Chen Atu, a farmer in Taiwan Province Province, has never been far away.

Finally, he got an opportunity to join a tour group to travel abroad. Everything abroad is very new to him, especially joining a luxury group and staying in a standard room, which makes him feel novel.

This morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he shouted to him, "Good morning, sir!" " "

Chen Atu froze: What does this mean? In my hometown, strangers usually ask, "What's your name?" Thinking of this, Chen Atu shouted: "My name is Chen Atu!" If so, for three days in a row, it was the waiter who knocked at the door and said "good morning, sir" loudly every day. Chen Atu also replied loudly: "My name is Chen Atu!"

A few days later, he was very angry: the waiter was so stupid that he asked his name every day. Tell him he doesn't remember. What a nuisance! Finally, he couldn't help it and ran to ask the tour guide, "Good morning, sir!" " "What do you mean? The guide told him the answer, "Oh, my God! What a pity! "

After returning to his room, Chen Atu repeatedly practiced "Good morning, sir!" This sentence allows you to deal with the waiter with dignity.

The next morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted, "Good morning, sir!"

At the same time, the waiter shouted, "I'm Chen Atu!"

This story tells us that the communication between people is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. If you want to succeed, you must cultivate your influence; Only people with great influence can become the strongest in life! ! !

The second story

Five-year-old Hank went to work in the forest with his father, mother and brother.

Suddenly, it rained heavily, but they only brought a poncho.

Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank.

Hank asked, "Why did my father give the poncho to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?"

Dad replied: "Because dad is stronger than mom, mom is stronger than brother, and brother is stronger than you, so we will protect the weak."

Hank looked around, ran to one side, spread a poncho, and blocked a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.

This story tells us: the real strong man is not necessarily how strong or rich, but how much help he has to others! Responsibility can make things perfect, and love can make things better! !

The third story

A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of him that said: This parrot can speak two languages, and the price is 200 yuan.

The sign on the front of another parrot reads: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan.

Both of them are shiny and cute. Which one should I buy? The man turned and couldn't make up his mind.

At this moment, he suddenly found a parrot with an old tooth missing. Its coat color was dim and messy, and the price was 800 yuan!

The man quickly called the boss: "Can this parrot speak eight languages?" The shopkeeper said, "No."

The man wondered, "Then why is this parrot so old, ugly and incompetent that it is worth it?"

The shopkeeper replied, "Because the other two parrots call this parrot boss."

This story tells us that the real * * *, your ability is not necessarily strong, as long as you know how to trust, know how to delegate, and know how to cherish, you can unite forces stronger than yourself, thus enhancing your value. On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities feel that no one can match themselves because they are too pursuing perfection. In the end, you can only be the best publicist and sales representative, but not the best.

The fourth story

People from a small country came to China to pay tribute to three identical gold people, glittering with gold, and the emperor was very happy.

But the people of this small country are dishonest, so they gave Emperor China a difficult problem, asking who is the most valuable of the three gold people?

The emperor thought of many ways to invite a jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work ... the result was exactly the same.

What should I do? The messenger is still waiting to report to the king. A great country can't even handle this little thing, can it?

Finally, the old minister said that he had an idea, only to see that he had three straws with confidence, pulled out one of them and inserted it into the ear of the first gold man, and the straw came out of the other ear of the gold man; The straw inserted in the second gold man fell directly out of his mouth; And the third golden man, after the straw went in, fell into the golden man's stomach.

The old minister said, "The third gold man is the most valuable!" The messenger was silent and the answer was correct. ...

This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.

The fifth story

A said to B, "I want to leave this company because I hate it!" " "

B suggestion: "I agree with both hands! You must give the company some color to see see! However, now is not the best time for you to leave. "

A asked why, and B said, "If you leave now, the company will not lose much. You should seize this opportunity while you are still in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become an independent figure of the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive, and then you ... "

A thought what B said was very reasonable, so she worked hard. After more than half a year's efforts, A has many loyal customers.

When we meet again, B asks A: "Now is the time, hurry up and act!" "

A smiled indifferently: "The boss and I have talked for a long time and are going to promote me as assistant to the general manager. Now I have no intention of leaving for the time being ... "

In fact, this is also the original intention of B. When a person works, he always writes a resume for himself. Only by paying more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him.

The sixth story

Three people were going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gave them an achievable request.

Americans love to smoke cigars, so they lit three boxes of cigars and went to prison. The French are romantic and want a beautiful woman to accompany them; The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world.

Three years later, the first person to rush out was an American. He saw his mouth and nostrils stuffed with cigars. He shouted, "give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "

It turned out that he forgot to make a fire. Then the Frenchman came out and saw a child in his hand. The beautiful woman also held a child in her hand and was pregnant with a third one. Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To express my gratitude, I want to send you an old Schleswig! "

This story tells us: what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create a better future for ourselves.

The seventh story

Two people were walking in the forest when suddenly they met a big tiger.

A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from the back and put them on. B was in a hurry and scolded, "Why, you can't run away from the tiger if you change your shoes again!" " ! ! "

A said, "As long as I run faster than you ..."

2 1 century, no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China's entry into the GATT, telecommunications, banking, insurance and even civil servants, which we always thought were very stable and guaranteed, will face many variables. When more tigers come, are we ready for running shoes?

The eighth story

A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived.

Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first dream was that he planted cabbage on the wall; The second dream is rain. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that my beloved cousin and I are lying naked together, but back to back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar quickly found a fortune teller to interpret dreams the next day.

Hearing this, the fortune teller sighed in continuous shooting's thigh, "You'd better go home! Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? ! Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? ! Lying naked in a bed with my cousin, but back to back, isn't that impossible? ! ! ! "

Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home.

The shopkeeper was surprised to see it and asked him, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow?" Why are you going back to your hometown today? " When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? "

Hearing this, the scholar felt that what the shopkeeper said was more reasonable, so he was inspired, took part in the exam, and actually won a flower exploration.

Positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine; Negative people are like the moon, but the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future.

The ninth story

The little camel in the zoo asked his mother, "Mom, why are our eyelashes so long?"

Mother camel: "When the sandstorm comes, long eyelashes can let us see clearly in the sandstorm."

The little camel asked again, "mom, why are our backs so camel?" Too ugly! " "

Mother camel: "This is called hump. It can help us store a lot of water and nutrients, and it can make us endure the conditions of no water and no food for more than ten days in the desert. "

The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our soles so thick?"

Mother camel: "This will keep our heavy bodies from falling into the soft sand, which will facilitate our long journey!" " "

The little camel was very happy: "Wow, we are really useful! But mom, why are we still hiking in the zoo instead of in the desert? "

I was born useful, but no one uses it now. Good mentality+successful teaching materials+infinite stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to find a stage where you can give full play to your potential.

The 10 story

There are seven people who live together and share a big bucket of porridge every day.

The terrible thing is that there is not enough porridge to eat every day.

At first, they drew lots to decide who would share the porridge, one serving a day. As a result, every week, they are full only one day, that is, the day they share their porridge.

Later, they chose a virtuous person to share the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please and bribe him, making the whole clique filled with smoke. Later, everyone formed a three-person porridge Committee and a four-person selection Committee, but they often attacked each other and quarreled constantly, and the porridge was all cold in their mouths.

Finally, a person came up with an idea: take turns to divide the porridge, but the people who divide the porridge wait until everyone else has picked it out and take away the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to divide the porridge evenly, even if it is uneven, they can only recognize it.

Finally, everyone is happy and kind, and life is getting better and better.

The same seven people, different distribution systems have produced different ethos. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem. Certainly it is not completely fair, just and open, and there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every leader deserves to ponder and consider. ...

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Anyone who has been to the temple knows that as soon as he enters the temple gate, the first one is Amitabha, welcoming guests with a smiling face, and in the north of him, it is Darkmouth's black-faced Wei Tuo. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.

Buddha Miller is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.

Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so the incense was flourishing. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.

[color=blue] In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, there are no useless people, just like the master of martial arts, who can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.

12 story

A psychology professor visited the madhouse to learn about the living conditions of the mentally ill. After all, it's an eye-opener to think that these people are crazy and act unexpectedly.

Unexpectedly, when I was about to return, I found my tire dropped. "Some madman must have done it!" The professor thought angrily and began to get the spare tire ready to install.

This is serious. The man who got off the tire actually dropped all the screws. You can't get on without screws and spare tires!

The professor was at a loss. Just as he was in a hurry, a madman jumped up and sang an unknown happy song. He found the professor in trouble and stopped to ask what had happened.

The professor ignored him and told him out of courtesy.

The madman smiled and said, "I have an idea!" " "He removed one screw from each tire so that he had three screws to install the spare tire.

The professor was pleasantly surprised and very curious: "How did you come up with this idea?"

The madman smiled and said, "I am a madman, but I am not a fool!" " "

In fact, many people in the world, because they find pleasure in their work, always show different fanaticism from ordinary people, which is hard to understand. When many people laugh at them as crazy, others may still laugh at him as a bookworm.

Stupidity and cleverness are especially a good attitude in China.

13 story

Before a master performer came on stage, his disciples told him that his shoelaces were loose. The master nodded his thanks and squatted down to tie it carefully. Disciple turned his back and squatted down to untie his shoelaces.

A bystander saw all this and asked inexplicably, "Master, why did you untie your shoelaces again?" The master replied, "Because I play a tired traveler, I can show his fatigue and haggard through this detail and let his shoes go through a long journey."

"Then why don't you just tell your disciples?"

"He can carefully find that my shoelaces are loose and enthusiastically tell me that I must protect his enthusiasm and encourage him in time. As for why I untied my shoelaces, I will have more opportunities to teach him to perform in the future. I can talk about it next time. "

People can only do one thing at a time, and only by grasping the key points can they become real talents.

Story 14

There was a rich boy who loved jiaozi very much and ate it every day. But he is very cunning. He only eats stuffing and throws the tips of his skin into the river behind him.

The good times didn't last long. When he was sixteen, a big fire burned his whole family, and his parents died in anger. I'm penniless now, so I'm embarrassed to beg. The neighbor's sister-in-law is very nice. She gives him a bowl of mushy noodles for every meal. He studied hard and came back after three years. He must thank his neighbor's sister-in-law

Sister-in-law told him: Don't thank me. I didn't give you anything. I put away the jiaozi tips you lost in those years, dried them and bagged them. I wanted them to plan ahead. I gave it back to you just when you needed it.

The official thought for a long time. . . .

There is a famous March 8 theory: eight hours of sleep and eight hours of work, everyone is the same. The difference between people lies in how to spend their spare time. Time is the most affectionate and heartless thing, and everyone has the same thing, which is fair. But people with resources may not be successful, and those who make good use of resources will be successful. Living during the day and developing at night are the requirements for talents in 2 1 century.

Story 15

Father and son live in the mountains, and they have to drive ox carts down the mountain to sell firewood every day. The old father is more experienced, driving in the town, the mountain road is rugged and curved, and the son has a good eye. He always reminds him when he wants to turn: "Dad, turn!"

Once my father didn't go down the mountain because of illness, and my son drove alone. At the corner, the cow refused to turn, so the son tried every means to get out of the car and push and pull, lured by grass, and the cow did not move.

What the hell is going on? My son is puzzled. In the end, there is only one way. He looked around to see that no one was there. He leaned close to the cow's ear and shouted, "Dad, turn!" " "

The cow responded and moved.

Cows live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits instead of bad ones. When more good habits are accumulated, there will naturally be a good life.

Story 16

Once a reporter was writing at home, and his four-year-old son clamored for his company. The reporter was very angry, so he tore the back cover of a magazine and said to his son, "You put the world map together first, and dad will play with you." After less than five minutes, my son came to hold his hand again and said, "Dad, I finished spelling, please play with me!" " "

The reporter was very angry: "It is understandable for children to play, but it is not good to lie." How can you spell out the map of the world so quickly! "

The son is very wronged: "but I really fought!" "

When the reporter saw it, it really happened: No? There are prodigies at home? He asked curiously, "How did you do it?"

The son said: On the back of the world map is a person's head. I spell backwards, as long as this person is good, the world will be complete.

So be a man in advance. If a person does well, his world will be good.

17 story

A, as a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, I feel that my ambition has not been appreciated by my superiors, and I often think: If I can meet my boss one day, I will have a chance to show my skills! !

A's colleague B has the same idea. He went one step further and asked the boss when he got to and from work and figured out when he got into the elevator. He also took the elevator at this time, hoping to meet his boss and say hello.

Their colleague c went further. He learned about the boss's struggle in detail, made clear the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style and his concerns, carefully designed a few simple but weighty opening remarks, took the elevator at the calculated time, greeted the boss several times, and finally had a long talk with him one day, and soon won a better position.

Fools miss opportunities, wise men seize opportunities, and winners create opportunities. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared, and the word "preparation" is not just talk.

Story 18

A doctor was assigned to a research institute and became the person with the highest academic qualifications.

One day, he went fishing in the small pond behind his unit. It happened that the director and deputy director were around him and were fishing.

He just nodded slightly. What are these two undergraduates talking about?

After a while, the director put down the fishing rod, stretched himself and walked briskly across the water to go to the toilet.

The doctor's eyes are about to fall off. Floating on the water? Really? This is a pond.

When the director came back from the toilet, he also floated back from the water.

What's going on here? Doctoral students are not easy to ask, they are doctoral students!

After a while, the deputy director also stood up, took a few steps and floated across the water to go to the toilet. Now the doctor almost fainted: no way, go to a place where Jianghu experts are concentrated?

Doctoral students are also very anxious. There are walls on both sides of this pond. It takes more than ten minutes to go to the toilet opposite, and it's too far to go back to work. What should I do?

Doctoral students don't want to ask the two directors. After holding back for a long time, they got up and stepped into the water: I don't believe undergraduates can pass, but my doctoral students can't.

The doctor fell into the water with a bang.

Two directors pulled him out and asked him why he had to go into the water. He asked, "Why did you walk there?"

The two directors smiled at each other: "There are two rows of stakes in this pond. Because it rained these two days, the water just rose below the surface. We all know the location of the stake, so we can step on it. Why don't you ask? "

Education represents the past, and only learning ability can represent the future. People who respect experience can take fewer detours. A good team should be a learning team.