The essence of family education is life education. Family relationship and active and colorful life are two major factors that affect family life education, and good life education is conducive to children's growth. Below, I sorted out my thoughts on the open class of family education in 2022. I hope you like it!
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 1 As parents, they generally think that they care about their children most, and they will say: As long as their children can be happy in the future, we are willing to give everything! It is worthwhile to eat hard for the children. Even most parents regard their children's future as a continuation of their dreams. However, I inadvertently noticed that parents seem to have overlooked a question: Are you professional in participating in the growth of children? Can you ask your children to do it? We are not experts, that's for sure. In fact, our children are already excellent and have been working hard. What they need is our help, the help of positive energy!
Since we lack professional knowledge and ability, we must study. As for "parents staying in school", I don't think it will help much to get involved. Even my original intention was just to help the teachers make up the numbers. If I had known that other parents in my class could go, I wouldn't have taken part in this activity. But as soon as I stepped into the campus, I suddenly realized that it was right to come. This is the environment where children grow up and the cradle where they will go in four years. It will prune and cut leaves for my children and your children, and provide them with unlimited positive energy. Although this school is rural, it is not too big.
The school is not too big, but it is enough for children to learn cultural knowledge in class and broaden their horizons; Run after class, shout and let yourself go. The school is not too big, but it is clean, with bright windows and rich green plants.
The school is not too big, but the ground inside and outside the classroom is bright and the teaching facilities are placed reasonably. It is convenient to set up toilets in many places. Toilets are tasteless, sanitary and clean.
The school is not too big, but the restaurant is rich in food and just right in nutrition. The playground is plastic, with high safety and environmental protection. The spiritual, cultural and material foundation is comprehensive.
The school is not too big, but I see the positive attitude of all the teachers. The class teacher and the class teacher are single-minded and spare no effort to run before and after for our children. Today, President Wang also interacted with the resident parents in his busy schedule. Give everyone a vivid education lesson. I still remember the two themes that President Wang talked about:
First, the competition among students is not the competition of IQ, but the competition of family environment and parents' educational ideas. The change of family education concept is really a lesson that our rural parents need to make up.
Second, don't let children lose at the starting line, but let them not stand on the wrong track. Be sure to let the children stand on the runway that they are good at.
After leaving school, profound words always echo in my ears.
I hope all parents will come to participate in the "Parents at School" activity! Only when you come can you appreciate the teachers' initial heart. Only when I come can I appreciate the careful arrangements made by the school for children's study, including busy early self-study, thoughtful guidance from teachers in class, word recitation during recess, hygiene after lunch, and 10 minute word practice.
The school is not too big, the arrangement is reasonable and compact, waiting for your advice.
The school is not too big, and the basic contents of socialist core values are prominently placed on the podium: the national value goal is "prosperity, democracy, civilization and harmony", the social value goal is "freedom, equality, justice and the rule of law", and the personal value goal is "patriotism, professionalism, honesty and friendliness". The overall arrangement of the class is also exquisite and well-founded, and all parents have the opportunity to praise it.
The school is not too big, I want to show it to you! It is a great honor to participate in the "Parents at School" activity!
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class II. First, pay attention to the importance of family education to children and be a friend-type parent who is willing to accompany their children.
"Life should be accompanied by life, soul should be inspired by soul, thoughts should be influenced by thoughts, wisdom should be enlightened by wisdom, will should be tempered by will, and personality should be shaped by personality." This is a sentence that my father and I agree with very much. As parents, it is most important to accompany their children as much as possible, because the cultivation of children's moral character, good habits and character formation are all edified and enlightened in the family first. Parents' words and deeds are the background color of children, and family education is the first button of children's life.
If Sun Ting is a typical mother-born, grandmother-raised child, because both parents are office workers, they rarely work at home, and the children's daily food, clothing, housing and transportation are basically taken care of by grandma; But children are not alienated from their parents, because once we have time at home, we will spend as much time with our children as possible. Tingruo's father spends more time with his children than I do. Father's company is very important for girls, which makes Ting Re feel safe from childhood. He is very concerned about two things. First, he plays with his children, big or small, so Ting Ruo is sunny and lively. The second is to observe children in play, find out their advantages and disadvantages, and further cultivate them in combination with their strengths and advantages to broaden their knowledge (see Article 2 for details). I am an educator. I usually pay close attention to children's mental health, pay attention to children's emotional changes, and communicate and guide them in time. It is not difficult to do this. The most important thing is not to let the child feel that you have always treated her like a child. We should listen more, ask children what they think and why they think so, and share some lovely little secrets with them. This kind of friendly interaction will enhance children's perception and judgment of things. Ting Ruo often says that I am her friend, and I think this good parent-child relationship is inseparable from the company of children.
Second, don't put too much pressure on learning skills, and have strict rules on habit formation.
Parents have a lot of expectations for each child, but we should know that the most important task as parents is to cultivate their children into a person with independent personality. Our long-term plan for our child is to hope that she can become a healthy, happy, simple, kind, self-reliant and life-loving person first. On the basis of this necessary goal, children can develop freely. In primary school, we won't give her too much study pressure except to complete the teaching tasks assigned by the school and develop her hobbies. I hope she can have a happy childhood. However, in developing living habits, we must abide by strict rules, such as having good work and rest habits, getting up before 7 o'clock every morning, going to bed before 9 o'clock every night, and doing homework first thing after school; Have good hygiene habits, wash your hands before and after meals, wash yourself before going to bed every night, and tidy up your schoolbag and desk; Be polite, say hello to your elders, say thank you when you get help, and say sorry when you are influenced by others. These seemingly small things, but "there is no journey of a thousand miles without accumulation, and there is no river and sea without trickle accumulation", little things show great civilization, and children themselves can appreciate the beauty of human nature brought by civilization and have a better ability to perceive happiness.
Third, interest is the teacher of children, and the exploration and cultivation of special skills will build children's self-confidence.
We all say that interest is a child's teacher, so how can we find a child's interest? Let the children try more. Forrest Gump's mother said, "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get." I thought, "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get." So when a child has the idea of trying something, just encourage him/her. At the same time, we should distinguish between "fun" and "novelty". For example, many children are curious about the piano at the age of 5 or 6, and they are very excited to play the melody of "Two Tigers" in the first audition class. At this time, parents should never think that the child's initial excitement is his/her interest. Maybe it's just that he/she feels fresh for a while and may want to give up in two days, not to mention saying "Look at you, you don't have any perseverance and don't know how to persist" at this time. Otherwise, children can only practice the piano against their will, and eventually negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent. The key is frustration. In fact, these have nothing to do with "perseverance" and "persistence", but we will misunderstand them. Interest is not "do whatever you are told", but "do it without asking". Once children find something they are interested in, their learning ability and attention will surprise us. Ting Ruo feels a lot of new things in the process of growing up, which basically has nothing to do with learning, but as long as it is beneficial to her growth, we all support her to try. She tried to do it by hand for a month and then gave up. She tried piano lessons twice, swimming for two weeks, roller skating once and raising rabbits for two months. But some people insist on it because of hobbies, such as painting. When the holiday interest class is closed, she will also let adults buy gouache and daub "gouache masterpieces" at home; For example, in dance, in order to catch up with the progress of a higher class, she can actually bear the hard work of practicing basic skills four times a week.
Another thing to note is that a child should explore his/her special skills and cultivate more when he/she is young. If a child grows up, his/her specialty is only their hobby, which will be a very happy thing; Even if not, cultivating his/her specialty and getting them used to doing what they are good at can also bring great confidence to children. When Ting Ruo 1 1/2 years old, we found that her expressive ability and ability to recognize colors and figures were very strong. Dad used games to let her remember the names, flags and capitals of all countries in the world. When Sun Ting was 4 years old, she could recognize the flags of more than 150 countries, remember the names of their capitals, and point out the positions of most of them on the earth. In the middle class, we found that when she watched the TV program of Chinese Poetry Conference with adults, she could remember simple poems and use them properly. For example, when she sees other children's leftovers, she will say "every grain is hard", and when she sees willow trees in the park, she will say "a tapestry of green silk hangs down". From then on, her father taught her to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry. She recited about 65,438+00 minutes a day, one short poem and two long poems a day. She will get bored by reciting poems. At this time, her father will use the "flying flower order" or the game of performing poems to arouse her enthusiasm and form a habit, so it is easy to stick to it. We have never thought about what she wants to achieve by reciting poems, but we firmly believe that "she is full of poetry and painting" and always insist on doing one thing to make her very confident in herself.
Fourthly, cultivating children's reading habits is a gift we can give them.
Every child begins to explore the world with curious eyes from the moment he opens his eyes. This is an innate thirst for knowledge. However, with the growth of age, many children's thirst for knowledge gradually lost. There must be parents in this. When children ask their parents questions, some parents will be impatient and shut their children up if they can't answer them. At this time, the child's subconscious will feel that his behavior is wrong, and gradually there will be fewer problems. In fact, his thirst for knowledge has weakened. When you are asked by your child's question and can't answer it, the correct way is never to feel embarrassed, but to find the answer from the book with your child. Only in this way can the child's thirst for knowledge be protected, and he/she will know that books are good things, and he/she must know more words to read more books. If children's brains are occupied by books, what are we worried about? Therefore, gifts should be given with books with pinyin suitable for them to read; Ask questions naturally when chatting and tell them which book will have the answer; Reading more books and newspapers in front of children is also a good way to guide yourself. Once children fall in love with quiet reading, you will find how cute they are! Ting Ruo often stumbles her parents because of the dinosaur problem, and then we read the Encyclopedia of Children Dinosaurs together to arouse her interest in studying paleontology. During the primary selection of magazines this semester, she chose Ocean Quest, Nature Quest, Animal Miracle and Exploring Geography, and she could read them carefully. Now she is determined to be a paleontologist when she grows up. The cultivation of reading habits is really a gift we can give to our children!
I am glad that my children can study in such an educational school. I am very grateful to the school teachers for their love and justice, giving them the opportunity to know themselves, challenge themselves and show themselves. I hope we can discuss all kinds of family education with more teachers and parents in the future, so that all parents can find a family education guidance model suitable for their children's development and let our children grow up happily together!
To tell the truth, when I heard that family education legislation, tutoring is no longer a "family matter" but has developed into a "national event", as a parent, my heart is restless. The reason for the agitation is that it has broken the traditional concept of family education, and educating children is no longer a matter behind closed doors, but has been upgraded to a cause that the state and society should attach importance to, a heavy and great cause. According to the law, parents are the main responsible persons for family education, so as parents, we have the obligation to play the role of such an era.
What is this? The basic premise of family education is to respect the laws of children's physical and mental development, respect individual differences and take teaching students in accordance with their aptitude as the criterion. I personally agree with Professor Zhu Yongxin's words in the program: "You must become an adult first". Only by letting children establish a correct outlook on life and find happiness and life value can he become a useful person to the country and society.
How come? At school, children mainly study knowledge; In family life, parents should have the responsibility to respect their children, actively guide them and lead by example. We should fully realize that the role of parents in family education is irreplaceable, and we should put high-quality companionship on the agenda of life, so as to be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others. Parents should not simply take scores as the only criterion to measure their children's growth, but should see the comprehensiveness of their children's development. Make progress and grow together with children in life.
"The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly." Parents should strive to promote home-school cooperation1+1> 2. For the real Lide Shu Ren. ...
Family education should be based on children's sustained and healthy growth, fully understand and grasp children's characteristics and characteristics, follow the law of growth, strive to create an environment, exchange ideas on an equal footing, and combine family and school to organically integrate growth and success, so that children can fly to their future with dreams and ideals in love and responsibility. It should be noted that:
First, learn to admit and accept children's imperfections. Imperfection is the normal state of people and things in the world. Imperfection is sometimes a kind of beauty. As parents, you can have expectations for your children, but not too high or too utilitarian. More often, we should learn to appreciate children, encourage them and help them find themselves, affirm themselves and realize themselves in the process of growing up, so as to achieve a happy life.
Second, try to avoid rude paternalism. As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. To treat children, we must first respect them as independent individuals with dignity. This is particularly important in the process of family education, which is also a very important factor for children to communicate and participate. Strict and good should go hand in hand, not just one.
Third, pay attention to words and deeds, moisten things quietly. As parents, we should believe that children have been observing and learning, and the details are the devil. Maybe a small detail in life can affect their children's life. Therefore, as parents, we should try our best to be ourselves, at the same time, we should dare to show our shortcomings in front of our children, dare to accept their criticism and grow up with them.
I am the father of Gao Shengze, a classmate in Class Three, Grade One, Wuyi Road Primary School. Recently, I watched the open class of family education "Family and School Education, Morality, Values and Good Personality Cultivation" sponsored by the Working Committee of the Ministry of Education and China Education Television, and listened to Professor Lu Shizhen and Professor CoCo Lee's detailed exposition on education guiding children's growth, which benefited a lot. I share some of my experiences with you.
First of all, we should cultivate children's good living habits in primary school.
What parents do in daily life, children will almost perfectly imitate. Parents throw rubbish everywhere as soon as they speak, and their children will be such unqualified people in the future. When you can't control your emotions when you encounter something bad and yell at your child, the child will yell when expressing dissatisfaction. Parents hold mobile phones every day, and children will naturally play mobile games. Therefore, if children want to grow into people with high moral quality, they should set an example by themselves, pay attention to their words and deeds, and set a good example for children.
Second, we should cultivate children's good study habits in primary school.
In primary school, children's academic performance is not the most important, and the performance reflects the daily learning effect of children. It is important to educate and guide children to form a good habit of listening carefully in class, finishing homework on time after class and previewing in advance, so that they can study regularly after entering senior grades and junior high schools, so as not to disrupt the learning rhythm because of heavy learning tasks and many courses.
I think the parents of most children, like me, are facing the heavy responsibility of cultivating their children for the first time, and it is inevitable that they are at a loss. But we should have confidence, communicate with teachers more, understand children's performance in school, and cooperate with teachers to complete teaching tasks. I believe that every child can become a pillar of the country.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 6 Family is the first lesson in children's life. In the process of children's growth, parents are the first responsible person of children, and parents bear the main responsibility of children's family education. When educating children, parents should set an example. A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth. Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's health; Parents need to take responsibility, pay attention to their children's inner world, and guide their children to form a correct outlook on life, not just the providers of material resources, so that children must become adults before they become talents.
Cultivating good moral character is the foundation of family education, and imperceptibly, entertaining education is the key to family education. Through the study, I realized that educating minors with the correct way of thinking and behavior can make children become responsible newcomers of the times. I also learned some specific educational methods, such as setting some small goals, encouraging children to achieve their goals step by step, harvesting successful experiences, learning with children and growing together. As parents, our work is often very busy, and we often ignore the sense of ceremony in family life. In fact, a sense of family ceremony will make children love their families more. Through the process of family integration, children's hearts are filled with love and their self-confidence is enhanced. In family activities, insist that children and parents share family responsibilities and undertake some housework within their power to enhance children's sense of family responsibility; At the same time, parents should attach importance to companionship, effectively accompany their children and let them grow up in love. Instead of focusing only on grades, it is better to help children grow up in small setbacks, face problems directly, overcome their own shortcomings, and gradually establish self-confidence in learning. At the same time, we should pay attention to children's psychological activities, encourage children to actively solve the problems they encounter, encourage children to participate in physical exercise activities, and combine work and rest to make children physically and mentally healthy and develop in an all-round way.
This study has benefited me a lot in family education, and I feel that there are still many places to learn and improve. It's a long way, Xiu Yuan is Xi, and I will go up and down. I believe that with the joint efforts of family, school and society, children will grow up healthily and happily and become new people of the times who shoulder the heavy responsibility of national rejuvenation!
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 7 Today, I watched the fifth issue of family education-family education should achieve a balance between strictness and care. I have gained a lot. Through this educational video, I know more clearly how to really love children and let them know about love. Only by combining strict love with each other and balancing strict love can we truly achieve the educational effect.
Family education is the cornerstone of the whole education. Parents should be strict with themselves and be lenient with others when educating their children in life. Mom and dad should cooperate reasonably when taking care of their children, and they should not be too strict when educating their children, so that children can't feel the warmth and respect of their families, and they can't spoil them too much, which also hinders their growth. Parents should be reasonable and balanced.
The ancient "filial son born under the stick" is no longer applicable in modern society and family education. As parents in the new era, we should set an example and set an example. Parents should set an example for their children. Confucius said, "He is upright and acts without orders. His body is not right, although he does not obey. " Parents are a mirror of children, from whom we can see their shadows. Parents should set up a good image in front of their children. What parents want their children to do must be done first. Locke also said in his "Random Talk on Education", "You can never do anything in front of him that feels awesome afterwards, but you don't want him to imitate."
The family education thought of strict "benevolence" and the combination of "benevolence" can be described as the excellent thought of the Chinese nation. As parents, we should learn more about the theory of family education. In the process of educating children, we should also learn more, respect each other, cooperate with each other and grow together.
Comments on 2022 Open Class of Family Education 8 Tonight, I was fortunate to watch the second lecture of "Open Class of Family-School Education, Moral Cultivation-Family Education" jointly launched by the Ministry of Education, Capital Normal University and CETV. I have benefited a lot and have a deep understanding.
The guests invited in this programme are Professor Li Ning and Professor Liu Hui. In the process of educating children, the most headache and the most basic problem for our parents is that they can't communicate effectively with their children and express their concern for them. Professor Liu Hui mentioned in the program that the real concern between parents and children is to establish a benign response relationship. Our parents should understand the information conveyed to us by their children's emotions, language, behaviors and actions, fundamentally understand the children's hearts, ease the conflicts with their children before, communicate with their children calmly, and make good friends with their children. Children's expressions are divided into emotional expressions, behavioral expressions and language expressions. Our parents should carefully capture their children's expressions. Because children's knowledge is limited, emotion is the most commonly used expression for children. Children cry at ordinary times, and we need to understand the reasons behind it. A child crying means whether there is a need or not. Teacher Li Ning mentioned "deal with feelings first, then deal with things". I was deeply moved by this sentence. Children do things with emotions in daily life and study, do things badly, and can't integrate into the group. As parents, they should adjust their children's emotions in time, satisfy their sense of security and love, make them feel relaxed and happy, and give them a good psychological environment.
Parents are the main body of family education, bearing the expectations of the older generation and the education of the next generation. Family education is not only for children's education, but also for parents' self-education, the continuous optimization of parents' self-education and the purification of the soul. Parents should constantly learn their own educational experience, and at the same time, they should constantly learn from other people's educational experience, take its essence and discard its dross. It is never too old to learn. Family education is not only a guide to children's development, but also a self-innovation of parents' own values and educational concepts. We should not only find out the bright spots and shortcomings of children, but also find out the advantages and disadvantages of children's own education, and make continuous progress so that parents and children can make progress together and grow up healthily.