Lead: Some parents are selfish, especially in families that prefer boys to girls. They usually sacrifice their daughter's happiness for their son's happiness. When a daughter gets married, she asks for a high bride price just to buy a house for her son to get married, regardless of her happiness. Just like in Ode to Joy, Fan can only give the money she earned from her part-time job to her brother's family, and her parents are quite selfish. +065438.60606060665

Feed the whole family

Wang Yongqiang, a doctoral student in Peking University, was born in a very poor family, and the children of the poor came to power very early. Knowing that his parents worked hard to make money, Wang Yongqiang took the initiative to undertake a lot of housework. After he went to college, he did a lot of part-time jobs besides studying, just to support himself, including saving enough tuition, so that the burden on his parents would be much reduced. Wang Yongqiang works and studies every day, and his academic performance has been very good. Even in the talented Peking University, his academic performance has always been among the best, but soon his parents became people he didn't like, and they began to go too far. They didn't go to work to be lazy, just waiting for Wang Yongqiang to give them money to live, which made Wang Yongqiang very miserable. He sometimes hopes that his parents can understand him. After all, he is still a student. After graduating from college, he promised to earn more money to honor his parents and buy them a big house to live in.

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No contact for 20 years

Wang Yongqiang's parents still don't understand his son's difficulties. Wang Yongqiang must continue to make money after his busy work, so his parents regard him as an ATM and completely ignore his studies. Later, after graduating from his doctor's degree, he went abroad in order to leave his parents. The trip lasted nearly twenty years. During these 20 years, he has not contacted his parents on his own initiative. He felt that his parents were selfish people, just greedy for pleasure, and his parents accused him of being unfilial. I don't know how to be grateful. My mother repeatedly stressed that they were very ill and even dying. Facing his mother's words, Wang Yongqiang still didn't choose to visit his parents or even meet them.

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Parents should try their best to help their children when they need them. After all, their children's wings haven't grown yet, and many things can't be done. Parents should be more supportive. When their children grow up, they will be filial to their elderly parents. It is more helpful to them now, and they will grow faster. They will have good living conditions to honor their parents in the future. This is a virtuous circle, blindly squeezing your own children, especially when compared.

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Conclusion: If children want to be filial, the premise is that parents are kind, and selfish personality can also be contagious. The same is true for children, and finally the parents are themselves. What do you think of this in front of the screen? Please leave a comment below!