother. In the end, I really "lost my wife and lost my soldiers" and had nothing. How sad and sad!
The most despised behavior between husband and wife is to hide their secrets, lie, and even lie to the people next to them. What future will there be?
For feelings, the first thing between husband and wife is respect, the second is trust, and the third is frankness. Only in this way can a marriage be happy and long-lasting, and can it be worthy of the dedication of this relationship. It is the most important thing to be innocent of yourself and your heart.