I'm really ashamed to think of it, even ashamed. In my childhood, when I felt lonely at home, I selfishly knocked on the door of Xiao Xiuli (a pseudonym), a female classmate near my home. In other words, at that time, I always "uninvited" without knowing it, or I didn't realize in time that my behavior had hurt her! For example, she complained to other students afterwards, to the general effect that she wanted to do her homework or watch TV, but I knocked at the door without asking her wishes, and she didn't open the door. I didn't know until later that after I came, her plan was unconsciously disrupted by me. Objectively speaking, Xiao Xiuli is not very good at speaking and communicating. Perhaps, the result is that she keeps things she doesn't like to me in her heart again and again and chooses not to communicate. From the perspective of self-reflection, I am too greedy. More specifically, I am too greedy for petty gain. I shouldn't treat her like this. At that time, I greedily went to her house to eat her cooking, which was originally hers. I took advantage of what I shouldn't have, and I'll be cursed. As long as I am a person, I will feel guilty subconsciously, and my consciousness will always be ignorant. Subconsciously, you will feel uneasy and anxious, and even be tortured by your own conscience. ...

② Jiang Zhenyu, a lecturer in the course of Psychological Stress Micro-reaction in China University of Political Science and Law, once said: "The better one's own situation, the better and more tolerant he will be to others. All bad behavior patterns will inevitably come from his own suffering, which is a kind of self-loathing." After all, I got what I deserved, and all the harm to beauty came back to me. I reap the consequences of bad karma, and bad karma attracts the wicked. When I first entered the society, I also had my own pressure, although I know there are many people who are much more stressed than me. At that time, I always prepared the preliminary work at home, but I was always forced to take advantage of others by a recognized relative, Luo Shuhui (a pseudonym). In other words, Luo Shuhui always brings her children to my home without calling or making an appointment on WeChat. Everyone who takes care of children knows that children must look at them when they are too young. Luo Shuhui's practice did have a negative impact on my study plan at that time, which destroyed my study plan. Originally, I also planned to study by reading books. Because I was interrupted by Luo Shuhui for more study time when my bad karma was mature, I was not fully prepared at work, which seriously affected my work progress many times. What a painful lesson! Alas! History is always strikingly similar. In a word, the uninvited thing I once did to beauty is really similar to Luo Shuhui's uninvited thing in a certain dimension. What a retribution! "Book of Changes, Kun Gua, Classical Chinese": "If there is a good family, there must be Qing Yu; If you are poor and weak, there must be more than one. "

I was too young to do building materials marketing. During my internship, I always only saw the immediate interests and didn't really consider the feelings of others. For example, during work hours, I saw my boss reading an e-book. I foolishly walked up to him and asked him to answer my question. Inertia interrupted his reading progress again and again. At that time, he was patient and didn't blame me because he thought I was not sensible. In retrospect, I really failed to ask him politely, "Are you busy? I hope to solve my doubts when you are willing. " According to the laws of causality and attraction, as well as force and reaction, my negative behavior also hit me back. Recently, while reading e-books, my grandmother interrupted me several times. I have had some inspiration, but once interrupted, my inspiration is gone. Personally, I firmly believe that this is karma. He who swims in sin will sink in sorrow. I used to be so malicious that I only cared about petty profits and interrupted others' work progress. Isn't that a crime? Good and evil will eventually be rewarded, and there is no escape. Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. It's not like you don't report it. Not yet. It'll all be reported by then.